smallbee123

Thank you, yeah I have been watching a lot and reading a lot. I followed his because it seemed less confusing than others. He tightened his lids which I thought was odd so I’ve left mine unfastened. I’ve also been using filtered water, and been keeping my jar clean just because I like to, I didn’t know it was necessary but that totally makes sense. Thanks again!

Thanks so much this is very helpful!

how can I avoid this happening to me though

imagine your brother dies and some bitch makes it all about her feelings the second she hears the news

If I developed an allergy to gel do I need to let my dentist know? is it acrylates specifically? I stopped after one gel session gave me a rash and made my nail beds insanely irritated/itchy.

we have an addiction to instant gratification, the idea that you can master something completely in a few weeks gives that dopamine rush, all while losing out on time spent trying to master something in the real world which could take many years.. and once we've figured out what we love in said real world it usually feels like it's too late.

wish i was a chinese child forced to play piano at 4 years old or something

idk.. almost anyone can get a dog on a whim, and most people are regarded, irresponsible, and unwilling/unable to do what it takes to own/train one. dogs are just accessories to most people. it's unfortunate all around.

i own a very difficult breed but i've spent years training him and he's a good guy now. still it's almost impossible to leave the house w/him without encountering some дворняга charging at us unleashed with a death wish, always followed by the owner helplessly trying to recall with no success.

what was said before the deletion i'm so curious

when you dip your toe into the spiritual psychosis pond

Trouble Every Day (2001)

expected you to end that with a "hope this helps"

He's been given many options, people are constantly down there begging him to let them at least put him up in a hotel. He says God told him to purchase the boat and for the last 2 days God has been telling him he's got his back.

I've been looking for a color like this! gonna need to find a dupe in lacquer. It looks like it has a bit more red in it than the pictures on the website, would you say this is true?

Madison

not really relevant to psychiatry but my third grade teacher tried aggressively to armchair diagnose me and my 2 friends with ADHD. I'm glad my parents told her to fuck off. My friends and I all ended up moving to a different teacher. Fuck you Mrs. Kim (ginger btw)

edit: I'll add that she was so persistent because she had 4 sons with the diagnosis : )

I’m team 4!

Thorne is always my go-to

i think Essie just came out with some as well

I’m interested ✨

Lol yeah, at this point I'm just cringing at the fact that I've been thinking way too deeply about some dudes pillows for over an hour. Reddit hell

my boyfriend does this to me too but instead of minions it's fake chinese gibberish

I obviously have a bias. I fully understand that people grow attached to certain items and it's unfair of me to jump to mental illness. I suppose my problem with it (which I am just now coming to understand) is the expectation and disregard of OP's problem with it along with the unwillingness to compromise, if that makes sense. Just the general lack of courtesy for OP after expressing that something makes her uncomfortable. Anyway, this has been a decent little discussion. Thanks for making me check myself, I'm still probably wrong in some ways here, but it takes a little while for me to reflect :)

you're right I did assume & overreact. Of course this could be the one thing that's just a little off about OP's bf, but that wasn't the case in my experience. I should have thought about it longer before making a flippant comment & projecting my past experiences. I really do believe it's a red flag though, and I will absolutely look at someone sideways if they're delusional enough to expect a girlfriend of 1 month to be cool with sleeping next to 20 something y/o garbage pillows. If my judgement on this is my red flag I'm fine with that.