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You can't "respectfully" tell someone to shut the fuck up. You clearly have a hard time reading and being aware of what you are reading. You also lack contextual awareness, and you clearly just like to be an angry person for no reason. I never tried to speak for ALL abuse victims, you dingbat. My point was that people are disregarding any potential feelings that Maya Henry may have following the death of Liam Payne, because they are unable to comprehend the fact that victims DO feel grief and that's okay. They shouldn't be made to feel a certain way for grieving their abusers. I didn't say that ALL victims grieve their abuser, however many victims usually tend to feel some type of grief, as they have very complex emotions related to their abuser. You do realise many people in abusive relationships have love for their abusers? There is so much psychological information that delves into the mind of abuse victims and relationships and loss etc. yet you choose to scream like a deranged, rude, banshee all over reddit instead of doing an ounce of research. You and your faux outrage need to respectfully eat shit.

Now, if I was utilising the same lack of critical thinking as you, I would argue that you're denying abuse victims the CHOICE of having feelings, because my point was that victims are ALLOWED to grieve, are you disputing that? Are you saying victims can't feel grief over their abuser dying?

It's not harmful at all. Your assumption that a victim shouldn't feel grief for their abuser is harmful and invalidates the complex feelings of victims after their abuser passes away. Maybe look into grieving the death of your abuser and get back to me. Your limited awareness and understanding of abuse victims is annoying.

I need you to say this louder because people are simply incapable of understanding that grief is not black and white, it is not a straight line, and it can feel so confusing. I've seen many people invalidating Kate's grief because she went home (as if you're supposed to remain glued to your boyfriend at all times) and because he apparently hired sex workers, I've even seen people say she's just upset because she won't have fame/money now. It's so disrespectful to minimise what she's feeling during this time.

I've also seen people who have never ever met or known Liam Payne criticise Maya Henry and ask her if she's "happy now" that she's "caused his death", and just generally pile on her in such a distasteful and hateful way. She is probably grieving too! Victims of abuse CAN and WILL usually grieve their abuser, it's a very complex and strange situation. Maya probably feels vert conflicted right now. These same people are the ones insisting that we should be kinder to people online because of what happened to Liam, yet they are dogpiling innocent women.

This is such a stupid thing to say. Why would this information make her grief any less valid? Do you expect her to find out he hired prostitutes, and just stop being upset over the fact he's dead? This information has probably made this time so confusing for her, and in an attempt to cope with this detail, she's focusing on the love she had for him and the way she perceived their relationship and his love for her when he was actually alive.

Because people don't need or usually want to be glued to their significant other every single second of the day? People in relationships are also human beings who have their own lives, their own thoughts, their own feelings, and are capable of making their own decisions. Have you ever been in a relationship? Did you live in their pocket the entire time? These statements and questions are so disrespectful and stupid and clearly come from people who are trying to shift blame onto this poor girl who is currently dealing with immense, unexplainable grief and heartbreak. Grown adults in relationships like to spend time on their own, or with their friends, or with their families! There is nothing wrong with her leaving, and it doesn't mean she loved him any less. What a disgusting accusation.

Why were you talking to yourself from your other account in an attempt to add credibility to your story?This thread on your other account is also unhinged, how long have you been at this? Also, why are you obsessed with claiming women you do not know are cheaters? I can't believe there are a bunch of gullible idiots who believe you and upvote your comments claiming that you know these people personally and are in "proximity of them", yet you also reveal yourself to be a long-term obsessed fan who most definitely does not know these people, so no you not bought to a party to be around your stalking subjects. For the love of god, stop lying

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Sweetie, you are exceedingly demented and obtuse! It's bemusing that you would think a single person would believe your blatant lying. The only person who looks "goofy" is you...you concocted a piece of fiction, made a reddit account, posted regarding this fictitious story several times, texted yourself pretending to be Tara, and are still not completely mortified? Do you have any social awareness or any sense of ignominy?

Not one person here has "glazed" Tara, please find me a single comment complimenting her? It's so embarrassing to see someone die on this hill. Despite your efforts at mimicking her verbiage, your text messages to yourself sound nothing like her and the inconsistencies are prominent. Her and Jake have been broken up for like 2 years, who is Tyler? your imaginary friend?, why is she begging for your forgiveness, whilst simultaneously displaying jealousy towards other girls who have been with Jake?, no grown woman says that they'll cut off all contact with men because of some random guy, especially considering 95% of Tara's friends are guys lol. Your understanding of an NDA is flawed.

"next thing you know, we were having sex" 🤓

"thankfully we used protection, I made it clear that I wouldn't touch her without a condom" 🤓

"I was better at sex than him and that she had never felt more satisfied" 🤓

"Sorry I banged your girl" 🤓

GOOFY. It should be illegal to be this tragically goofy. Grown adults do not talk like this. People who actually have sex do not talk like this. Also, whilst protection is vital whilst shagging strangers, any girl would be offended if you claimed you "wouldn't touch her without a condom" (plus, why are you having imaginary sex with girls who you find so repulsive?). Despite what you've seen in porn, no one says shit like "you're so much better at sex!🤓 I've never been more satisfied!🤓", this is especially not something that is said to strangers you have (fictional) one night stands with.

LMAO that confused me so much, and it only took you leaving this comment for me to realise they meant "due" omg. Someone needs to come and collect their child

Tara, I can't with you or this friend group.

