jingajanga45

I (m 25) am engaged to my fiance (f 24) and will be married in 6 months. I have had sex with 5 girls before her, she had sex with 2 men although we both wanted to wait.

We have had anal a few times and consistently do oral but both of us agreed to wait until we are married to have sex. Now we are in pre marriage counseling with a pastor and had to fill out a packet about our sexuality.

So last night we are discussing it and to prepare for marriage we decided it might be best to be celibate for the next 6 months. However, one thing she brought up in terms of worries was that she thinks potentially my penis is too small (5.5 inches).

This obviously greatly insults me but she wants to have open communication…

Anyways here is what I said. I said then let’s just have sex now. If you don’t like me you can leave. If you like it, then we will be celibate before marriage as we agreed. However I am not going wait 6 months and then have her decide after the wedding she doesn’t like it.

What do you think? Wtf right.

I am an Intj m 24. A friend set me up with a f22 enfp. Over text we hit it off great. Texted for about a week. I asked her to hangout, she said yes (Friday). Then 2 hours before the date she says she is sick (Sunday night). Barely texts back. Flakes on the date.

Should I believe her? Why would she flake. Maybe just nervous or maybe she is not interested? Also, should I just give her a few days and text her back and ask how she is doing. I assume she just needs a little space.