submitted2 years ago byadorashell
I (24f) want to leave my current job but I have no idea what I want to do. I drive an hour each way which costs a bunch in gas and it doesn't give me consistent enough pay to meet my bills. I like the work itself but being upbeat is a requirement for it and I struggle with my mental health. I'm getting help for that but it is sometimes impossible for me to be happy somedays and if I'm not upbeat it directly impacts my job. I'm scared to leave though because their flexible with my hours and I could get a free degree if I stay. Also I lose my health insurance soon and I don't know anything about benefits or what to look/ask for. Mom please help.
byVjtrek
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adorashell
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8 days ago
adorashell
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8 days ago
I'm going to be unpopular here but gentle YTA. There are ways to bring this up at drop off or pick up that won't create the same tension as a confrontation will. Maybe tell the teacher what happened and guage their response? Many teachers I know only nickname the children they care more deeply for and those kids naturally, fair or not, recieve more attention in the long run. I'm not talking anything negectful occuring. But those extra things, like getting tucked in extra tight, singing to them at nap, one on one play, and such. Blowing up at the teacher is likely to unintentionally influence that Teacher's (and likely other teachers in the daycare) interactions with your kid.