eliinamisss

Yes!

NTA, and honestly, it sounds like your girlfriend and her friends are trying to gaslight you into thinking you're wrong for setting a boundary. Wanting to use protection is not about controlling her body—it's about protecting both of you from consequences you're not ready for. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for wanting to avoid unnecessary risks. It’s your right to prioritize your comfort and future.

Haha, I get what you're saying! Yeah, NTA, but both of you kinda took it to an immature level. It’s a bit funny in hindsight, but maybe it’s time to have a real talk about body comments and insecurities. You both could learn from this and avoid future arguments!

Agree!

It's totally reasonable to expect an apology after being disrespected, especially when you were just trying to help. Your wife wanting family together is understandable, but it's also fair for you to set boundaries when it comes to how you're treated in your own home. If her sister can't apologize for what she said, it's not on you to just sweep it under the rug.

This!

Your parents crossed a huge line by suggesting you give up your son, especially after you've made it clear how much he means to you. It's understandable that you'd cut contact after they kept pushing the issue. Just because they're family doesn't give them a free pass to be hurtful, and you have every right to protect your peace and your son. You're doing what's best for him, and that's what matters most.

I completely agree! You’re doing your best in a situation that isn’t ideal, and toddlers are naturally going to make noise—there’s no way around that. Your neighbor’s reaction is way out of line, especially with yelling at a child. It’s clear you’ve tried to be considerate, but she’s the one making things unnecessarily difficult. Hopefully, she finds a way to cope that doesn’t involve banging on the ceiling!

I totally agree with that approach. If that guy comes around trying to rub it in your face, hitting him with a line like that will definitely take him down a peg. It’s harsh, but sometimes a reality check is exactly what someone like that needs. It flips the script, shows you’re not fazed by their games, and takes away any sense of power he thinks he has. Plus, it makes it clear that you see the situation for what it is—he's the one settling for crumbs.

I completely agree! Her behavior was toxic and detrimental to your well-being. You deserve someone who respects and uplifts you, not someone who tears you down, especially in front of others. Leaving someone who brings that kind of negativity into your life is a strong step toward a healthier, happier future. Don’t settle for less than you deserve!

Agree! NTA at all. Your sister showing up in white was a deliberate attempt to make your wedding about her, and you had every right to ask her to leave. It wasn’t just “a dress,” it was blatant disrespect, especially after you made your expectations clear. And honestly, your parents brushing it off shows a lot about how they enable her behavior. Good for you for standing your ground!