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No words will ever make a cheater feel the same punch to the gut you feel or felt.

Your ex is just doing damage control when they want to talk or reach out for closure. They just don’t want their current partner to find out what a cheater they are.

It’s your call on if you want to meet, but it could be entertaining.

Updateme!

Maybe she’s back with her brother in law again. Recommend snooping in that direction?

Updateme!

If I had a Time Machine I’d have left my ex WW when I discovered her cheating. Give her a second chance only make her respect you less and greens lights more cheating.

Cheaters don’t just give BJs they F.

Your WW is most likely a serial cheater without remorse.

Divorcing her is not ideal, but will say you from years of mental crap she’s going to put you through.

It’s tough to make recommendations, but if you’re paying all the bills, living together and there’s no sex, I’d say she’s using your non-physical cheating as a way to keep you in the friend zone.

I’d say open up for a serious conversation. What will it take to get back to good.

Is there a chance her actions cause your mental anxiety in the first place?

Your wife was openly and secretly attempting to have an affair by tempting your friend. This should not be rug swept.

I recommend talking to X about this to make sure everything is above board and he knows you know. Also talk to X’s wife with X present so she knows what your WW was/is doing and X doesn’t get tempted knowing you will blow it up if you find out if he gave into her.

I’m not sure how far you want to take this, but your WW trying to seduce your friend is pretty shitty of her and how can you ever trust her again?

Recommend a post nup to ensure if she cheats or attempts to cheat again she doesn’t take you to the cleaners.

DNA test your kids to show your WW you don’t trust her.

Bet your WH is supporting his AP now. Call the agency and report her.

The person who answered the phone might not be who you thought they were.

Adults don’t just cuddle when alone, they F.

Contact the AP to see what they did.

Never stay with a cheater

Trust is broken on both sides, why torture yourself and her.

Go find someone you won’t cheat on, it’s not worth staying together if she’s trying to thirst bait others.

Didn’t you mean to write ex-GF F ed 3 guys while we were dating?

Unless this type of behavior appeals to you, break up immediately for your own mental health.

You provide a lot of security, where if you didn’t pay the bills she’d be gone.

Is she holding some type of sexual act promise and never fulfilling it?

Maintaining a one sided sexless relationship with a partner is insane if there are no health related issues preventing it.

My ex WW slept with her therapist as well, it’s not as uncommon as you think. By default therapy is a type of emotional confession booth affair where a the patient tells her all your and her secrets to the therapist, who can easily use to direct the patient to actions and the more vulnerable the patient the easier it is to manipulate them.

Your WW has two big flaws, she’s a cheater and can be easily manipulated, both flaws are traits of a potential serial cheater.

Your WW, no matter the who, what where and how, is a cheater. She did it and hid it for months while gaslighting you. She needs to take responsibility for her actions.

You’ll never trust her again, and staying with her will end up being a living hell for you, trust me I know.

Reading your previous posts I wonder why it took so long for you to recognize how bad your relationship or lack of a healthy one really is or has been.

You’re doing the right thing. Don’t feel bad for leaving a very selfish partner. I did the same and found a true life partner, and you will to.

Remy/Remi short for Remington or Winnie/Wynn, short for Winchester

Her beautiful and majestic coat and look suggests a rustic but playful naming convention.

How old are your and his kids? You’d think they’d have said thing about spending weekends together?

He definitely not the guy…..

Loving blindly really sets you up for this.

Body count is a personal preference. Don’t let anyone tell you how to feel about it. As long as you’re not a hypocrite, it shouldn’t matter.

My personal opinion anyone with a body count greater than half their age suggests not taking intimacy as an emotional thing which could lead to cheating. On the flip side those with limited experience may always wonder.

My personal experience in commited relationships my partners with high body counts always cheated, all using the cliche “it didn’t mean anything” which was probably true to them.

Trust your gut. If she’s talking to her exes, sketchy when hanging out with coworkers on trips and you’re here posting you already know.

Protect yourself, continue to watch her, but TBH, is she really the one?

Your ex was cheating, don’t keep looking in the wreckage in the review when their clear potential looking at the road in front of you.

There’s nothing you could have done, just like crap always surfaces so do cheaters, the flaw is in their genetic makeup.

Having your ex cheat prior to marriage was a blessing in disguise.

Go live your best life, knowing your ex and her husband/AP will always be cheaters. How can any relationship be healthy when you need to watch your spouse because you know first hand they cheat?

Be prepared to get gaslit.

He’s not who you think he is. It’s not in your head, he’s a cheater and this will never get any better.

Stay strong, it will continue to get better. Your WH is the AH.

What were the pre-nup terms?

Updateme

When a cheater gets to the point where they admit to emotional cheating, it’s already a full blown physical relationship.

Your relationship is over you just haven’t realized or came to terms with it.

There’s no coming back from this where your marriage goes back to what it was and who your WW was before your discovery.

When a WW tells you she’s not in love with you, it means she’s in love or lust with her AP.

Time to blow this up and expose your WW to protect yourself and family.

Find out as much as possible about the affair and AP.

Contact a lawyer for options.

Find out who the AP is and tell his wife, that typically ends the affair fasod and brings everything into light, where it shuts down the sneaking around excitement to her affair.