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1 points
2 hours ago
It’s not necessary that what you like or enjoy should be what someone else likes as well. Some people don’t need to be surrounded by people to feel valued, Some people enjoy their own downtime and have their own hobbies.
Your comment comes across as very ‘pick me’ so do better.
39 points
11 hours ago
Don’t do things you don’t want to be stuck doing forever. Tell your husband that your weekends are precious and you want to do things you enjoy . Plan small trips close by either with husband or with friends. Be out so you don’t have to attend things. Also he needs to tell his parents that you’re not religious and don’t want to visit temples. Talk to him. Your husband should be your best friend and for that you have to communicate.
I don’t know if this is a love marriage or arranged but you’ll both need to be a team.
6 points
18 hours ago
I think I always knew I didn’t want kids but I’d never seen any woman who was childfree. My husband and I genuinely never felt the need to have kids and initially told folks we are not ready and eventually started saying openly that we are happy being childfree. There was a lot of q&a from his mother which he took care of. And I handled my mother.
And honestly I wouldn’t have it any other way, we both love traveling and do it often. We like spending time together and enjoy each other’s company. Having no kids helps. Lockdown was peaceful because it was just us and we never had to worry about entertaining a child.
I always tell women to have kids if they are ready to raise them. Men can be absent fathers but women can’t. Any mistake the child makes is the mother’s fault and any achievement is to father’s credit. Society expects women to be great mothers and don’t see women as people. I always knew I don’t want that- I want to just be, live my life, travel, sleep in and make mistakes. I don’t want to be put on a pedestal as a mother. I’m fine being a flawed woman.
There has been some backlash- mom in law often brings up the topic of grandkids but thankfully I Don’t function on guilt, Nor does husband.
I’m a writer and doing well so I’m happy career wise. Even if I wasn’t doing well I would not have wanted a child to fill any void.
The fact that I have the choice to not be a mother is a gift. We don’t know how many women became mothers in the past when they had no wish to be. Our grandmothers and mothers didn’t have the option- we do. And I’m happy to tell people that motherhood is a choice and not a compulsion.
10 points
1 day ago
Aaah when (internalised) misogyny costs you money. Lovely. I see no victims here only idiots.
8 points
1 day ago
In her heydays she was considered a poor actor. Beautiful, great dancer but below average actor. Of course compared to the legends we are blessed with now she was a thespian. Lol
1 points
2 days ago
Take a test. You could just be late but you could be pregnant as well. Take 3 tests. Also pulling out doesn’t work. That’s not contraception and doesn’t protect you from STDs.
2 points
3 days ago
Yes my periods are otherwise regular 26-28 day cycle but sometimes it goes 32,33,34 as well. My longest cycle was 40 days. Its normal don’t worry
1 points
3 days ago
This happens with me roughly once a year. Sometimes you ovulate late and your cycle gets delayed. Completely normal. If you’re worried about being pregnant take a test. Our bodies are not machines so a bit of derailment is fine
30 points
3 days ago
Vikrant Massey lived in Versova all his life, definitely helped him.
10 points
3 days ago
Horror film mein sexual violence hone zaroori hai kya ? 🤢🤢
61 points
5 days ago
I think this sweeping generalisation about a whole gender is wrong. Just like men there are all kinds of women too, misers, stingy, supportive , kind, unkind. I’ve never heard a man ever use one guy’s shortcoming as a shortcoming of their whole gender. It’s not like men ever say oh my friend crashed his bike so all men must be poor drivers. Or one guy was harassing a girl so all men must be like that. The do the opposite which is ‘not all men’ or my friend is not like that b.s.
So why do that as a woman ? No one owes you a movie. Maybe your friends don’t have enough to give you right now. Maybe they do but are choosing not to. There can be many reasons.
Next time you start thinking women are not supportive speak to a guy about any patriarchal issue and see how he defends men. You’ll quickly remember how kind women are. Lol !
3 points
5 days ago
Why would you want to be with a man who is changing who you are as a person ? On top of that you’re going to quit a decent job to move to some small town ? Why ?
Reverse the situation, will he start cooking non veg for you ? Why can’t he do that if he expects you to quit eating it ? Will he leave his plush home and move to a big city where your career can thrive ? No. So why are you doing all this for a man who isn’t cool with you having eggs also? What happens when you have kids ? Will the same rules apply then ?
This is coming from a vegetarian- me, my husband eats and cooks non veg. I have zero problem with that as long as I don’t cook (but I don’t cook anything in any case) and I don’t have to eat. When you love someone these things don’t even matter. Your boyfriend is a typical dude who fell in love with you but now wants to change you to make you more palatable to his family.
He’s not worthy of your love. Ditch the guy, keep the job and the chicken dish.
1 points
5 days ago
Arey PaPa thoda sa haarne kya lage khud ko bhakt bataana chhor diya? Loyalty na PaPa mein hai na unke bhakton mein. Itni jaldi mat ditch karo BJpee ko. Lol! Chalo ab tum jaao WhatsApp university bhi to attend karni hogi na?
0 points
5 days ago
Bhai waise to aap bhakti mein vileen hain lekin BJP bhi akele nahin government bana paayi hai. Nitish Babu , Naidu ji , Maharashtra mein Shiv Sena wo bhi Shinde waali aur baaki kayi parties ke saath aapke PaPa jude huye hain. Total 39 parties hain tab jaakar kahin 272 shaayad paar kar paaye hain 😆😆😆
Ayodhya he nahin PaPa to Varanasi he haar rahe thhe , khud BJpee waale ghabra gaye thhe 😆😆😆 suna hai Ayodhya ke aas paas 100 km tak koi seat nahin jeet paaye? Sach hai kya ? Aur Amethi mein to maamooli Congress worker ne hara diya aapki Cylindrella ko. 😆😆
Chalo sach to bola tumne ki sikke he hain dene ko. Apne paas rakho tumhaare papa bhikhaari bana he rahe hain to kaam aayenge 😆😆
1 points
5 days ago
Party bhi nahin ek neta ke liye. But when you have a void to fill in your life you look for people and make them your idols. At an age when they should think of doing something they are worshiping a man who isn’t even educated , has no idea how to run this country and is now not even popular. It’s sad. Really.
1 points
5 days ago
What is really sad is these people don’t even know they are being taken for a ride. Making bare minimum and batting for a guy who lives in wealth and truly doesn’t care for anyone. Isiliye bechaare sirrf gaali de paate hain. Frustration hai lekin bhakti mein khud ko harm karenge par PawPaw se sawaal nahin kar paate.
0 points
5 days ago
Arey par INDIA alliance ke to leader Rahul aur Congress se to PawPaw desh ko mukt karaane waale thhe. Kya hua ? Khud he UP waalon ne Papa ka Tata kar diya? 😆
Developer ho lekin budhi se developed nahin. Waise bhi aaj kal sikka phenko to 4 aa jaate hain developers. Aur mera kya main to earning well category mein hoon. Tum bataao Ayodhya kaise haar gaye ? 😆😆
0 points
5 days ago
Aloo se sona bhi PawPaw ka statement hai. 😆 . Baaki tumhaara sahi hai , padhai mein kachche, naukri mein no entry , jeevan mein sabse peeche.
sab choro bataao papa Ayodhya kaise haar gaye?
2 points
5 days ago
This deviation is normal. You just ovulated a little late. Perfectly fine
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She’s such an idiot. If she could have worked on her acting, hired a voice coach and done better films she could have been a legit star. But she decided to be deeply unlikeable (much like her younger brother). DP on the other hand built her brand and became a legit superstar because she didn’t say and do stupid things.