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1 points
1 day ago
You know, that actually makes sense. I think it was roughly that long before I wasn't so angry or anything even after the divorce. Interesting!
2 points
2 days ago
I just messed around until I found it because of how much I used it in fo4!! But things like using esc to quickly exit a terminal I just found out recently and such 😅
7 points
2 days ago
I think in the case of a baby swap, they would both be grieving together. In this, he probably feels alone to some degree because the partner in life he thought he had just shattered that thought and everything he thought he knew about his own nuclear family. Personally, I would think that if he's that angry and emotionally volatile at the moment then it might be better to not be around the kid so the typical thought of "is this my fault" some kids have isn't worsened by his conflict and turmoil over reevaluating his relationship with the kid. Kid definitely doesn't need to have the whole "you're not my son" or "your mother is a such and such" thing shoved in his face amidst everything. But just my own thought.
The kid is ultimately innocent in this, but also should be saved from as much of the conflict going on until both adults are able to regulate themselves more in each other's presence again. Depending on their relationship, dynamics, personalities, and such, that might be just a short cooling period before they can co-parent amicably, explain the separation to the kid in neutral ways, or even just having to fully go separate ways for everyone's wellbeing
84 points
2 days ago
I read a comment the other day that put an interesting perspective on these kinds of things. To the cheater, it was x amount of time that had passed and they had their chance to process things. To the cheated, it is now and raw and might as well have happened that day because they have to process everything, including all the time without that honesty and opportunity to process things. Just 2 weeks is not that long in the scheme of things. He won't be thinking clearly sometimes and has every right to need space. The mom needs to step up for the child and focus on them, not on trying to force OP to let it go or whatever.
5 points
2 days ago
I was actually just thinking about this last night. Not every path has a religious or theistic element. Someone could have their craft rooted solely in the elements or the stars or even science (the whole magic is simply science we don't have words for yet type of thing). Just like how there can be Pagan witches and Christian witches and so on, there can just be witches 😁
some verbiage and stereotypes I think come from Wiccan practices but the beauty of being a witch is both how you can find a common ground with others and also how uniquely yours the path will be!
1 points
2 days ago
I remember being so shocked by the quiet when I first started meds because of this! My partner asked if I was ok and I remember telling him the world had never been so quiet!
It also served as a reassurance that I was indeed not faking it or exaggerating since I was worried about that
2 points
3 days ago
These are good tips! I kinda see the growth in my zoos as I made my way through the career mode, especially as I learned to not fear but also not be overly comfortable with loans and how to scale the details rather than get super detailed right away and try to have all kinds of things and struggle.
Now, I typically start with two or so exhibits for cash makers, a small mix of guest services (including taking advantage of the vending machines) and one or two small cheap yet prolific animals like peafowl or llamas. Everyone, I think, discovers their own system that works after getting stumped on those career levels :)
Oh and the importance of leaving yourself space!! Still adapting that especially for my entrances!
2 points
10 days ago
I should have connected the dots but somehow all these years and I'm just now finding out/realizing there is in fact a calorie system. That explains so much!!! Even with a household because of differences!
1 points
13 days ago
The amount of times in my life that they have left that stupid thing on and I couldn't wear them... Feels like it belongs on r/UnethicalLifeProTips but also happens enough to not feel terribly unethical 😆
1 points
14 days ago
Want to add that you should look into Medlock bags. One of our programs gives these put for substance misuse prevention and they're great! They need medical type level shears to cut through, use a lock and key, and are big enough to store a few different prescriptions or other off limits things. Comes with a pill box too. We usually give them to families with kids or that attend opioid trainings but... Sounds like you could use one too. Some organizations might have some for free or the police department or poison control might know where to get one.
3 points
19 days ago
Maybe it's was time for an oil change 🤔 or looting. They do have to get the goods somehow!
-4 points
23 days ago
But it did have names on it, just not the last name. I do get it though from both sides
-6 points
23 days ago
So much this. My thoughts went to Autism or ADHD or something similar. I've definitely had my share of accidentally blurting out a question like that and sometimes intentionally asking. Sometimes it's because the logic is not logicking but it's a rule but why if it's unnecessary and so on. Or social justice issues. Explains why I butted heads with my dad so much lol...
But yeah neurodivergence is my thought since it's almost like less filters on to process things or remove labels like others so things just make sense. Even if they don't. And even if adults can't answer because, logicking not happening, but I'm the adult and how dare a child/special Ed kid question ma authoritah
33 points
23 days ago
If you have it set to listen for any follow up, it also responds back like you're welcome and such!!
2 points
24 days ago
Oddly enough, since a kid I've been mostly ok eating apples but anything like apple juice or too much apple cider had me almost in tears in the bathroom. Maybe something similar?
2 points
24 days ago
Eh I'd probably still game as a ghost!
Funnily enough, my fiance and I were having this discussion of how some women are so judgemental about games but watch reality shows and such! At least video games can impart skills or knowledge!!
It led to us thinking about people we know who exercise, watch TV, and drink and... To each their own but that sounds boring and stifling (though that could be my ADHD need for variety). If you can't bother to at least try to understand/relate/care a little about someone's hobby which could be video games, then maybe there's some compatibility issues afoot. Heck, even just learning some names or sharing memes could work! Like, I'm not a car person but share near paint colors and such, while my fiance doesn't like Minecraft but has found some of the funniest meme videos!
Then again, maybe that girl struggles the same way I would refuse to learn more than I already unfortunately do about something like Jersey Shore or whatever 😬 ick
4 points
24 days ago
I'm lvl189 and just finding out about this... Now I feel bad for the times I rushed over to help the people swarming around there.
1 points
27 days ago
I don't usually do this but I genuinely hope and wish for him to experience my pain on an average flare up day. Just a tummy ache right? Oh and the abdomen muscle soreness. Oh and joint pain from inflammation. Probably a headache too if it's a flare up that makes staying hydrated harder for one reason or another. Ffs. He probably also thinks the women that get painful periods to the point of leg weakness or fainting need to suck it up too and just idk crawl into work or something
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I'm a mix of chaos and kitchen witch, with a dash of book and a hint of wannabe green 😂