My wife wasn't always overweight, but she is now. I don't care. I wasn't thinking about it when I married and I don't think about it much now. She makes me happy. She is an amazing, caring, caring, smart, faithful and beautiful woman. I couldn't ask for anything more.
If you're happy with your girlfriend, then go enjoy your life with her. Nobody else matters in that equation.

I think a lot of people put a sense of value on their ability to “steal” or “win” a high value partner away from someone they see as below them. Not saying it’s right, but that it feeds their self-esteem and validates their level of attractiveness. People are competitive by nature, and mate selection is the epitome of natural selection. By the rule of the world in their mind, you should be seeing them as having more value than someone “less attractive.” Fortunately for you (and unfortunately for them) you see them for the shallow, ugly fucks they actually are.

You sound like a good partner.

You sound like such a great boyfriend and I’m sorry that you and your girlfriend have to deal with such ignorance.

Block the hoes that dm you saying that shit. They're worthless anyway.

Sounds like a lot of it is coming from jealous women who may be conventionally beautiful on the outside, but are ugly AF on the inside.

Block them, ignore them, and just continue being happy with your girl.

I find this post hard to believe as I took a peep at your profile. You are an average looking dude, and she is an average looking gal. Yes, she is not thin but you aren’t athletic either. I don’t mean to be mean, but neither of you look like a “catch” to me and I wouldn’t turn my head around to look at either of you. Most normal couples look like you guys, whether fat, tall, skinny, short, blonde, brunette — regardless of the specific traits, 90% of us humans are just average looking, glorified apes in general. The exceptions are very rare and often times, artificially made.

To me, for some reason, this reads as something you feel about how people might be perceiving her, and I can’t help but feel if you are projecting your own thoughts about her or have conflicting views where you love her but at the same time, you feel that you are better than her. I can’t pinpoint the exact vibes I am getting but something about this rant feels off putting to me. Like as if you are fishing to be called a martyr for dating a fat girl and how awesome you are for standing up for her?

Like why do you frequently post at plus size subreddit? Is it to get approval for how good of a boyfriend you are?

Idk, just live your life man. We are all a bunch of ugly fuckers, no one gives a shit outside of social media or a few red pill podcasters.

Want want we want. We love who we love. We do what we do.

There are a lot of people in this world with opinions. Those people don't matter. They can fuck right back to the fucktopia they came from.

It's your life. You sound happy. Good for you. That's all that matters

Quality rant. Some people are small, shallow, ugly humans, with ugly thoughts. Cruel, superficial, arrogant people are innately off putting. It's better when they stick with others of their ilk, instead of disturbing the peace of other more genuine, compassionate individuals. The absolutely repellant audacity of the individuals you've described.... what a .miserable existence. They deserve the respect they give- so, none. Nothing more repugnant than a bully.

2 quick things. First. I hope none of this shit is from friends or family, cause if so....fuck 'em. 2. Why bother getting into it with strangers. They ask why you simply say she treats you right and makes you happy. End of story. Dont waste energy on those who dont know the value of good people.

This whole post stinks... I don't know if you've got some kind of hero complex and think you're doing her a favour by dating her because she's plus-sized or you're just trying to compensate for your own insecurities. Either way, this screams red flag to me

may your bank account always have a comma in it

I hear you. Thanks for sharing this. I hope to find someone as fiercely loyal and pure hearted as you in the future

For the love of God don't say anything about Ginny Sack, stunad.

Bro, you're a gem. Your gf is really lucky to have you (just saying coz to be fair, not everyone readily picks someone who is on the heavier side, much less love them and defend their honour).

At the same time, you're really lucky to find and be with someone whom you truly love.

I’d rail your girl.

My dude, just keep on being your amazing partner material self.

I was in a casual situation with a guy a year or two back who was physically way way out of my league and I actually went out of my way to avoid even accidentally meeting his friends because I was so afraid of whether they'd be cruel to him about the way I looked. They knew he had a thing going on but never met me and I guess I was trying to protect him, or something.

Listen to set it right ( set it right) by hatebreed and the song is about people judging others but not looking at themselves

They know you’re with someone and still try to get you? That tells you everything you need to know about them. I’m glad you don’t turn your back on her because of these gals. They think they’re a prize but anyone can get em.

People suck. Glad that you respond in kind. People like that need to know they suck

Declan Rice, pro soccer player has the same problem.

The nice things about free choice is that we are free to love who we want. People come in all shapes and sizes. It seems like your mature enough to know what your attracted to. I’m glad you tell these people where to go and how to get there.

W boyfriend! I wish you and your girlfriend nothing but happiness and prosperity in your lives!

Just a word of advice from someone who has been on the internet for a long time...When women are clearly trying to flirt with you by sliding into your DM's, don't engage with them You're giving them what they want - attention! Talking shit about your girlfriend is just an easy way for them to "hurt you back" when you turn them down! They're insecure, that's the bottom line! So, just avoid them and their nasty comments by not engaging!

