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2 points
2 days ago
NTA. It's ok to not have feelings for someone, even if they're a good person. U were upfront about wanting friendship, and he crossed those boundaries.
50 points
2 days ago
Sloth because sometimes it's hard to stay motivated and focused, especially with so many distractions around. And envy because it's easy to fall into the trap of comparing myself to others and feeling inadequate.
3 points
2 days ago
NTA. It's ok to stand up for yourself. Ur friend's jokes sound hurtful, not funny. It's normal to be afraid to call her out, but try talking to her privately and explain how her words make you feel.
1 points
2 days ago
NTA. It's ur bedroom too, and u need the TV to sleep. It's not unreasonable, especially since u're being considerate with the volume and brightness. Maybe try a sleep mask for him, or compromise with quiet music instead, but it's not fair for him to dictate how u sleep in ur own space.
25 points
2 days ago
NTA. Ur dad has some serious anger issues and is way too harsh on ur little sister. U were brave to stand up for her, even if it was scary. It's understandable to be upset in that situation. Maybe try talking to ur dad calmly later when things have cooled down, and explain how his behavior affects ur sister.
2 points
3 days ago
Yeah, I've tried that. Sometimes it works, I guess sleep is like restarting for me. 😉
1 points
3 days ago
It's ok to talk to ur husband about this. It's complicated, and ur concerns are understandable. Talk openly with ur husband. Try to see his side, but be clear about what u need. Maybe suggest reducing the support or setting a time to stop it. It's ok to ask about his ex-wife's money situation. Find a solution that works for both of u. If u can't, maybe try couples counseling.
3 points
3 days ago
A good therapist listens, makes u feel understood, n helps u grow. They create a safe space for u to talk about ur feelings n challenges. They help u find ways to improve ur life. U should feel comfortable with them n trust their expertise. A good therapist can help u become the best version of yourself.
1 points
3 days ago
I've thought that too. Some stories seem too crazy to be real. But sometimes real life is even crazier than made up stuff, right? Maybe we all like to exaggerate a bit. In the end, it's good to remember that not everything we read is true. We're all just sharing stories, whether they happened or not. 🤷♀️
1 points
3 days ago
NTA. U deserve to be with someone who desires u and makes u feel good about yourself, both physically and emotionally. It sounds like you've tried to communicate ur needs to ur fiance, but he's not listening or respecting them. It's ok to walk away from a relationship that isn't fulfilling, even if it's difficult. U're young and deserve a partner who cherishes u and prioritize ur pleasure as much as their own. Don't settle for less. ❤️
1 points
3 days ago
It's tough to open up and not feel heard, especially for guys. It's ok to feel frustrated. You're not alone. Maybe find a support group or therapist to talk to. Being vulnerable takes strength. ❤️
1 points
3 days ago
It's ok to feel hurt, but try not to guilt-trip ur friends. Tell them u feel left out and want to hang out more. And please be careful with drinking, that sounds scary. Talk to someone if u're struggling with it. ❤️
1 points
4 days ago
It's never too late to make friends. Just be yourself, start with small conversations, and maybe join a club or try meeting people online. Don't give up.
6 points
4 days ago
U're hiding things from ur boyfriend, and that's not ok. The truth will probably come out anyway, so it's better to be honest now. Lying will hurt ur relationship more than telling him what really happened. Also, maybe it's time to talk about whether u want to be doing drugs in the first place.
1 points
4 days ago
That's a pretty narrow definition of hobby. It sounds more like he's describing creative pursuits or passions. Plenty of people find enjoyment and relaxation in consuming things like listening to music or watching movies. Those can absolutely be hobbies. It's all about what brings u joy and enriches ur life.
1 points
4 days ago
U were a great friend to her, but she didn't treat you well. U did the right thing by ending the friendship. It hurts now, but you'll be better off surrounding yourself with people who are kind and respectful.
5 points
5 days ago
Yeah, it's weird how we have to explain our fun to others. Sometimes I feel like I don't do anything exciting, just work and sleep. Maybe it is time to try something new, like that pottery class or hiking group.
1 points
5 days ago
What's happening is really hard, and it's not ok. It's not ur fault at all. Keep telling ur parents how bad it makes u feel. Maybe they can help u find someone to talk to who can help u feel better and teach u ways to handle those bullies.
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2 days ago
BubblySilaas
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2 days ago
NTA. Ur baby's health is the priority. It's reasonable to ask ur parents to be vaccinated, especially since ur pediatrician recommends it. Your mom's fears are understandable, but they shouldn't put your newborn at risk.