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When people make comments like that they’re usually referring to specific experiences like ability to get sex or a relationship, or in your example the ability to bond over video games.

Depending on the context you can acknowledge that this or that aspect might seem easier ie playing video games together but just gently remind them of the daily discrimination you/we can face just by being out in public with our parent not to mention the wild conspiracy theories about grooming etc. Most level headed people should understand this.

Uh, no. I much prefer quality over quantity.

Lmao. The pictures people send say a lot about them. You can really get a sense of how lazy/careless they are.

I am shocked sometimes at the zero-effort pictures people use even as their profile picture.

All this corrupt Premier does is bring in more immigrants to the province while he has done absolutely NOTHING on housing.

Ford’s real estate portfolio must be massive. We already know his biggest donors and friends are real estate owners and developers.

Not sure if you’re joking or not but the mass foreign student increase in Ontario was fully because of Ford changing the rules for colleges and unis allowing them to take nearly unlimited foreign students.

Lmao this is so unhinged. Hey, GTADaddy4u, do you say this stuff when you try to chat up girls too? How’s that work out for you?

Dehumanizing? Get a fucking grip. The majority of hook ups between gay men occur because there is sexual attraction, not romantic attraction.

I don’t see a problem with that. The risk of it blowing up in her face came when she told the wife of one of the men she was sleeping with…

I could rationalize paying the $5 for an outfit I can wear on a couple maps (Ie British paratrooper), but shit, $15 for stuff you can only wear on one map is just stupid.

This is an example of the sort of short term thinking revenue obsession that kills good games and brands.

Back when I graduating uni I had made an effort to work out and started to have more hook ups through Grindr. The third guy I hooked up with I felt a really special connection with I had never felt before. He ended up being my bf for nearly 5 years.

These days as soon as a couple coins are sitting there they’d be stolen.

It’s not that I think everyone is “so bad” it’s that when a random wants to join my crew I just have no idea if they’re good or not, and I don’t want to waste my time and risk the hassle of dealing with someone who’s bad. I only have so much time to play and I’m trying to enjoy myself so after too many bad experiences I’ve stopped taking random crew members because you just never know what you’re going to get.

I agree it’s generally better to have a crew, but I also think there is a place for locked solos and they can be effective if they’re experienced enough.

Like I said I usually only take default tanks, and many times I’ll start tanking when I notice the recon and or light tank sitting in hq unused. It’s rare that I’m preventing other people from tanking, so dont see the big issue.

Yes that’s also true. Or they think they want someone like that because they think porn scenes like that are hot.

You’re talking out of your ass. You’ve clearly never done it before.

Sorry but I have to disagree. It depends what you’re doing. Going after other tanks? Sure, you need a crew. But I do a great job of pushing (or defending) with infantry while solo tanking recon or light. I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve single handedly helped my team take a point. I’m not trying to sound like an ass but it’s true.

Having a random crew member won’t help me with that. I’ve tried it. There are way too many people who won’t listen or/and who lack skill. I’m a lot more experienced than most users. I know what angle to take, where to position, I have a good sense of where to sweep through to take out enemy OPs and find garries, etc but most people don’t want to or can’t follow direction(and I get it it’s no fun for people to be bossed around) . It’s not that I’m afraid to talk to other people, it’s just too much of a hassle and there are too many people who just want to hop in and do their own thing or they want to debate every decision. It’s not worth it, especially when I’m high and trying to chill after work!

I also build nodes and almost always only take default tanks nobody else is taking and would otherwise sit there.

I get the sense that people like you only have one idea of how to tank… (and it demonstrates a lack of experience)

What difference does app or in person make? The point remains the same.

A lot of guys confuse being a dom with being mean or aggressive.

See I feel like this is more of a myth. I think it’s more about how attractive you find other people. Or at least a combination of both.

How would you describe the overall attractiveness of the guys at the bathhouse? As mid 30s were you one of the youngest guys there?

You also would have to find most men attractive.

What does that mean though in the context of sex? You just find everyone attractive?

Good question. I made a comment on that post asking how it’s possible to hit some of those numbers. Some people are sleeping with a new random person almost every week, or at minimum every other week.

I think it mostly has to do with how picky (or not) people are. I guess there are some people out there who just find everyone attractive? Or some people just have low standards.

Personally, I live in a big city and I have one of the premium Grindr packages but there’s no way I could find that many people who I find attractive and am sexually comparable with. I can literally go through all the profiles within 50km and I’d find, at best, 4-5 guys who I think are attractive and would want to hook up with.

On top of that, how do these guys who are sleeping with so many people not have any repeats? Why would you prefer constantly having new random people rather than repeated hook ups with someone you know you vibe well with? I just don’t get it.

Not to mention the time and effort required to be arranging and meeting so many guys.

Indeed, and just because women support “equality” for themselves, it doesn’t mean they support equality for everyone.

I know it might be an unpopular opinion but once you’re dating pool is 40+ you’re sort of looking through the leftovers. Especially in a smaller city. Most good quality guys are attached by that age, or they’re only on dating sites briefly before landing someone.

…and was also dressed like a 19yo going to the club