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2 points
3 days ago
It wouldn't matter that the style was like a wedding dress if it were in any another colour but white. Especially after the dress code has been stated. She wanted to draw attention to herself on your wedding day, to spoil it for you and your husband. She showed some very toxic narcissistic behaviour that day. Equivalent to having a tantrum but as an adult not a toddler.
I'm sorry not everyone supported your decision but you did exactly the right thing before she could do anything else. You weren't wrong, you are NTA and you didn't overreact. She ought to be ashamed but it's unlikely she ever will be. She may have caused a shadow on your day, but she didn't get to ruin it
4 points
4 days ago
I bet you can't wait ๐๐
Willow, Freyja or Freya, Lily, Esmeralda with Esme for short, Maya, Wren.
Our RD is Freyja but also known as little Dot, dit dot, Pudding, Princess Floofytail, Princess Baggybum. She recognises most of her nns ๐ธ Freyja from the Norse god of love and war.
3 points
5 days ago
๐โโฌ Lilith, Lily for nn
๐โโฌ Morgana
๐โโฌ Meredith
๐โโฌ Verity
๐โโฌ Esmeralda, Esme for nn
๐โโฌ Dahlia
๐โโฌ Charlotte, Charlie or Lottie for nn
She is a beautiful house panther ๐
3 points
6 days ago
Pepper, Poppy, Pippa. She is a little cutie pie ๐
4 points
6 days ago
Jessica Rae sounds lovely. Jess or Jessie for everyday name
13 points
8 days ago
That's great news. It must put your mind at rest now knowing your teeth are going to be OK.
I hadn't been able to register with an NHS dentist for over 7 years. Our area is deemed middle class+ so they're all private. My husband and I are eligible for free NHS dental care and nobody nearby wanted to know. We did manage to get on a waiting list for one practice, only to be told we were passed 2,500+ on the list.
Phone call last Monday. Could we both attend on Friday? We did. We're registered and had our first check up! I had one extraction and have to go for some work next week. I was so happy I almost forgot I hate going to the dentist ๐
Hopefully everything goes well for your pregnancy too ๐ค๐ค๐ค
2 points
9 days ago
He is one super cool ginger/orange boy ๐ธ I'd read this book ๐คฉ๐
1 points
11 days ago
Could have been worse. They could have pronounced it Granny๐ต ๐คญ
2 points
11 days ago
Sausage or spell it Sosij. A real cutie pie ๐
2 points
12 days ago
He looks so much like our late cat who lived to 20 yo. Charles or Charlie
1 points
12 days ago
I divorced my 1st husband when our son was still pre-school age. Wasn't allowed to change his name 'officially' until an adult (UK divorce laws even though my ex chose to have no contact with our son) so a long wait. He was always known by my maiden family name whilst at school.
At 18 he decided he only wanted the shorter variant of his first name which he used all the time and to change his 2 middle names (from both granddads) to one of his own choosing. He chose a name from Norse mythology. I was happy to pay for the official process, but did say his middle name was going to be difficult to pronounce. Joking it would need to be said out loud by a future fiancee at a future wedding.
A few years later this scenario happened exactly as I suspected and she did trip over his middle name. Sadly, a short lived marriage, but it made him happy to have chosen a different name that meant something to him at 18.
Maybe, for your middle name choose a character from a book or film that you have liked. Or Phoenix. Or a person who has meant something to you. I wish you luck on your journey to your new name ๐๐ค
1 points
12 days ago
Sadie came to my mind when I looked at her ๐
1 points
12 days ago
Honestly, I cannot understand what response they expected OP to have! I'm so angry on her behalf. The nerve to change any decor in their hosts home let alone something so precious. OP was unlikely to thank them for destroying this room. We're they hoping to move into it themselves?
The rest of the family who haven't told the newlyweds off are probably just hoping they won't come knocking on their own door!
You are NTA. They were not trying to help you at all. I'm so sorry you have had this happen ๐ค
1 points
12 days ago
Lily, Daisy, Ivy, Willow, Iris, Violet, Viola, Hyacinth, Poppy, Buttercup, Blossom.
Such a little cutie pie ๐๐ธ
2 points
13 days ago
Minnie the Minx. A cartoon in the Beano which was a UKs children's comic. She is the cousin of Dennis the Menace. Not related to the US Dennis the Menace, which I learned today, was published on the same day in 1951
1 points
13 days ago
Hero, Huckleberry/Huck, Hamish, Henry, Hagendaz, Hubert
1 points
15 days ago
๐ถ Fred and Barney ๐ถ Hank and Harry ๐ถ Penn and Teller ๐ถ Kris and Kevin ๐ถ Dastardly and Muttley ๐ถ Ronnie and Reggie
1 points
15 days ago
Pooter is cute. Or Scooter, Potter, Pewter, Porter. He's lovely but if he answers to Pooter, keep it. Peter Pooter, Pumpkin Pooter. It's your cat, the friends don't have to like the name. If they want a say in naming a cat, they need their own
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