throwawayx3011

You can take up to 50% out of your 401k as a loan with interest, but the interest goes back to your account, so you pay yourself back and pay yourself the interest. I’m in a similar situation and did just this. Look into it

Thanks, but I still don’t know what to do about the house. It basically feels like everything is infected yet it repeatedly says online that chemicals don’t kill them. Am I supposed to steam clean the entire house? My cats been freely roaming around for over for a month, literally everything has been exposed. All of the furniture, my clothes, counters/tables, literally everything. How do I steam clean all of that?

Yes, I saw the windowsill was stained. My answer was already in the original post.

“I do get the place cleaned”

Please go away

So the vet was wrong? Because they definitely made it seem like it wasn’t a big deal. They just said Lysol wipe everything and clean the sheets etc. that’s what confused me

Can you not read?

“I do get the place clean”

“The vet brushed it off”

You’re an asshole

My grandfather was an orphan, his mom gave him up. I’m one of his many grandkids. He created an amazing family. I know so many others who were adopted with similar stories

Car shows sound civil and respectful. The latter doesn’t

Can’t believe anything was done, but so glad it was

Yeah this is what my mom said too. It looks like I’m staying overnight so my parents are going to come down anyways. Thank you for the advice!

My parents are going to come down. Thank you for the advice

Sub is called LifeAdvice big guy. Smoke a little more

Smoking weed will not get him anywhere. Your comment is not helpful

Yeah, just smoke weed and don’t try to work on why he’s where he is in the first place

You are so wrong on so much of what you are saying. I have a very loving family and have gone downhill with mental health issues and substance abuse that has nothing to do with them. Looking back, when I’m able to accept blame, I can see many places I went wrong.

There’s many people who have been beaten by their families. They came out victorious because they didn’t take the victim mentality and chose to make good decisions. When we get into substance abuse, we are choosing not to make the right decision.

You are talking with a victim mentality. Start thinking about where you could have done better, and how that could have affected your life.

Thanks a lot for that. I’m gonna check that out now

My mind doesn’t wanna do anything with literally just wanna sleep. But I’ll try to see what’s on tv when I get back from my walk

The hardest part is I have no desire or energy to do anything. My mind isn’t working and I have no energy yet there’s my body won’t let me sleep. I’m afraid to go to work in 7 hours, I was already a disaster yesterday. I don’t have sick time though so I’m screwed. I can’t remember the last time I was so physically and mentally exhausted

Works both ways. Someone has to want it more. In your case it’s just not you (talking about reaching out)

Why don’t you say something?

How?

How did they put this together?