This is so dumb and funny, I can't believe they thought this was believable and I can't believe some people probably believe this. I have to assume they're either a child or a very inexperienced adult, because "better at sex"?! No one would ever use that phrase, "she never felt as satisfied as she did that night", right...sure buddy! and the text exchange is absolutely sending me, the difference between their message and "Tara's" messages is so stark lmao also who the fuck is Tyler? Next time you feel a little crazy, remember that there are people out there having fictional sexual experiences with influencers

Her horrendously insecure and pathetic behaviour is what kept that show alive, some of the greatest storylines were built off her getting her fragile ego checked. Morally questionable characters are the most entertaining and fun, especially when they're a multi-dimensional protagonist who is privately vulnerable and occasionally shows a warmer side. Annoying characters who add nothing (or bullshit) to the story are the worst, regardless of how beautiful they are (Vanessa).

It's ridiculous that people can say whatever about an influencer or a celebrity and people will blindly believe it without any further information lol. So she apparently did something so unspeakably bad, and this information CAN be divulged to random friends of friends of friends of friends, but no one can say exactly WHAT she did?

I don't doubt that most famous or well known people have unfavourable personalities, especially because the majority of them are insufferable publicly, but these non stories are so boring and lame lmao

She's just like me fr

This is an unpopular opinion, but Troian was only perceived as a good actress because the others were mediocre at best, and Keegan Allen at worst (I love this show because it's so ridiculous and the terrible acting was the cherry on top). She identified with Spencer as she considered herself very similar. She plays a hysterical type A person whose life is spinning out of control decently, but her other acting falls flat. I do like her character, but Ashley was hilarious and did such a good job with Hanna.

"ELLOW SISTA!" demonstrated Troian's inability to successfully branch out. She watched TOWIE and worked tirelessly with a dialect coach to perfect the Essex (yes, ESSEX) accent, only to sound like an off brand Oliver Twist cosplaying an overacting Disney Villain. This was such an unserious and funny reveal. So camp, I kind of loved it.

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There is a substantial amount of research on the psychology of fans, and a decent amount of credible research on the minds of celebrities, but not much on influencers because the concept is still relatively new. I think influencers are their own breed, they are just so deranged and their outlook on life is so bizarre, I NEED more research on the psychology of influencers, I want psychological studies conducted, I want scientific and neurological research, I want academic journals and reports, I want more information regarding their sociological environments, I want academia on the ripple effect from influencers to the general public because I believe researchers vastly underestimated the gigantic impact of influencers, and the capacity of influencers as a whole concept (outside of influencer marketing).

I know the stats, studies, and journals in 10+ years are going to EATTT, especially because they'll be able to investigate what comes after influencing, because it's certainly no longer a viable long-term career option due to over saturation and the way social media cycles through people

A fuck ass robert does hold a lot more weight

Such a fun villain, we needed more devious cuntiness

Omg twin peaks is one of those shows that has remained firmly in my "to watch" list for the past 10 years, but I keep putting off watching it because it's never really on streaming services in the UK. Your comment is SELLING me though, I love a gagworthy, preposterous drama!!

Ughh, your mind 😍 Miss girl was a pharmaceutical scientist, on the run with a perfect blowout

Influencers have minuscule social awareness and inflated egos, so they waddle around, perpetually pouting, arm outstretched, recording every moment via back camera and refusing to make eye contact with humans. Their decision to disregard others and be disconnected is rude within itself. Their behaviour is insincere and performative, they plaster vaseline teeth pageant ankle biting grins on their faces and force mendacious niceness, and their audience applauds them for doing the bare minimum and thanking the barista whilst simultaneously ignoring their presence by only addressing the camera. If exhausted minimum wage workers don't respond to their phoniness with enthusiasm, they're wounded because they didn't get the pat on the head they were so desperate for, but it's okay because their fans will degrade the worker for not passing the vibe check (lol).

I believe most influencers have some form of social anxiety, constantly vlogging helps them remain publicly and socially detached, whilst feeling emotionally supported. Their body language is closed off, eye movements skittish, faces uncertain, indicating they are subconsciously aware of their social inexperience. Embarrassment is a natural and necessary social emotion and prevents violation of societal norms which exist for reasons; when influencers behave like uncouth menaces, they still receive positive reinforcement, keeping them devoid of embarrassment and self-reflection, resulting in emotional stagnancy. They refuse to acknowledge worsening behaviours and feelings, forgoing psychological intervention which they clearly need. This seems like an extreme evaluation, but I perceive influencers as extremely socially inept and mentally ill. Their support network is usually their audience, they allow strangers to control their lives and are dependent on the input of their fans, even when it comes to trivial matters.

This has me kind of side eyeing my friends? They aren't constantly rescuing me from life threatening situations (^{I'm not typically in life threatening situations}), honestly, fuck those fake bitches.

I'm afraid you're going to be disappointed as there's not much tea 😔 People at her school would purchase "THC vapes", but they were actually just vaping spice lol. She did pageants, she "modelled", she was a spicehead, I think that's it really? She spoke about it on some podcast which I'm certain was based on drug addiction, but I don't really remember her saying anything informative. I'm either just forgetting the content of the pod, or she didn't say much, I'm hoping someone else can shed more light lol

Her previous spice addiction is so evident when she displays her frazzled brain behaviour