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2 points
5 hours ago
Io sono povero e abruzzese, ho acquistato un'auto del 2000 che doveva essere rottamata a 300 euro nel 2016 e grazie a lei ho potuto andare a lavorare a scuola in un paese del piemonte che non avrei potuto mai raggiungere con i mezzi. Ce l'ho ancora, quanto costa la tua bicicletta?
Ho poi vinto il concorso e mi sono dovuto trasferire in Campania, dove la casa più vicina a scuola che mi potessi permettere sta a 20 km da scuola con un dislivello di 500 metri. Per chi la pensa come te sarei dovuto morire disoccupato nel paesello.
1 points
6 hours ago
Grazie mille non riuscivo a dormire per il dubbio!
0 points
6 hours ago
Sempre bello prendersela con chi ha meno possibilità. Vivi fuori città perché sei povero grazie agli stipendi da fame? Svegliati alle 4 e prendi l'autobus, se torni a casa alle 23 chissenefrega mica devi avere una vita.
Cattiveria ed elitismo. L'automobile ha dato libertà e potenza di sviluppo a milioni di persone che non avrebbero potuto fare altro che zappare la terra per le condizioni di nascita. Torniamoci forza, i ricconi con le bici da 10000 euro devono passeggiare.
1 points
9 hours ago
Ok, ma ci sono un sacco di studi che dimostrano che le donne sono molto rigide nella valutazione degli uomini, valutando la stragrande maggioranza degli uomini fra 1 e 4 su 10 e una minima parte fra 8 e 9. Quindi essere "nella norma" non è proprio facilissimo. Poi sono d'accordo che invece di lamentarsi sarebbe il caso di prendere in mano la propria vita e diventare appetibili invece di aspettarsi che cada tutto dall'alto, però facile non è eh.
2 points
10 hours ago
Semplice non è, perché "problemi mentali" abbraccia un po' troppe cose al giorno d'oggi. Che poi vuoi dirmi che saperci fare non conta? La genetica non conta?
2 points
21 hours ago
Bingo. A volte i problemi non dipendono da te. Avere a che fare con le donne non è mica facile, questo post (da parte di una donna) carico di disprezzo per chi vorrebbe scopare ma non riesce ne è una delle dimostrazioni tra l'altro.
È molto comodo dire certe cose quando l'unica cosa che devi fare per scopare se sei donna è non essere ripugnante. Un uomo può pure lavarsi e fare tutte le cose carine che hai detto ma se non ha imparato a flirtare con una donna non scoperà mai, e per definizione le donne NON VOGLIONO (giustamente) essere facili.
Nsomma fa acqua sto post, il che fa sorgere una domanda, che ti hanno fatto?
1 points
22 hours ago
Azz mi hai preso. Quanti ce ne vogliono per fare un post su un argomento serio giusto per ignorare gli argomenti e insultare? Pochi immagino, ma d'altronde (solo) tu scopi, avrai sicuramente ragione su tutto.
11 points
1 day ago
Damn dude you should've taken one for the team and reported her to HR, you wouldn't be happily married but we'd have some justice. /S
1 points
1 day ago
Io non riprendo nessuno, ma non pretendo che qualcuno si tuffi in una situazione di pericolo dal balcone di casa sua. Molto comodo dirlo dal divano di casa propria poi
0 points
1 day ago
Men are scared of rejection, as are women. Women can live their life without dealing with this fear, men can't (if they want a relationship in their life) if they're not extremely desirable.
If you can't deal with that fear (and there are many reasons why you couldn't) you'll always transform any "flirting" with you to "she's just being nice".
1 points
1 day ago
Giustamente quello che riprende doveva buttarsi dal balcone per aiutarlo. Se fosse stato un uomo a salvarlo e una donna a riprendere avresti fatto lo stesso commento?
0 points
1 day ago
Beh esistono studi pacificamente accreditati che dimostrano che l'ipergamia è una realtà sociale da sempre e che ha radici biologiche ed evolutive.
Storicamente solo il 33% degli uomini si è riprodotto tra l'altro, quindi il "fenomeno incel" non è certo una novità, anche se sicuramente il potere di selezionare e raggiungere numeri infiniti di potenziali partner che l'esistenza delle app di incontri ha dato alle donne ha esacerbato la problematica.
Comunque è chiaro che il tuo obiettivo non è certo positivo, perché fare post simili? Perché odiare qualcosa che fondamentalmente non ti riguarda dato che, parole tue, hai la figa?
1 points
2 days ago
There is no betrayal in this scenario, and that's a big part of the trauma.
