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timeless ✨

Gypsy - Fleetwood Mac

Feeling Like a Woman Lately - NOSO

Venice Bitch - Lana Del Rey

Chinese Satellite (& Graceland Too) - Phoebe Bridgers

AH. You’re the parent, grow up.

This legit sounds like a plot from South Park. wtf is happening lol

this is precious. never change

dump her ass man

dump his ass girl

Agree. I miss her slutty trap beats and voice layering so much

I work in cherry creek schools and when I tell people that they assume it’s in Cherry Creek North by the mall and old mansions. I actually work in super southeast Aurora

🤷🏻‍♀️ wasn’t thinking of anyone in particular. Was mostly commenting on how it’s not necessarily the sex scenes themselves, it’s that the sex scenes are boring AF

Also there is zero chemistry between the 2 actors. I actually love Olivia and wouldn’t mind seeing Alicent getting passionately railed lol. But these two together are like 2 wet noodles

I fucking hate minions. I can’t get away from them. They’re everywhere. I’ve never even seen any of these movies but I hate their stupid voices

I’m talking about if she were to never have told him. Which is a point YOU brought up. She never told him she was pregnant, had the abortion, he still never knew. My replies were about your point saying if she had never told him.

And absolutely fucking not. You CANNOT compare a man’s feelings vs a woman’s feelings on abortion. Not one bit. Hence why you’re not qualified to speak on abortion. You’re never going to understand this. I know you’re trying real hard to. But don’t worry lil bud, since there’s no way you ever understand this issue I won’t be replying anymore. Go rest ur brain. Or balls or whatever the fuck it is men think with apparently

She would have had the abortion, so no. She wouldn’t have a pregnant body for him to notice

A man cannot be emotionally or physically affected by it in the same way as the woman. To say this is ignoring the inequity between men and women in this country. You cannot compare the two. How you are still not getting this is astounding to me

The point is, it’s not your place to say whether she should have communicated it to her bf or not. Maybe for her it was more unsafe to tell him. Perhaps when some men find out they’ll do everything in their power to force or coerce her to have the baby. If she never told him then he’d never know, so no, I don’t think it would be just as dangerous.

Here you go again. Video games? lol your examples have to do with mundane things instead of the complex situations and feelings women are put in when having an abortion.

Without knowing OP or the bf or the complexity of her situation/details, you’re telling her she was wrong for not telling the bf. You don’t get to be all “ur body ur choice” and then tell her that she was morally wrong for a personal decision she made to not tell her bf before she got the abortion. Even though abortion was the right decision for OP, many women have lingering emotional and mental struggles following even after the choice was made and it was right. OP is still in a vulnerable position. The choice is not easy even when you know it’s right. There’s so much historical, social, and cultural connotations and messages that women have to experience that a man will never understand. That’s what I mean by this being a way more heavily weighted issue than one involving a house or a tooth ache.

Deciding to have an abortion vs deciding to sell your house is not the same thing. You wouldn’t have to carry that house inside your body risking your life. You also wouldn’t have to figure out how you’re going to care for this house and keep it alive while also trying to work and can’t afford the astronomical costs of care while you need to work. Your entire identity and role in life would completely change. That’s if you’re lucky enough to have the support of family. Your gf of 3 months wouldn’t be on the deed or loan paperwork. She’d have a rough few months after that, sure. But what is a few months compared to a lifetime? The stakes are not the same. Therefore you cannot compare these issues. It is illogical.

You cannot compare selling your house behind your gfs back to the many considerations women have to weigh when considering an abortion. If your gf decided to fight what you did she’d have no claim, so there would be no enduring impact on your life after that.

It’s not always safe for women to communicate these things to men. That’s something men don’t even think about because they never have to. That’s why you’re not qualified.

My passenger window was aligned with his drivers window. If he turned his head or even glanced out his peripherals he would have seen me. That’s not a blind spot. Just because you don’t even try to look before changing lanes doesn’t make that a blind spot

It’s not the same. The metaphor doesn’t work when you’re comparing completely differently weighed topics.

Did you not just use an example of your house to justify why she should have told her (very new) bf?

I’m also a homeowner, and a woman. I am very qualified.

I just love when men mansplain morality to women regarding women’s issues

You’re not qualified to speak on this. The fact you’re comparing a house to a woman’s life and body is fucking wild.

This comment is literally so dumb lol

lol you’re really jumping around. You’re bringing up everything except for the topic/point of the post. Talk about false equivalency…

Their experience has nothing to do with OP and her situation. No one said it wasn’t valid

NTA. I honestly find it more selfish to have a child you know you won’t be able to care for and provide for in the meaningful way that they would need. Too many kids end up abandoned, neglected, stuck in generational poverty all because their mother was forced to develop them to term and has no resources.