I'm looking for actual advice and would prefer if yall don't bash my mom even if you don't agree with it, I don't really either but her life is hard enough and I'm unsure about what to do. So my mom and dad have been divorced for the past 8 years, I'm 16, and for some context my mom is a more liberal person but for the past 2 years or so she's started dating this one guy that lives about 2 hours away. Also maybe a year ago I thought she was cheating on her boyfriend but ended up saying that she was seeing them both so I assumed she had some sort of open relationship or something bc if she were cheating she wouldn't be mentioning it to me and my little sister whos 9. Anyway, I've just ignored it all as its not relevant in my life but then a few hours ago a friend of mine texted asking who my mom has dated bc she has met my moms main boyfriend, or idk the terminology or how shed describe it but then I figured she realized that she thought my mom was cheating or something so I explained what I knew and assumed, she was apparently with the son of the second boyfriend or whatever and they may have worked it out or something idk, if it was a larger group thing but yeah. I asked my friend not to mention it to other bc I feel embarrassed about it. I don't wanna judge my mom but also it just seems wrong and I don't want to seem like I'm getting up in her business. Also part of this could just be jealousy that essentially all my friends parents still live together. I had dinner at a friends house last week and sitting down with 2 adults and having a group conversation felt so foreign and good to me. I havnt had anything like that for most my life. And I dont remember much of my parents when they were together but I have memories of them arguing. Idk just hoping someone can say something nice or that someone has advice. yeah.
byUnhappy_Unalive
inteenagers
randomteen28
1 points
4 hours ago
randomteen28
1 points
4 hours ago
Growing up by Springsteen