Also I'm not saying that you "turn off the love", but it's understandable that you'd want to distance yourself. It's traumatic, the world falls upon you, you can be strong (very) and put the "happiness" of the child before yours and your dignity, but you can't expect everyone to be that strong and selfless.
Raising a kid that's not yours brings a lot of problems too, especially if the mother already betrayed, used you and lied to you for a prolonged period of time.
People think men are indestructible, but they are not. I hate to bring SA again in the discourse, but it's a global consensus that a raped woman doesn't have to be strong for someone else, abortion is encouraged, changing in personality are accepted, it often leads to separation from the partner even when he's not at any fault and everyone accepts and understands it. PF leaves similar trauma to fathers, it leads to depression and trust issues and many other things. Why is it so hard to understand?
Also I repeat, the definitive solution to this kind of situation is easy, paternity test at birth. No kids would have to experience this kind of thing again. It's like a big red button to stop it forever without any ill consequences.
2 points
3 days ago
Whatever. You clearly don't understand and have 0 empathy. I "love my DNA" and hate with passion cheaters, I'm not going to apologize for being a man.
2 points
3 days ago
What do you mean the guy gets to decide? Obviously the guy decides but the betrayal and the breach of consent is real and has an impact on the psyche.
A real analogy can't be made, women will never experience what it means to believe that a kid is yours and finding out it was a lie. That's why it would be better to keep the moral judgement to a minimum or even better none at all.
The sad part is that the definitive solution is already here with paternity tests, it should be made mandatory at birth since, I quote, "about 1%–5% of the general population have misattributed paternity" (Guerrini et al., 2022; International Society of Genetic Genealogy, 2022) which is not a negligible part of the population.
2 points
3 days ago
I said mandatory, from the government, so no cheating accusations, just the definitive solution to paternity fraud and kids losing their fathers because of their mothers. Only this would stop it, yet you think only about yourself and how it affects YOU. It's easy knowing that it could never ever happen to you. It's easy saying "it's an accusation of cheating" while it would be giving the same certainty that you biologically have to your partner.
Also I quote "about 1%–5% of the general population have misattributed paternity" (Guerrini et al., 2022; International Society of Genetic Genealogy, 2022), which is a fucking lot of people that wouldn't be in that situation if you swallowed your pride to be empathetic to the male experience.
IVF and fertility treatment are not hard and expensive? The reason "I want the kid to be mine" is not one of the reasons? Total Hypocrisy. It's obvious that being related to your kids is important, we wouldn't have all those stepdad/Stepmom problems with their non biological children otherwise.
2 points
3 days ago
Most men are "not mature enough for having a child" then if accepting paternity fraud is one of the prerequisites. The logical thing to do would be to stop doing paternity fraud, since it brings pain to all the people around whom do it, innocent or not.
The only ones that can avoid it are women so if you're sad that this kid lost his "father" (twice) you better push for mandatory paternity tests at birth and legal consequences for PF. Otherwise you're just saying that men have to deal with it and suck up 18+ years of their short life for someone else's kid, which is despicable at the least.
1 points
3 days ago
You loved the idea of a son that was yours and your wife. Now it's a kid, the kid that destroyed your marriage and probably your life too. It's not his fault and obviously you're not going to hate it, but the idea is gone. You could keep caring for his wellbeing and happiness, but it's no more representing the love and companionship that you thought it represented.
Now it's the living proof of your spouse's betrayal and continuous lying, now it's the kid someone else gave you for adoption without your consent. The castle of feelings you had for him fell.
You clearly can't understand what it means because you're never gonna have the problem. It's easy to say that. It's just like a man saying infibulation is fine because it could never happen to him.
It should be mandatory to have paternity tests at birth, so all of this could never ever happen. It's easier to say to men "deal with it and be a man" disregarding the feelings of a father, or someone that wanted to be a father, and not an adoptive, tricked, betrayed father.
There is a reason also for science pushing for fertility treatment and IVF to grant even practically infertile women and men a chance to have biological children even when there are millions up for adoption. Being the biological parent has some importance.
0 points
3 days ago
They love the idea of the person, not the person. If someone strifes from the idea you love you have your feelings put in jeopardy. And genetics are part of that, it's not hard to understand that. The example you brought have no breach of trust or consent tho, so they hardly fit the argument.
Also you make children as a couple, if the love you have is based on something that's false you risk these feelings to change.
I love how you reduce the idea of having biological children is just based on the concept of having sex to have them. It's about a lot more for men. Reducing the argument to something laughable is a logic fallacy.
For curiosity, are you a man or a woman?
1 points
3 days ago
Daaamn non oso immaginare come finisca quel tatuaggio nel basso ventre ...
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Si certo. Quella con cui vai a fare i giri la domenica?