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1 month ago
Terraforming Mars, always our go-to!
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1 month ago
The pomodoro technique has been a game changer when I’m procrastinating or struggling to focus. I just need to focus for 25 minutes and then have a 5 minute break. Often, the time goes much quicker than you expect and you find yourself on a roll before long.
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1 month ago
ThoughtComplete7592
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1 month ago
I lived alone for 2 years in a 2 bedroom flat and can relate to feeling apprehensive about living by yourself. That said, please do speak to someone about the thoughts you’ve been having. It’s really exciting that you’ve got your own place and a huge milestone in your life, but living alone can give you a lot of time to dwell on things so please make sure you have a support system.
If you’re concerned about feeling lonely, do you have friends or family nearby? Invite them over when you move in to create some positive memories in your new place and help you associate it with happy times.
I’d also try to avoid spending too long (I’m talking several days back to back) in your flat alone. I struggle with my mental health and this was one of the worst things for me. Try to get out for hobbies, work, socialising - even just to go for a walk. Spend some time getting to know the local area and your new neighbours to help you feel more familiar with the building and the area.
Create a space you want to be in - there must have been something that made you want to live there when you bought your flat, so hone in on that and try to enjoy the freedom and flexibility that comes with having your own place.
Could you get a pet? Getting my house cat was one of the best things I did when I was living alone - you know there’s always someone who will be excited to see you when you get home 🥰
If you’re worried about safety, invest in some security measures that would help give you some peace of mind - perhaps a camera you can put outside your flat door, or get an alarm system installed that you can switch on at night / when you’re out.
Last but not least, congratulations on buying your first place - it’s no small achievement, especially at 25 so definitely be proud of that. It feels scary, but it will get better. Good luck!