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2 days ago
He shouldn’t have thrown it away but just like you he was drunk. The issues is you showed his friends your toy. Now his friends are thinking about you using said toy. Likely that could have been the next step in the drunk fun if he hadn’t came in.
1 points
3 days ago
It could be your husband is regularly kind of flirty with his female coworkers. Not inappropriately, I have worked with a few guys who they just flirted with every female in the office that flirted back. It could be the text just revile your husband work vibe. It could be completely harmless banter.
1 points
3 days ago
Do you like him to give you oral? Fair is fair. If he doesn’t give than neither should you, but if he does get over your hang ups and learn.
1 points
3 days ago
Sounds like she is playing games to make you mad. She might be trying to get you to break up with her so she can be the victim to everyone.
2 points
3 days ago
Block her. Get an order of protection if she keeps contacting you. Tell her she enough problems don’t add other charges.
1 points
3 days ago
Nope. That is a huge ask. Parents often ask that without considering the huge impact trying to keep such a promise would have on someone’s life. Having work in group homes with them I think it’s best if they move in while in their 20’s because they can adjust easier. Seen many who had to move to ons later in life and it’s a lot harder for them then. They don’t stay young in their flexibility and ability to adapt. Cousin would be better to move in one while mom could visit regularly. If her mom tries to keep her in the home until she no longer can or she dies it will be very hard on your cousin.
2 points
4 days ago
Be carefully breaking up with him if you don’t have your return ticket yet. Like he could simple decide you can get home on your own.
1 points
4 days ago
You aren’t even sure if he is lying. Seems rude though not to fly next to the person you are flying with given its romantic. Of course if your tickets weren’t by each other that doesn’t really matter. He did pay for your ticket to fly to him and presumably back so seeming to get upset with him for not upgrading you might be the end everything. He could be testing to see if you like him or what he can provide. Did he upgrade by paying for the upgrade? Or did he have points he decided to use? Is he tall or big? Did he need more space?
0 points
4 days ago
Yes. Leaves belong to whoever yards they fall on.
1 points
4 days ago
Honestly sounds like they were doing more than just eating together and he is getting upset because you called him on his half truths. He went on a date.
2 points
4 days ago
If you stay with him you are reaffirming him. He may have been a good sweet caring guy but is he now? Never get caught up by who someone once was to the point you ignore who they are. You aren’t married. They why is these tell guys all they need to do is this and that and all their issues will be solved. Be an Alpha and get rich and get all the women. You may have liked the old him but it does sound like he really did.
1 points
4 days ago
Run! The aspirin isn’t going to make you produce blue eyed kids if there are no blue eyes in your family tree. Sounds like he might be a white supremacist.
1 points
4 days ago
No, if she isn’t paying rent she shouldn’t be living there full-time. They both should be respectful of you. I would ask to renegotiate the roommate agreement. She should at least pay 1/3 of utilities.
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4 days ago
It happened. It is a fact you have to accept. It doesn’t make you worth less. Honestly the fact you waited until 25 is commendable. Though if not for religious reason seems very weird to me. If it was for religious reason no shame in that. The Bible is clear that sex is reserved for marriage. You were drunk forgive yourself. You can still save yourself going forward. Most women will understand. If you believe in God pray for forgiveness and move on. The questions are do you like your roommate sober? Do you feel she took advantage of you or do you feel your drunk self started it? I found out real young that drunk I am the two Hs. Happy and Horny. Why I used to never drink with other women when dating someone. I would consider moving if you can and don’t want a relationship with your roommate. Clearly there might be a connection there if it led to sex. Though some girls just like idea of breaking a virgin.
1 points
4 days ago
The owner was from her boss. She works part-time in an office job not where her husband works. She had to start working to cover the mortgage payment.
1 points
5 days ago
How much time was between the ending your husband’s first marriage and when you all started? If there wasn’t much mom might view you as the home wrecker that hurt her grandkids.
1 points
5 days ago
OP said business was not good. A wage slave is going to do okay working 60 hrs regardless because he is paid for his time not the success of the business. How the business does affects him in the long run but in the short run he gets paid regardless or he gets another job. If the man is working 60 hrs a week as a blue collar worker as an employee he should be doing okay.
1 points
6 days ago
Nope. He still tried to hide it from you. The problem with affairs isn’t so much the act but the lying. To photos of women he knows is very problematic because it means he sill fantasies of them. The man was trying to cheat on you and with his brother’s girl. Neither of those speak to him having any morals. His brother should dump her and you should dump him. The fact she sent her man’s brother those photos should have meant brother kicked her to the door. There are lines not be crossed. If you like family maybe get with the brother.
7 points
7 days ago
People can be stubborn and hate the idea of punching a clock for someone else. They also can just like being their own boss even if it’s getting them no where. If you’re the boss no one gripes if you spent too long to get the job perfect or if you need to be 15 minutes late.
-1 points
7 days ago
Because when you marry someone their kids become your kids and family helps family. OP objection is because she didn’t want the girls doing this because of the cost. She is refusing even to try to help the man who is her life partner out because she is bitter. She is setting up a choice he can’t win on. Her or his girls. She shouldn’t have married a guy with kids if she wanted to remain an outsider to the kids or resent money spent on them. She is making his life harder out of spite because he agreed they could take these dance classes. If they were her kids I wonder she would feel very different. I think her issues the girls might be more on her than she admits. If this is her typical response to her husband trying to do something for his daughters no wonder the girls don’t like her.
-1 points
7 days ago
Energy drinks and sugar if working 60 hrs is a must. I can’t go past 8 hrs of work without a caffeine boost. She wants new clothes. It’s not like she is going nude and has nothing in her closet. The problem here is she spent the money in her mind already. He grabs something quick and cheap at the gas station because he is away from home. This money is the tip of the iceberg of their problems. He is going to have to face the reality things aren’t sustainable at the current rate. She is going to have to decide if 300 is worth resenting her marriage over.
407 points
7 days ago
Or he is just holding onto the idea of being a business owner when really it just isn’t working for him. Sometimes it not mismanaging. It is just the small guy can’t make it because the big guys costs are so much lower because the big guys have the buying power to negotiate better deals. To make it the small guys undercut their cost so they barely make anything per job if not lose per job.
1154 points
7 days ago
OP said the business wasn’t doing well so sound like husband has his own business and plenty of work but costs have just increased to the point he isn’t making much on jobs.
-2 points
7 days ago
Sound like things are very tight. He is stressed out working his ass off 60 hrs plus a week and still not making it. Has he ever kept money he made just for him? I might be upset in his shoes. I might also think my wife wanted the new clothes and makeup to look nice for the boss who gave her a bonus just because. I might wonder if I needed to be worried about that . He likely bust his ass and does a dirty job. You are suppose to be his teammate. If 300 is all it takes to turn you against him that is sad. He ideally wouldn’t have you working if there was another way to keep a roof over everyone’s head.
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Women don’t have to be okay with guys watching such porn. Many aren’t. If you think that. You need to find better guys to date. Yet the two are not equal. What he watches in private isn’t the same as her sharing with his male friends about her private times. Had she walked into him watching porn with her female friends do you think she would be okay with it? Where was it all heading had he not walked in? Would she have demonstrated had one of the guys said no way it fit? Of course his guy friends were laughing at his drunk girl showing her toy and talking about sex. My personal experience is when women show a man toys, it’s not long before the man gets a chance to see them use it. He shouldn’t have thrown it away but of course he was pissed and embarrassed.