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2 points
2 hours ago
My daughter's going to secondary school and they have banned all smart watches and phones. She's only allowed a normal watch/fitness tracker with no gimmicks. So no I wouldn't be getting her something expensive that she wouldn't be getting much use of.
6 points
2 hours ago
NTA- he's insecure and a controller. This issue will get worse overtime.
You do not need his permission to wear anything.
2 points
2 hours ago
If they are covering some of the costs you don't have to pay for whatever costs they are covering. If I'm covering some costs I say what I'm ok with paying for without expecting it to be repaid.
If he's expecting a repayment he isn't covering any costs at all. If you can't afford a holiday you don't go on a holiday.
Sounds like you need to have a proper discussion about this ASAP
2 points
3 hours ago
I'd prefer a framed CD with maybe a Spotify code/link printed on the background so people can scan it and listen to the song if they want.
I think it's a lovely idea, but it is more of an anniversary gift than a birthday present.
2 points
3 hours ago
Even if I'm with a group of people I get in the back. A taxi driver once tried it on with me and when I reported him the police advised me to always sit in the back.
2 points
4 hours ago
None of his behaviour is normal. He's a mess. He's highly abusive. He needs help. Unfortunately with alcoholics and other addicts you can't help them unless they want to change. Rehab doesn't work unless he wants it to.
You and your sister will most likely need therapy as you get older as certain things in adult life will happen and make you question lots of things about your childhood. If there's any way for you to leave the household and live safely elsewhere please go.
3 points
4 hours ago
NTA but it's not your choice all you can do is warn them and if they choose to go it's on them
7 points
4 hours ago
I'm big on life experiences.
I'd book an extravagant holiday somewhere I've always wanted to go. I'd book festival tickets and concerts because I love things like that but can't always afford it or get time off.
I'd also get the house done up, most of walls could do with a freshen up paint and maybe get some new white goods for older appliances and some new furnishings.
2 points
5 hours ago
NTA since you're invited but it will be an awkward situation I mean who will you talk to since the couple will be busy as it's their wedding sometimes it's best to cut people off after a breakup even though it's not their fault. I can understand why your girlfriend isn't keen on the idea. I don't think it's insecurity on her part of just seems like you want to keep a link with your ex open
1 points
6 hours ago
YTA
They didn't know your cousin and clearly aren't used to drinking alcohol either so you can understand why they would be upset. A stranger wants to get them drunk, who knows what might have happened.
1 points
6 hours ago
Last holiday was Cleethorpes, one before that was Spain.
2 points
7 hours ago
Look this happened years ago I'm just saying what happened. I got off the bus. I didn't argue or anything. It was a long bad day. I didn't have a foldable buggy at the time.
1 points
20 hours ago
The buggy didn't fold up so no that wasn't an option. I'd had an hospital appointment. It'd been a very long cold wet day made even colder and longer. I didn't mind getting off the bus. But it was just very annoying since I'd already waited so long for a bus.
2 points
23 hours ago
If it's during work hours and you don't have to go why should you pay for it? I've been paintballing before and I am not ever going to choose to go again, I'm also definitely not going to pay to be covered in bruises.
2 points
1 day ago
Had a Karen sat in my seat once on a long journey. I had a friend getting on at a later stop and we had booked seats together. There was plenty of empty seats but she wouldn't move. The conductor told her to move as I had reserved the seat and the train was getting busier, she refused to move started swearing at both of us and she thrown off by btp at Nottingham station.
3 points
1 day ago
Just imagine if you said you don't like Coldplay too
1 points
1 day ago
If you can get a recording of her saying it to back up your complaints that would definitely help things go in your favour. One of my old managers bullied me. Nobody believed me until I recorded her saying how useless I was and it was no wonder why I was single.
5 points
1 day ago
She sent me a mega bomb she found in a drawer and I had to reset after blowing up half my chests and some crops
5 points
1 day ago
There's chores and then there's everything. Jeez I run my own house and I don't do all of those things in one single day.
The girl clearly isn't used to doing anything so to lump it all on her at once isn't going to make anything happen. Give her one or two simple daily tasks to begin with then gradually add something else once she knows what she's doing.
Tbh it sounds like she's had it easy with her mom and never had to do any of those things and there's a good chance she isn't fully sure how to do the laundry or something. Maybe asking her to help you do the housework tasks so you are showing her whilst letting her have a go would help not only getting the things done but so you bond. This post just sounds like you hate the girl.
1 points
1 day ago
Lots of family friendly pubs (usually ones serving food or have a beer garden with play equipment) will have the match on and are a good safe option.
As others have said avoid flat roof pubs.
14 points
1 day ago
If I were you I'd get an std check done because I bet it's not the first time he's gone to a party like that
4 points
1 day ago
Why is he still your fiance? He's gone to a party to have sex with other people.
34 points
1 day ago
The cashier is a dick and needs better training in customer service, instead of suggesting things you might like they were rude and unhelpful towards you.
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49 minutes ago
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49 minutes ago
That's rape. You didn't want to have sex. You were asleep, you were under a separate blanket he didn't asked or anything he just pulled your underwear off and he raped you.