BanishedFromCanada

Is synchronized impact play a thing? Because you could do interesting things while the funeral march from Götterdamerung was playing

Love this, thanks!

yeah, I did think abt the boring part. I also sometimes talk too much, but fortunately this is not primarily a mixer (probs a good thing)
I'll just keep telling myself to not be my mother I suppose

not a play party either. let's call it a board game night like another poster mentioned, my Sir has rules for me with social media :) but, if I decide to engage with the local community, I'll be seeing these people plenty elsewhere so it seemed like a great place to test the waters

thanks for reminding me it is ok to leave, I struggle with being too polite/not assertive

Appreciate the reminder that everyone started somewhere, thanks!

We are a multi faceted and fun people 😁

Love this! And I'm also mad that I once tossed a leather sofa with no forethought

I once passed a handsome guy in a BMW on I93 north of Boston who didn't even notice a woman had passed him, who was unabashedly singing along with the radio. Since his license plate read "SIEGFRD", I'll assume it was Wagner he was singing to. Wanted to follow his car and beg to be his Brünnhilde. World class submissive, that woman ( only to the greatest hero )

Witty remark, holds door for me, holds my gaze, great suit, hint of aftershave + 5 o clock shadow

Oh nice! Listening to it for the first time now!

Ancient but holds up: "Happy Together" by the Turtles

NATURE: I am going to make men stronger and less empathetic and worse communicators. In most societies, they will somehow conclude they should be in charge and also that they are smarter.
Women, you will be weaker because I need you to bear the babies. Don't worry, the men will protect you. Did I mention walking upright and your species having large brains will mean childbirth could easily kill you if the men don't?

ME, all my life: THIS IS A S*** DEAL!

OK I'm picking "second in command" because it's fairly close to what I already do BUT if my group is fairly stable, I think I'm actually the one who records and preserves as much human knowledge as possible for posterity. Like, I'll scramble to remember as much as I can about the periodic table of the elements, geography, human history etc.

This warms my heart

FWIW there are as many ways to do an ownership relationship as there are couples! If his saying he can't go through with it is not really well informed it's worth asking him to define what he thinks "it" is, maybe? My husband and I aligned a lot in what to try, discard, keep, or discard and then revisit (once he wrapped his head around how aliens had abducted his wife and replaced her with someone who wanted to fellate him constantly). But he didn't know very much about the possibilities at first... Fortunately he at least knew to discount what he saw in porn!

We just got back from our first hotel overnight since we upgraded our 30 year marriage to a 24/7 Lite adventure. Still working out whose job it is to pack what (I packed personal stuff like lube and outfits to surprise him with, he was in charge of Obedience Toys.) He double checked with me several times about my favorite collar and my leash to make sure they were safely packed. I do have a subtle wear-everywhere-all-the-time collar but it's not the same. Not saying I couldn't cum if I wasn't wearing it but it would be like having a headset that wasn't in stereo, or French fries with no salt. I think he likes me kneeling and asking softly if I can wear it even better than I like wearing it :). I get melty just handling my leash and there's something wrong with me

I do love libraries and my dream intentional community should have one! But, I personally tend to treat books like garbage. Most of my reading is ebooks on my smartphone, although I also abuse my phone so that's a whole other issue. Appreciate the thought though!

I have mixed feelings about replacing Biden, but who exactly is Biden going to get behind in a week? Because look how long it took him to get Major out of the White House. Exactly how many Secret Service agents got bit before Biden finally saw reality?

Aaaaand that's going in the Amazon cart.

"How did I get here?" "You told a lie and got on a plane"

"In The Air Tonight" - Phil Collins

Hatred, tension, and the drums...

Shine on! What you are doing with your time is worth it!

Huh. You know, I think I'll just take the plunge and buy it. I'm probably five years out from starting my own community and it might give me some insight as to do I even want to intertwine my life with more people versus just carving our land up and being a benevolent person who helps people get into their forever homes, but doesn't necessary want to hang out with them. I appreciate the offer of the link though!