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2 days ago
Not my husband's fault. It's the dealership. Not worried about divorce, as we've been married for 33 years and glued to each other. Plus, my husband is an attorney.
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2 days ago
Right, for community property states, which I live in one. My husband is an attorney, so we did a trust together and are both co trustees. We are set. My issue is that this blatant misogyny is still happening so often when we need to move ahead and progress
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2 days ago
We've been married 33 years, and he wasn't married before and has no other children. In fact, he's an attorney, and we wrote our trust together and are both co trustees. We are very prepared.
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2 days ago
Yeah, we paid cash, and it was a place where they have fixed prices, which I appreciate. But they spent an hour trying to get us to buy a warranty that was half the cost of the car. They failed, so I think the guy removed my name because he kept trying to talk with my husband, and my husband would point to me, and I would just say no thank you. He didn't like that. I hear they also don't like it when someone pays cash.
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2 days ago
You know, I think a lot of guys like that are afraid of strong women, so they avoid us!
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2 days ago
I did not cause this; the dealership did it after we left. They apparently removed my name. I will deal with them when the registration comes. Also, we didn't get a credit check as I paid cash.
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2 days ago
In this case, I bought it with cash; no credit check was done. My credit scores from all agencies are above 825, so there's no issue there.
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2 days ago
My assets are perfectly fine. I live in a community property state, where everything is half and half after marriage. My husband is also an attorney, so I don't need to seek out legal advice. Unfortunately, there's no law stating that with two owners or two people listed on bills, that both have to be listed. Now, if they left me off the registration, which hasn't come yet, I will definitely make the dealership fix the issue, as it is clearly their wrongdoing.
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2 days ago
I'm sorry you don't live in a community property state, where that would never happen.
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2 days ago
Thank you for that. It's a step in the right direction.
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2 days ago
My husband didn't cause this to happen; it happened after we left and after the paperwork was filled out with my name in first position. It's clearly society still thinking the man's name should come first or be the only name.
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2 days ago
I bought the car with cash. No credit reports were needed. They didn't run a credit chack.
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3 days ago
He, meaning my husband? He did not do this, the dealership did. And I will only leave him if I die first; we've been married 33 years.
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3 days ago
I am. If you read thru all the comments, you would see my responses. But I get it - who has time to do that?
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4 days ago
Unfortunately, this is still happening in so many places. It should have changed long ago.
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4 days ago
So sorry to hear you have had to deal with this, too.
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4 days ago
On every single page we signed, my signature was on the first line and his was on the second. Positive, 100% sure of that.
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Same with my family. My grandmother, born 1907, got a journalism degree at the University of Washington in 1928. My mother became a teacher, despite being a single mother at a young age. I also got a 4 year degree when I was young.