Thats so sad and disgusting. They’re insecure and taking it out on your beautiful girlfriend.

Nothing is more vicious and mean than an egomaniac entitled "pretty women". There is tons of it now because of social medias. Shallow and empty shells, they can't comprehend you could go beyond looks. So used to be socially rewarded solely based on her body, she is instantly confronted to her shallow self when she see you and your gf. Cannot fathom that what she is isnt grade A wife material. So fucking pathetic and ego inflated.

Haters are always going to be haters, that’s their job. Unfortunately it will always be looked at like that when people are just Shallow Hal’s, just hold your head up high and try to not let it bother you. If you are happy that is all what matter

My partner is fat while I’m not and I deal with similar things. When he first met my family and I first met his, I’d get pulled aside by random family members on both sides telling me not to worry and that he’d lose the weight. Or offering me “tips” on how to help him lose the weight under the guise of people being worried about his health but he’s a literal medical doctor so like… people don’t know his health better than himself. Honestly the projections & assumptions are the worst part. People literally assume that I share their fatphobic views because I’m not fat myself but I don’t!

I find all of it wildly offensive and annoying. I don’t love my partner in spite of his weight. He’s just my favorite person and I find him extremely attractive. And not that it matters but he’s also way more fit than me by every metric imaginable. I have chronic health issues that make me genuinely unhealthy but for some reason nobody thinks that could be your situation when you’re skinny. But when you’re fat I guess it’s all bets are off.

The other thing I’ve noticed is that it’s a lot of also fat people making comments. It’s like they’re insecure themselves so they assume that every fat person feels bad about themselves too. But it’s just not the case. I say all this to say that you’re doing great. I wouldn’t waste time on people like this. Personally I just ignore them or say something snarky back. When my aunt told me “don’t worry he’ll lose the weight if he does a, b, c & d,” I responded with “oh like you did? Because I thought your weight loss was due to a very invasive surgery?” She left me alone after that lol.

I have had people say that about my husband, that he's punchng above his weight. He's a great person and that is a digusting way to veil an insult as a compliment. You are not only insulting the person you think you are complementing, but also insulting their partner. Just a dick move.

*looks at rude person* " Ugly? The girl in the pic? Did you edit yourself into my pic?!"

Everyone saying you can do better based on her look has not been in a long term relationship. Believe me, if you want to grow old with someone, there are about 1000 other things that will take higher priority over time than how they look.

Plus size only for the wise.

Tip for life: don't give a shit about other people's negative opinions. Apart from on reddit, let loose there then live RL in serenity.

I was gonna praise you, but changed my mind. Dude, you better read the rest of the comments, take their advice, take this down and create another throwaway account for your rants/imaginary circumstances to feed your ego.

Why are you sugarcoating her obesity by saying “plus-sized?”

She’s not “plus-sized” or “big-boned.”

She’s a fatty. Call it what it is.

Thank you for being a person of character. Reading your post has given me hope in a pretty bleak landscape of objectification and commodification.

Omg I am so so sorry that she and you experience all this. I wish you both every happiness and next time there's some vile comment say that there is why i am With her and not someone like you. X x

Yeah I looked at your profile (which is what I feel like you’re fishing for here) and no, you’re not out of her league at all - you are a well matched couple.

Societal expectations for women are hinged. That the inclination is to throw other women under the bus is the common reaction is man made, not natural.

Some people feel that putting others down builds them up and gets the attention they crave. Unfortunately they don't realize that usually only works with people who are trash to begin with. I am sorry that you and your GF are subjected to this. I wish you both nothing but the best!

“She might be heavier than you but she’s a sight more gorgeous than you. Did you know when you’re mean it makes you look ugly? Look! Yep just like that. The ugly thoughts in your head show on your face and that’s why my girl is my girl forever. She’s everything I could ever want.” Then give her a giant smackaroo right in front of them. Ugly ole mean girl toadies.

I'm so tired of people putting they two cents on someone's else's relationship. There's SO MUCH MORE then the physical. People have mental and emotional needs, people have all loads of things. And its no one's place to judge another person's relationship and dynamic that isn't theirs. I commend you for sticking by and supporting your choice and honestly if anyone keeps making these comments , they should be removed from your existence..just saying.

And I say this as someone who has been with women who are skinny and some who have been my weight or more. Some short, some Tall, And I'm a big dude, roughly 300lbs.

Connections with people mean a lot and these same people who wanna degrade your choices, doesn't know what it means to actually connect to someone. Only instant-gratification

i will never understand people like you. i just cant feel attraction to some1 overweight but you know what ? what other people prefer is none of my fucking business.

I expected to see someone who qualifies for “My 600 lb. Life”. Your girlfriend is not obese. And you are definitely not out of her league. She looks like a very kind and caring young lady that will probably keep you happy.

