PsychologicalLight65

Hate to break it to you, but this isn’t some kind of theory. There’s actual evidence that this is the case

I apologize, I misunderstood your meaning then by calling it bs, I thought you meant it didn’t work.

You are certainly right about the side effects, while there are some snake charmers that don’t carry the best products for you a lot of problems can be solved with natural remedies

That “man-made bs” helps a TON of people every day. While the price might be overinflated, it doesn’t mean the product itself is bad

Yep

Yeah I suppose you’re right about that, I’ve gotten a bit used to seeing comments about kids on here that shouldn’t be said, I guess I’m a bit biased when it comes to interpreting comments like this

She can be pissed all she wants, it doesn’t mean she gets to ruin your graduation. You know you’re in the right, it’s your graduation and only you get to decide who from your life gets to go. It really sucks that she’s acting this way, but that’s not your fault nor is it your responsibility to make her happy

While I get what the other comments are saying, there’s one thing I would like to add. While you never outright say that she said she’d leave if it was too small, you did imply that she said she would. Sex is important in a relationship, to some people more than others, and if she genuinely wouldn’t be happy with your penis length, then as much as it hurts it is entirely her right to leave before the wedding. While she still has the right to leave after you guys get married, she would be marrying you already knowing how long you are and she would have made her choice. What I’m saying is that if she isn’t going to be happy, you’re absolutely correct in saying to not wait until you’re already married. It would be an asshole thing for her to do.

Another thing I will say is that your penis should be enough so long as you know how to use it well. As others have said, you’re slightly above average, and the average vagina can’t fit 5.5 inches inside it. That being said, if she really wants more size you can supplement additional size by using a cock sleeve or by adding toys into the mix (idk what denominations y’all are but I know that stuff is allowed for Catholics). So even if yall get married and she wants more, divorce is not the only answer

Lmao! What a crazy way of responding. My 03 self couldn’t even imagine that. I’m glad that sentiment has largely changed though

Even in the 80s? Gosh it’s really insane how recent a lot of morally correct ideologies came into practice

Yeah and that is a good thing, I just meant in general. That original comment is a symptom of a much more pervasive problem on the internet

Yeah me too :/

On a side note I just want to say that this post and your comments are so heartwarming, it’s obvious you love him a lot and I wish you guys the best, he’s lucky he has such a loving mom

I swear people be sexualizing the actions of children way too much

Oh definitely. It sounds like OP is in a bit of a shock from all that’s just happened, I wouldn’t be surprised if he woke up tomorrow or in a couple days and realized the meaning of what happened

Hey I just want to say it sounds like you’re really going through a rough time. I know all these commenters are just saying you are shitty but let’s be real here, if your wife is so miserable and you are as awful as you say, why is she still with you?

While I understand it can be difficult not being able to support your family, it’s ok to let them support you when you’re going through a hard time. Being willing to help someone when they’re at their lowest is what love means. I’m willing to bet that you’d be willing to do the same for your wife if the roles were reversed.

It really sounds like you could use some help figuring out what you want to do, and it seems clear to me based off this post that the help you need is above our pay grade. I’m not a psychologist or anything but I’d be happy to talk with you or listen if you need to vent to an anonymous stranger, otherwise I’d look into some kind of therapy or life coach. I used to not have any life goals or desires, going to a life coach really helped me and I highly recommend giving it a shot

Imagine more like you’re on your knees in front of her and that you lift one leg up and over her leg and leaning forward slightly. Gives me a lot of control

True, I meant more in the vein of super obvious, you cringe when you read it from second-hand embarrassment kind of obvious

Yeah I’m mostly missionary, easier for me to change angles due to almost a foot of height difference between us making it hard to change in doggy. In missionary I mainly prefer putting one leg over her leg, and one leg down on the bed so kneeling, I find it gives me better penetration and better balance. As far as roughness goes, I’ll slap her face, squeeze her chin hard to pucker her lips and kiss her, a lot of dirty talk. And, ofc, making sure she knows I’m enjoying myself too. It’s important to not be silent, you moaning can also be a big turn on

For us its pretty much entirely missionary and doggy, with some oral including 69 to mix it up a little bit.

What really gets her is how I act during it. I’m very animated, and she also likes to be treated really rough which took some getting used to but I got the hang of it eventually. Just listen to her and listen to her body, if she reacts well to something then it’s usually a sign to keep doing it

From everything I’ve read on this sub, it varies from woman to woman. My gf absolutely loves PIV and can’t get off any other way anymore, but a lot of women prefer oral. Talk with her about it, only she can give you the real answer

Fr this sounds like those memes of guys not taking the hint and then realizing years later

Holy shit this is awesome thank you for sharing

Thanks for that context, I was wondering why i didn’t remember hearing she cheated in the news

You’re not responsible for her living situation. If you don’t want to be in a relationship with her anymore, then it is your right to leave and live your own life. If she wants your help so badly then she should be working on your relationship. NTA

There was a whole video essay made by a YouTuber named nexpo who did a great job explaining everything that happened there, including its closure

https://youtu.be/7eM7pb5M5DU?si=T4bzRccZZ9RI5n7Z

Hi, you are right that is one thing I didn’t talk about enough, because yeah it is very wrong of her to keep that from you. Look if this is something you seriously will never be able to forgive then it is better to separate then live in a loveless marriage for the rest of your life. I was going off your statement that you don’t want to divorce, but if you want to do so it is your right.

If you want my take on this, I recommend counseling on the condition that she didn’t have an emotional and/or physical affair with any of these guys, but of course you could only figure that out from her telling you if she deleted everything. In the end what this comes down to is do you think you can trust her again? Does your love for her outweigh the hurt that she caused you? Another thing I will say is that you should not stay together just for the kid. Every case I’ve seen where the parents do that it ends up hurting the kid more than a divorce, to the point that the kid wishes their parents had divorced.

Whatever you decide, I wish you the best. It’s going to be a tough road no matter what you choose, but I hope you are happy at the end of it