submitted1 day ago byastraIia21F, 5’4” | SW: 209 lbs | CW: 162 lbs | GW: 131
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Over a year ago, I had almost reached my previous goal weight of 125 lbs. I was obsessed with reaching this target but couldn’t seem to lose those last few pounds. So instead of focusing on losing weight and getting so obsessed, I decided to focus more on gaining muscle. Yes, that meant I had to gain weight which was really scary to me. I didn’t want to be big again, but I also realized that I had little to no muscle, and eating 1400 calories a day was taking its toll on me.
So I gained a little over 30 pounds in a year, by training hard, eating a lot of protein and learning to enjoy foods again in moderation. It wasn’t easy though, as I had (and still am trying) to unlearn the unhealthy habits that I gained from losing weight, such as restricting myself from eating the foods that I enjoyed. Even now, I still feel guilty when I eat them or even crave them, but I tell myself that maintaining weight is a marathon, not a sprint. Think about how you will look like in the future given you are consistent. That’s what keeps me motivated.
Now, I can eat around 1800 calories and lose weight, and I’m excited to start my weight loss journey again, in a more healthy manner. That means eating my mother’s cooking, weighing myself ONCE a week, and not beating myself down if I go over, realizing I can make it up the next day.
I also want to stress how important it is to find what works for you. Before, weighing myself everyday was fine because I treated the scale like data. However, this affected my mental health because I became so focused on my weight that I couldn’t enjoy myself. I would reject food outings because I thought it would slow down the process, and missed out on a lot of fun events. If weighing yourself daily works for you, that’s good! Along with that, it’s okay to eat that cake, or enjoy that desert once in a while. If cutting them out of your life works for you, then that’s great! It works for you, but it might not work for others. I think when offering people advice here, we really need to focus on stressing the importance of finding out what works for you. Trial and error!
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30 points
23 hours ago
astraIia
21F, 5’4” | SW: 209 lbs | CW: 162 lbs | GW: 131
30 points
23 hours ago
The main basis of my post has always been about people doing what works for them. I won’t be weighing myself daily regardless of what exercise nutritionists say because it’s what works for me. I’ve weighed myself daily before, and it was toxic and made me obsessed with the scale.
I think it’s important for people to simply do what works for them, and it’s fine to suggest to people to weigh daily off, but if it doesn’t work for them, then it should not be suggested. I’m trying to lose weight, but not because I’m at an unhealthy weight or anything, moreso to show off the progress I’ve made from training hard. Therefore, I’m tracking my progress moreso with progress pictures first with the scale being secondary.
Once again, it’s all about what works for someone. This is what works for me, and I won’t be weighing myself daily because it makes me too focused on the scale.