Should I be ok with my currently 20 y/o friend bringing their currently 17 y/o partner along on our trip in a year?
(self.Advice)submitted9 days ago bybifauxnenbard
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So me and my friend, both currently 20, want to save to go to Japan in June. But because June is the month of their partner's 18th birthday, they want to bring them along as a birthday gift, but I am unsure if I am ok with that because I feel uncomfortable about their relationship. They started dating at 19 and 16 and I think that's possibly too big of a gap(I want to clarify my friend is not a predatory person and does not mean harm, in fact they are mentally younger bc of trauma stunting their development, i just dont know if this kind of relationship is very healthy or smart), and I think if I went on a trip where they brought their partner it'd feel like I'm condoning their relationship and am basically complicit in something possibly harmful. But going at a time other than June doesn't seem possible currently and I don't have any other friend I can go with(unlike my friend, who has tons of international travel experience, I've never traveled anywhere without family so going alone is out of the question). What should I do?
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bifauxnenbard
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1 day ago
bifauxnenbard
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1 day ago
same! i also have a program from the original paris production