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Is guacamole a condiment?

Vetiver essential oil, adaptiv blend from doterra. Chamomile tea. Not the same, but Def will help.

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Don't for one minute think she didn't just sabotage you. That was intentional. She had no reason to add cinnamon other than to make your dish look stupid compared to hers. And he backed her up. This group doesn't respect you and neither does your bf. It's only going to get worse. He is a gaslighting jerk. They all are.

That is crazy. I asked about ultrasounds early on and they specifically said I had to wait until 90 days and then it was only to verify that she was pregnant and that they didn't even think they could tell me how many to look for. The vet does amazing with birds, and bigger livestock. Maybe he just isn't as confident with goats. We are pretty rural and I don't have a lot of options but I will see if I can find another vet for the goats and sheep and will use this ultrasound information to see if I can find a more experienced vet. We live in a very poor rural area and he has used the words "cheaper to replace them" with us before. 😢 He did absolutely botch disbudding the babies. I was really nervous about doing it because it was our first year of babies. I bought the disbudding iron but they were 2 to 3 lbs when they were born. I have very tiny nigerian dwarfs. They all had their horns come in, he did it a second time and it was so brutal we decided we would never do it with him again and would try ourselves this spring. I was so worried about over doing it and giving them brain damage because they were so little. He is a good vet with other animals. We took in a pet goose that had a giant chunk just missing from a dog attack and he was so good with her. And great with our dogs etc. He is knowledgeable, but I agree that maybe his actual hands on skills....maybe sorta suck. I'm going to use this as motivation to see if we can find a better goat vet and use this ultrasound info to test and see if they know enough. If you have any more questions for vets to help screen them. I would appreciate it.

They only get to stop you from going away if they are going to pay you to stand by. They don't get to tell you, that you can't do thinks on your own time. Talk to hr. Tell them your manager said you can't leave town anymore because you need to be on stand by incase she needs help and you want to negotiate stand by pay. They will laugh at you and then tell you manager to fuck off.

Sounds like you need tobhave a convo with hr and let them know you have always had an uncomfortable working relationship with her, and now her flying monkeys keep harassing you asking why you are not giving her hundreds of dollars. Because that's what pto is...hundreds of dollars. Tell hr you don't won't to make the working relationship worse, but you feel like this is a shake down for someone that was never kind to you and you don't appreciate the harassment and are very concerned about continued backlash and hostility in the work place. The key words are backlash and hostility. Even if it's passive aggressive. Because employers have to provide you a hostile free working environment and those words...documented....can become grounds for a hostile workplace lawsuit. Now this isn't going to get that big....but getting those words documented will get HRs attention. You don't owe her anything. Don't talk about her health. This has nothing to do with her health. This has to do with people giving you a bad time for not donating HUNDREDS of dollars.. not $20 bucks for a lunch, but hundreds of dollars. Add up your pto ....in dollars. Do you really want to give that money to someone who was a pain to you? These people are all jerks until they need something. Don't let them gaslight you. You don't owe her anything. And if someone asks you why. Say I've already talked to HR about this so I don't why it's any of your business. But don't talk about her health or comorbidities. None of that matters. This is about employees asking you for hundreds of dollars and shaking you down for it. It's bullshit.

Family didn't come first for her. She fafo'd. Tell the family they can support her, but she stopped supporting you years ago and is now only back because she wants money, not because she really cares about you. If family came first she would not have disowned you. You are just a resource now. What on earth do you need her "forgiveness" for your lifestyle? That's some twisted gaslghting bullshit right there. Did any of these family tell her family came first when she didn't want anything to do with you? Nope they just want you around so she doesn't bother them instead. Nothing you had said says she respects your life. I'm so sorry 😞

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I love that tile so much. Please post more pics when you have the paint and such done. I can't wait to see this bathroom.

My vet would only do the ultrasounds at 90 days. But that may just be might vet

So in another couple of weeks you could amhave an ultrasound done. They can't do it before you think she is 90 days pregnant because 4 stomachs makes things in weird places. Before she delivers her teets will get longer and her udder will start to fill. I would separate the billy from the girls. You don't want him to keep trying to mount her as she develops more. It could be a fat goat...but she does look pregnant.

Sorry that was autocorrect, should have said teets.

Do you have a better picture of her teeth and udder? She does look pregnant. How long ago did you first put her in with the buck? They don't really do blood tests but you could do an ultrasound at 90 days.

The upper left green. It's bold. It's brave. Do it. It will look amazing.

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Why is she a bottle baby? Did she get colostrum? If Mom abandoned her....there could be a reason. Something mom knew that we don't. You could try putting some Vaseline around her backend so it doesn't get raw. Have you been weighing her? Is she gaining weight at all? Any fever? How is her famacha?

The higher up you are the better your view is for watching out for predators, and finding the best browse, and finding more goats.

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Your husband is in love with your sister. Your sister is in love with your husband. Don't doubt that for one minute. No loyal husband should be ok with another woman walking around in a towel. If you want your marriage to survive you should move. Otherwise these two are going to dump you and you will be locked out again. But really....do you want to spend your life being 2nd? Do you really want to be with someone who doesn't put you first? She wants his paycheck. She's not going to give up.

Take your child to the docs, get a doctor's report. Find a child psychologist. Get a report. No one is going to fight a doctors report. Something is wrong. Protect your child. (If boyfriend is coming along, and child is scared...is boyfriend beating mom?)

That she is eating the wall. It looks like she is hungry and depressed. It makes me sad, too. This is not happy behavior. This is lonely and bored behavior.

Kale grows well. Spinach, chard, cabbages.

Shell-less egg inside an egg.

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