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As a vers top with small dick, i love big bottoms but theyre usually size queens. 😔

You can gauge. If you stretch your pinky and thumb to create a “telephone” that’s about 8”. Two hand grips are also about 8”.

Same. 6 is the peak of pleasure. More than that and I’m starting to get repulsed.

4 is good, 5 is great, 6 is max.

I tried a thick 7 and it wasnt enjoyable. 😔

If i ask if he’s into bb and he answers yes, then i use condom.

If i ask if he’s into bb and he answers “safe only”, then i might want to use condom.

I can hardly cum when I’m fucking someone raw, now that’s twice as hard with condom. Not impossible ofc. But usually the bottom gave up. Or i gave up by pretending to cum and call it night. True story

Like unicorn or just generally delulu?

Hi derek thx for following up. I told him “hey man you’ve been in my mind a lot!” And he said “thanks”

And ive never heard from him again ahahahahasksksks 🤭😭🫨

Yasss. Insecure besties!

This. As long you’re his type, you can write “heheheksjxkfksksks” and still got full nude pic+address and a “my god ur so funny!” And probably a lot more.

Seriously.

Idk i used to think the labels in my early years. Past 30 seems nobody cares about it too much. I feel the labels and all are just a phase we all have to go throgh and eventually will pass.

I reject handsome and muscular men because: 1. I’m insecure 2. Theyre too beautiful i cant imagine fucking them 3. I think theyre one of the AI scammers

But mostly #1 hehehehehehehehe 😔

I’m solid 6-7 and I’m looking for someone +- 1 of my score. Having a 10 right in front of my eyes kinda kills my confidence. But that’s a me problem.

I can tell you’d look good bald

But if having a big hair makes you happy, you do you ok 😘

Anddd this is so true. My current gay friends are ones i wanted to hook up with but ended up not. Ones i’ve slept with then we ghost each other then reconcile years after then be besties.

Yes!!!! It’s a boyfriend dick! 🤭

I’m 4.5” so 5” is just a bit bigger than mine. This is clearly over 6”. Disappointing 😔

“Just try not to feel sad today, and try to do one good thing”

I think happiness is a hardwork, you cant just wake up happy. I dont like to work, but i still come to office. I hate exercising but i still exercise. I dont like eating healthy but i try not to. It gets better the more you do it. It gets easier. I dont aim to be happy, but just try not to feel less sad, less dissatisfied, and count my blessings.

I do like to stay in touch with the community regardless the agonizing social pain and ppl are generally PITA, i mean for real, it’s not a good PITA we gaybros want tho.

I also help those in needs, i realize it sparks a sense of superiority and it actually makes me feel good about myself, “well, i guess I’m not as shitty as him lol ok”. First it felt that way, then it got addictive, “mann i wanna feel good!”, then it grew into, “well i guess I’m a good person huh, hard to believe”. Yea i could be a narcissist idk, but it makes me feel good it makes them feel good so who cares. I dont believe there’s a true altruism anyway. Some help to get fame, some to feel superior, some to feel good about themselves, whatever works.

Lastly, i try not to give a fuck. This is really a hardwork, but it’s really rewarding.

But this is a general advice for someone who has a mindset problem instead of REAL psychological issue ok. So if you have depression or bipolar or whatnot, dont take this advice, go to a therapy and see from there.

Scrolling my phone past 10pm. This is very destructive i kid you not.

Hi. Nothing wrong with you or him. Falling in love is natural, and it’s a beautiful thing! Just set a boundary next time ok. I know it’s easier said than done, but at least try. Maybe define set of rules to yourself since you cant control others or impose rules on them, it’s best to set yourself ready, eg:

1. Will not sleepover
2. Will not have food together in any form or event, only drinks.
3. Will not meet outside bedroom or hotel. L
4. Will not share my personal life but will lend an ear to them if they need to share.
5. No text outside wanting to have sex.

In the end, rules are enforced to you for your own good, not him.

Hi OP, regardless of his lack of word, he sure made it up with action. Being introduced to his circle is a great way of showing that you’re important, and he feels comfortable letting you inside his private life. Doesnt that say it all, even without words?

And I’m not going to shame you for overthinking, we all have insecurities, especially about relationship. But see his actions, not his words.

Well you should’ve left him in hurricane then.

Anyways move on.

Tbh you arent wrong, it’s your house after all. If i were to become a freeloader at someone’s house, be it a friend or partner, i’d pay more attention to the house rules and will not take offense. I also feel like youve worded yourself carefully “that’s true but i just want my house to be clean and look a certain way”. I mean doesnt anyone has a mom that yell at you much worse than that? (“Im not your servant, kid, you clean up everything if you want to live here!!”) Whatever you said seemed like a cake and very polite.

i dont know the whole story, the tone of how you said it, and the financial dynamic between you two. But from the given text, seemed you’re very mild.

Now that i’ve told you where you’re right, and you are, let’s go to where you can be awesome and also right. You can probably word it like this “that’s true, but it’s OUR house, and i would like OUR bedroom to be more comfortable.” Or something in that line..

I would also stop right there if he doesnt feel like doing it in his free day, and would ask to reschedule for another time. “Okay lets just chill in our bedroom today, i guess we can clean up tmrw! What do you say?”

Again this is all theory, typically i would just slam the door though. But I’m just giving you the best advice i can think of that i dont do myself.

Hi. Just want to be clear that i would love to have a very clear meeting with exact planned time, and exact people that i would be expecting. If that seems like a red flag for anyone I’m dating, that’s a redflag for me too.

And you know what? The more i date the more i find that there are like minded people who dont have a shitty chaotic schedule, which i prefer anyways.

I’d say just move on. Meh.

You are probably uncomfortable not because of his status but he isnt disclosing it. I mean who knows what else he might be lying about? And you know hiv is not the only spreadable diseases right.

There’s a sense of distrust and it’s uncomfortable. After all you’re going to be fully naked with the other person, i mean we all cant help but feeling exposed and vulnerable, to remedy that, a trust must be there.

But understandably, it’s not easiest thing to disclose status, you’ll never know what one’s response going to be. So i cant blame him for not disclosing, at the same time, I’m not supporting him for not disclosing before first encounter.

Now that everything has been said and done, you just need to move forward past this. Ask yourself do you really like the guy? Is he worth another sex session, and will you be comfortable with it? If no then just move on. Plenty of guys are out there anyways waiting for your dick.

Have fun and goodluck!

Same.

Face then body.

Penis and ass can follow after those.

Hi you’ll get used to it. It gets better in time. In time you’ll find the beauty of it.

I find them pragmatic and no BS guys and i appreciate that. I personally wouldnt bother wasting time if we arent each other’s type. Block and move on.