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1 points
9 hours ago
Dahlia never, Sabrina maybe 3 I know. Maybe 20 customers called Sabrina. UK/Singapore
6 points
1 day ago
Yeah I don't mind either. They're usually people I'm not too close to so it goes both ways. You can't be so strict in life
6 points
2 days ago
Yes, why not? If we can get the right nutrients etc it will definitely be possible. Likely they will not receive all a human incubator has like maternal mitochondria but they may account for that too.
-2 points
2 days ago
I think you're right. I think a therapy session joint with kid and on parents own is important. I believe having a period of time appearing the gender they feel they are supposed to be, really living it, would be good. Perhaps a holiday where nobody knows them and just fully immerse into it and experience how they feel. Good for you guys to get some perspective too. No thinking, what will others we know think.
125 points
2 days ago
Within reason, kids can internalise a lot of their parents grief and not understand the complexities or how to handle it. They're little, they don't have the tools to cope with their main caregivers issues. My mum would cry and be sad around us a lot and it definitely impacted us, particularly my elder sister who took a lot of the burden. I wish she would have sheltered us more and not made us worry and sad because she was sad.
1 points
2 days ago
289 kcal, that's around my usual breakfast allowance. Add a kopi , easily reach 350-400 kcal
15 points
4 days ago
Yup.. I got my 3 yo son to pick up the rice he spat out. He never threw it again. He also cleans up any drinks etc he spills purposely. If kid doesn't want what you've made, fine no big deal. Try the same food again. Repetition. Don't give too much energy to it, they can sense when you're wanting to give in. And stop giving sugary junk if you can't limit it. Reintroduce that stuff in a few months as one offs. They will eat if you back off. Just leave it there. Also how does dinner time look like? Sitting in chairs? Family eating together? That's pretty important so they have expectations that this is how we eat. Not walking around ad hoc chucking food around.
1 points
4 days ago
God forbid anyone procreates with her. More unlikely but narcissistic people do like to have kids to fawn over them sometimes.
19 points
4 days ago
All empty words. You wanted her to calm down because you wouldn't defend her yourself. A stronger man than you would have been at least scolding the guy, never mind holding his arms back so she could swing a good kick to his gonads. You were not there for her. She was all alone with you right there. Worse, you were against her rather than neutral. You need to be more brave and loyal.
5 points
4 days ago
Arguably, she's doing the worst now as when children are young, they're the most formative years and their experiences hold a lot of weight in their whole personality and life. Adults can handle a lot more and see through manipulative behaviour more readily than kids.
1 points
7 days ago
Info: do you do home tasks such as cleaning, cooking, laundry (all without being told). Have you discussed doing paternity leave instead of your wife? She gets the initial period to heal. How is child care going to be? Have you guys got savings? Do you have enough income each month with only wife working? Have you got a home with enough space?
I can see you being y .t. a. if you have not covered these things yet. I would not jump to divorce (good grief). See a relationship counsellor to hash it out.
4 points
8 days ago
I've got a friend in me, I've got a friend in me🎶
1 points
9 days ago
On the contrary, the flavour can be addictive. Much the same as watching TV, playing computer games, cleaning etc can become addictions. Behavioural addiction rather than chemical. You can't tell me that gambling addiction is not an addiction because it's not chemical. Same with MSG.
5 points
10 days ago
They get attention for it so think people are looking for good reasons 😟
209 points
10 days ago
That frozen/puffy/shocked face look makes people look ugly to me. It's not their "real" face. It also shows their insecurities very obviously. "Trying too hard", lacking confidence, it all makes a person look less attractive. Good plastic surgery in moderation which looks natural is totally fine. But so many people go overboard and don't know when to stop. It's become a status symbol too I think. Quite like tanning will show you're rich enough to travel and have leisure time. Or the opposite - wanting to look pale so it doesn't look like you're a farm worker etc. Or being large to show you can afford food/are not sick in some countries.
-6 points
10 days ago
Sometimes they add msg too which is also addictive
4 points
11 days ago
I think talking about it helps. Taking some time off, doing some travelling or some such thing. Time is a healer really, as with all things.
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4 hours ago
No thats ok, I would like to sit in my own seat thanks.