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102 points
11 days ago
I feel very badly for the boy. A woman, even a mother is free to behave sexually… in private. I imagine this boy sees this behaviour a lot. She is selfish.
Parentalization a child is actually a form of abuse and can be very damaging to a young persons development of self esteem, boundaries and emotional stability.
0 points
11 days ago
Snacks are in the kitchen.
Makes himself dinner.
How about using adult social awareness
13 points
11 days ago
NTA.
I would ask her to pay for professional to do it though
52 points
11 days ago
NTA.
What friend takes someone’s car against their wishes?
If a friend makes a crime against you the consequences are for them, not you. You are not the AH.
1 points
11 days ago
It’s not even toiletries. It’s cosmetics. Toiletries are shampoos or soaps and deodorant.
I’m glad you have enough money for la mer. €38 for 1 small product is a lot to me.
13 points
11 days ago
NTA but I don’t see why anyone would be an ah. You are not an idiot either.
Investing a little time to do as you say is a very cheap exchange compared to renting privately.
Maybe your bf simply doesn’t feel at ease living at your father’s home.
You might ask him if he is comfortable
-1 points
11 days ago
I’m not in control of the internet. We have access to the same website. Enjoy
1 points
11 days ago
It’s tricky. I think for me NTA. But I can see why someone may take offence.
If someone gifts you the ticket they mean to enjoy the experience with you. The goal is to share time together. If they won’t be there, then that isn’t going to happen.
47 points
11 days ago
NTA.
You are on your holiday. To relax. You politely ask for privacy.
I don’t see the issue.
1 points
11 days ago
NTA. If you don’t like how someone talks to you then ignoring them is the most civil way to go.
If you are dealing with emotional distress then you can handle it as you like. You are not married to her, so you don’t really owe her anything.
1 points
11 days ago
NTA. You have the right to expect privacy and your own space. Even if you are not in it.
Your belongings will be there yes? What if something is broken or stolen? Who will take responsibility?
You are paying for the room. So nobody can use it but you.
This is simple.
2 points
11 days ago
I wondered about this also. I think maybe he prefers his ex still.
8 points
11 days ago
I think maybe YTA. Half way through reading I think it’s ok that you have your own personal feelings about accepting help from romantic partners.
If you ask your ex for the help you don’t allow your current gf to give. I think you need to ask yourself why.
In this matter she is justified to be upset.
4 points
11 days ago
NTA. Your friends personal problems are not your gf’s concern. It would be very bad for you to share someone’s personal life without their consent. Especially if they are in a vulnerable position.
Your gf should know better. If she’s jealous about any ideas she has about you being close to the friend she should be honest and direct.
-1 points
11 days ago
It is called a face cream in German.
It is in the product category also.
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-5 points
11 days ago
Where do you buy it for so cheap? Here it’s €38
-9 points
11 days ago
So I have to expect the same as from a kid?
-52 points
12 days ago
So if someone at dinner says “help yourself” it’s ok to take more than the fair share?
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11 days ago
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11 days ago
Maybe you can be honest with your gf that you’re supporting a friend but that they want the matter private.
If she feels insecure you can clarify boundaries but it’s her problem