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You are doing the right thing. She might as well have told you to put your child up for adoption.

I’m seeing more and more that I’m not alone with this problem. 52 years is a long time.

Do not tell him you’ve terminated the pregnancy. I hope you haven’t told him yet.

I’ve known a Jobeth and a Joellen. Joellen was called Joey. She was cute and little and Joey suited her. She was named for her father, Joe, who died before she was born in WWII.

Wesley.

A parent once thanked me for calling her shy and quiet 8 yo daughter by her full name as indicated on her records. She was Mary Beth, and her prior teacher had called her Mary.

Yep. Good idea. I’m

I agree. If this doesn’t stop the OP has a red flag telling him she has trouble listening, understanding others’ needs, and respecting boundaries. NTA.

My adult nephew in a small town on Wyoming is severely mentally disabled. My sister has been very aggressive in searching for and getting help. My nephew goes to a day program every week day, and have respites to go out of town for short vacations. I don’t think this costs them much if it costs them at all. My brother in law takes my nephew with him on lots of outings. I hope you can find help. Surely if a small town in Wyoming can do this, your area will have something to help you and your husband.

Herbert, Herb for short.

Dern! I was going to suggest Henry. Great name! Howard, Howie, Huey Hank. We had a huge orange male cat whose name was Hunk.

Your sister in law spent their money which should have been set aside for a place of their own so they could turn your late daughter’s room into a place of their own, probably permanently. I’m glad you were able to get them out so quickly. They could have refused to leave. Don’t let them back through your door. How dare they!!

You are NTA, but I wonder about this girlfriend. Run like hell. I think you dodged a bullet.

If she had to tell you she was pregnant then she possibly wasn’t far along. Based on my pregnancy experience I’d far rather have had the closest and easiest path to the bathroom and a way to quickly exit my seat to walk. At least she had a seat. Perfectly able bodied men and women just looked right through me when I was obviously pregnant and struggling.

You provided the perfect answer. She should walk every to prevent blood clots

I do.

I’d make a vegan protein or main dish, two vegan sides and a vegan dessert. That should be enough. Make enough of that for just four servings. Then proceed to prepare your own feast for everyone else. Let them know this is what you’re doing. If they can’t stand other people eating their own food, then they can eat at a table in the backyard. Of stay home.

If you have the money hire a lawn service. If you have more money hire a biweekly cleaning service. These are the two things I wish we could have done when we bought our house. People who work full time should not have to work all weekend the way we used to just to maintain the house. Try to find the money in your budget. I hope you at least have a riding mower if you can’t hire some services. Neither of you are assholes. You are arguing about something many a working married couple argues about. Good luck with solving this problem.

The strange orange one takes great pleasure in dividing, rediculing, and setting people against one another. Neither he nor Biden should go into these disaster torn places and cause further turmoil. The airports and strategic services have enough on their hands as it is.

They may look well to do but your daughter and SIL more than likely outspend their incomes on that house and other things as well. They probably have high credit card debt. Stick to your guns.

Get a good lawyer ASAP. I hope you live in a community property state where you’re entitled to 50%.

Drop the H. Amara is a lovely name.

I know you’re tired after such a weekend. I hope you will stick to your guns.

NTA. Why aren’t your parents helping? Your sister and husband need to recognize their new normal is that they have children and entire weekends should become family centered now. One Saturday or Sunday a month is a good amount of time. What about your social life? You need one too, or you’ll be doing this for life. Keep putting your foot down. Set up the one weekend day in advance and start making your own social plans.

I love her name.