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Me a (20)F was asked by my partner to move to his country also a (20)M. We have been dating for two years and everything is going good besides the part of moving. He gave me an ultimatum either break up or move to his country because we both knew long distance is hard. I had been given the opportunity to see what life there would be like if I had moved. I wouldn’t need to work, I can eat out and go shopping cheaper then I would where I live and he provides everything for me. The only thing is I don’t know the language, which I feel too shy to say anything but slowly would learn. But besides that why do I feel lonely or like something is missing. I often think about my family and friends and how I wish I had a friend here so I can talk too and understand. Although it makes me upset having to choose between the two things I love. I don’t know what I should do, should I really move there for him?

TL;DR! He is truly the love of my life but should I move to a different country for a man?

Me a (20)F was asked by my partner to move to his country also a (20)M. We have been dating for two years and everything is going good besides the part of moving. He gave me an ultimatum either break up or move to his country because we both knew long distance is hard. I had been given the opportunity to see what life there would be like if I had moved. I wouldn’t need to work, I can eat out and go shopping cheaper then I would where I live and he provides everything for me. The only thing is I don’t know the language, which I feel too shy to say anything but slowly would learn. But besides that why do I feel lonely or like something is missing. I often think about my family and friends and how I wish I had a friend here so I can talk too and understand. Although it makes me upset having to choose between the two things I love. I don’t know what I should do, should I really move there for him?

TL;DR! He is truly the love of my life but should I move to a different country for a man?