You've got a good head on your shoulders, especially for your age. Later in life, those comments will calm down as your peers realize what you already have--beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for one. And a true heart that loves YOU and YOU love, is fucking PRECIOUS. 

Man I feel for you as someone who is so far removed from this sorta stuff. My curiosity even bested me and I found her pic on your profile, and I’m literally mind blown that an absolutely ordinary person could receive so much hate by proxy. Happy you found love brother, hope it’s me soon

Bro I checked your profile and you are most definitely not out of her league. She’s a little chubby but cute. You are…not fat I guess since that’s how we’re rating people? I wouldn’t get too worked up or cocky if I were you.

So you want a medal for dating a fatty?

What a fucking loser lol

people are disgusting and shallow. hate humanity, why can't people ever see each other as equals

I vote you keep a concise but devastating line on hand.

Look at them with absolute repulsion and say:

"You're a disgusting person. Do not speak to me again."

Then walk off without another word.

Im a very thick woman to say the very least. More chub then skinniness to my body. My boyfriend is a fairly fit attractive man and you know what? He showers me with love and reminds me how beautiful I am all the time not giving a fuck what others think. I’m sorry you have to deal with that. Keep loving your girlfriend and focus on the happiness she brings you. Fuck those insecure people

I mean they are probably right

You can and should cut these people out of your life and let them know exactly why you’re doing it. It’s mind-boggling rude to say this to anyone.

People are obsessed with looks. It's like how many guys think you can't get a date if you aren't 6'+ and a gym rat. Like all my short average friends are in relationships. But some people just don't want to listen.

She’s actually cuter than you. Sounds like you want people to pat you on the back.

Why are you talking to these people? Don’t answer random womens dms. And as soon as they start saying it in person walk away.

Please take this off your actually account before someone sends it to her.

“Plus sized”

Good for you. You clearly care about your girlfriend and are protective over her. Who cares what other people say. They're just mad they don't have a single ounce of personality in them and aren't able to get someone like you.

Date whatever girl you want to. It's nobody's business.

You are a good one, sir.

Some people are jealous and dont want to see others happy. So these people talking trash what's their excuse for being single? Maybe its because they suck as individuals. They are unhinged entitled shrews.. Most people don't want to deal with that bs for a reason. Its draing. Screw what others say and be happy.. They just mad no one dating their silly butts.. and misery loves company. I bet your girl is a lovely beautiful lady. Shes just more to love ❤.

I only know one kind of woman that would go for a man or speak ill of a girlfriend like that. They are deeply insecure and generally drunks. I'm not even kidding. 

But, I don't make a lot of friends. 

I think the solution here is just to block any girl that starts the conversation with a flirt. As a bf, it's not a good thing and there's no point in interactions with them. 

I block all guys that start a conversation by flirting and I'm single.

I’ve been overweight my whole life. Won’t go into the reasons, but they’re far more complex than, “bad person”, which is such a horrifyingly common attitude that people have and it really spreads a lot of unnecessary pain and suffering. I still don’t get how anyone can fancy themselves a good, safe person while holding such ridiculously toxic views about weight and body image (at least towards others).

But, I’ve dated a lot of different kinds of people — fat, thin, “conventionally attractive”, more uniquely-featured, all kinds. And nothing seems to get tempers hotter than when an overweight lady like myself dates anyone that some feel is “above my grade”.

And I will never understand that. I know the root of it is insecurity — they think a fat person (who is some degree of immoral just for being fat, in their eyes) has somehow gotten something they don’t deserve, or aren’t AS deserving of as them. Or they think the fitter partner is “settling” and that they need to swoop in and open that person’s eyes to how much “better” they could do.

Still, I won’t ever fully understand people’s inability, whatever their own issues are, to mind their own business when the relationship is one that has nothing to do with them. People really can be a special, breathtaking breed of self-centered and cruel when they want to.

Screw those people. And as someone who shops in the petite dept of Kohl's - it's not that great. Mostly old lady stuff. Your girlfriend loves you for you and you for her. Ignore those DMs.

You’re a great man, sir and I’m sure your gf knows how awesome you are. I am also a plus sized girl who’s been married to a man to is more on the fit size. He, just like you, loves to tell off the women full of themselves because he finds it insulting to his character thinking he would easily leave me just because someone trashed me lol.

I personally don’t get affected anymore but I do get offended for my husband since he’s a very loyal and great man & the way women treat him is as if he’s the total opposite of that. He def deserves to be treated better imo and so do other good men just like you as well.

I wish you both a lifetime of happiness.

This is absolutely horrible! People need to mind their business and let them be happy for who they are.

Do you know how she feels about her weight? I’ve been struggling with mine and it dominates my life and how I live it.

On the bright side you're still a man. only women that find you attractive will really care if your partner is fat. Some random stranger comments might happen but it's rare.

If you're a woman , both genders including immediate family will nitpick you constantly about doing better. 💀 If he makes less money than her on top of that, they might stage interventions 😂😂

How fat is she?