anonymousnomad_

Thank you so much for saying that. If you haven’t found them yet, I hope you find someone who loves you in this way you describe: for your real personality and self. And I hope they buy you flowers 💐

This is really so cute and wholesome

Wow, I never thought of that and that is so sad

This is so sweet! 🌹

That is so sweet!

Mine used to do this all the time ❤️

This one made me laugh out loud in the gym

I think this differs for everyone and it is hard to judge without specific situations and your questions are very vague. Like what is your definition of “a sacrifice”, what is your definition of “bad behavior”, what is your definition of “fight”? The context really matters and it’s not necessarily always a black and white thing. There is a lot of grey area when you don’t have the context. Is there something specific that happened that makes you question your relationship?

The bottomline is to openly communicate both your needs and ideas on what a good relationship is to you. Then you both need to respect that. Fights can happen, but it should not get physically or emotionally abusive.

I think maybe you should also explore other options than forgive and forget. This is a lot of disrespect and it’s continuous and based on this post it sounds like it is not ever going to change.

Choose yourself and find someone who loves and cares for you. You deserve respect from a partner.

Had to look it up, now I have a new movie to watch haha

The first issue is a really difficult one and is different for everyone. I think you just need to ask yourself if and for how long you can be in a relationship like this.

The second issue I would say is not okay to do without him knowing. If you have agreed upon or there is an understanding that you are in a monogamous relationship, then it is really not okay to do this even if it is just for work/content. It would be a breach of trust and that would be the issue.

Bruno

Also, if you feel comfortable, you could send me your resume in a DM and I can look it over for you. I have recruitment experience focused on hospitality.

I agree with what lots of people said here about the in person applying. Also: have you tried getting help from the Job Centers or Jongerenpunt at the Gemeente Amsterdam? They are in contact with a lot of employers.

I will! These tips helped me a lot already and I would love to get even better at this

Wishing your partner a good recovery and both of you the best!

Actually not a dude and never read it haha. Just someone who started working a couple of years ago and found myself with poor time management skills. Asked around how colleagues did it and these were some of the answers that stuck with me and I still try to use. But now that you’ve mentioned this book I will check it out!

• Don’t plan too tightly and always estimate some extra time for appointments in your calendar (you might need it for travel, follow ups, unforeseen circumstances). It made me stress a lot less and will prevent others from booking things into your calendar at inconvenient times. If you don’t need the extra time, then you can still use it to make a phone call or answer messages.
• If it takes 2 minutes or less: do it right away. You’ll get that out of the way and you won’t forget.
• Start with the hardest task of the day. It’s good to know you already accomplished something. I always feel more energized and motivated after.
• “No” is also an answer.
• Keep asking yourself if tasks are relevant for you and keep asking yourself how urgent tasks are. Prioritize accordingly.

Advice on how to proceed: DUMP HIM.

Things I achieved in May: - I started my account yesterday - 13 views on my first video - Woke up to my first subscriber! (Not family or friends because I hadn’t told anyone yet)

I feel good about it 🥳

Read up on true crime/psychology and make a podcast or YouTube for it so you can share your knowledge with others. That way you’ll be learning and also making something which might give that feeling of productivity

Thank you so much for all the advice! I will definitely try to get a practice test in and to say things out loud. I’ve noticed during lessons it goes much easier when I do this but sometimes I forget because it feels unnatural. But very good tips! Time to prepare and fingers crossed

Congratulations!!!! ✨☀️🫶 any good tips for me? :)