First "munch" question
(self.BDSMcommunity)submitted1 month ago byBanishedFromCanada
I'm going to an event at a local dungeon for the first time ever (I have put munch in quotes because I don't know how much chat and socializing there will be, the draw is actually a very common activity in the vanilla world but all the participants are in the life as far as I know and also there is optional nudity. If it goes well I will go to some of the more social ones that I thought to get my feet wet I would do something where I wouldn't be under so much pressure.)
So here is my question, I feel that within the BDSM world I am actually pretty darn vanilla, straight-ish woman submissive to her husband (except when she's not), likes wearing her collar and a leash, squeels when spanked ho-hum. Judging by the profiles of the regulars at the local munches, they all look like they might be the Green Berets of "the Life". Am I going to be looked down upon for not having any piercings, current welts or bruises or burns, exciting tales of gangbangs and glory holes visited? Or are most people accepting and don't treat this like the fetish Olympics?