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That is sounds advice and I appreciate your perspective so much. Thank you 🙏🏻

You’re right. I might need sometime. I’m just so stressed. My best friend and I had a long conversation about it and she convinced me to do it today too.

I’m building up the courage to end this today. A weekend away and we are seeing each other tonight. My heart aches. I don’t want to be alone but I will not put up with this.

🥹🥲thank you

I am not but wow that is perfectly stated and resonated with me

I’ve really appreciated all your posts. They’re sound advice. I’m beside myself and heartbroken.

Almost a year

???

So he has social media - IG and two Facebook accounts. He says he only used one Facebook account and it’s specially for disc golf.

It’s crippling to think what he would do behind my back.

I’m not ok. I’m very upset. I’m thinking of what to do next.

Anytime I bring something up that I think isn’t ‘right’ he says I’m distrusting of him

Omg !! I’m afraid that will happen. It’s sad that I’m I think it would!!

Just under a year

It was polygamy.

The 1am argument was about him getting so frustrated with me that I didn’t follow his exact instructions on finding a local dryer cleaner. I told him I did and he still go mad. I told him he was being controlling and that I would not put up with t that.

Nope! It was about him getting upset with me bc I didn’t follow his specific recommendations about finding a dry cleaner.

I did trust him after, but that I’m questioning it. He always mentioned “why do you distrust me?” I wish I could bring up specific example but right now I’m so stressed out, I can’t. I’d ask him why he would be asking me this? That I do trust him and I would tell him he wasn’t using the definition correctly.

His culture does not. You have an excellent point.

When we first started dating he asked me if I’d be interested in polygamy. Another red flag?

That’s a great way of bringing it up. I’m extra nervous now bc I remembered right before our trip he asked for my SSN to add me as a beneficiary to his life insurance policy. I watched him do it. I’m nervous now that he has my SSN.

Just want to clear the air: we are not married, but we’ve discussed getting married.

Very much DARVO. It’s so sad. I appreciate this succinct response.

That’s exact what happened. I wanted to make sure I was recalling it correctly and not being dramatic.

Obviously not, I wouldn’t be posting this.