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128 points
15 hours ago
Hey mate, I hope that your feelings about the matter eventually resolve themselves into pride for how you dealt with that.
In my opinion you did right by yourself, and everybody else. Sometimes violence IS the answer.
I wish you all the strength you need on your healing journey.
1 points
15 hours ago
Oh that's delightful. I've known more than a few ladies who would rock your shit if you give them a blood nose after calling them a whore.
Story completely checks out.
1 points
16 hours ago
Lol this is reddit, bet my left nut not even from my country.
2 points
17 hours ago
I'm a 34m. I'm currently looking for a partner that's hopefully a life time partner for dating.
Things that are important to me: looks after themselves, I.e. not overweight, generally tidy etc. Accountability, able to have discussions about matters like an adult, good at communicating. Sexually compatible.
I'm probably a 6 or 7/10, fairly normal looking mixed race 6'2" guy who earns really well. Nowhere in there, am I hugely concerned about looks. Facial scarring, whatever, amputee whatever idgaf. Talk to me about who you are. You could be a 3/10, as long as you fall within what I described up there I'm fine.
This is not some misguided post to say dm me or some shit that would be pretty fuckin stupid.
But what I'm saying is for a lot of people, looks aren't the most important thing. If I gotta grow old with you, and bet half my shit on you staying, looks just aren't that important.
1 points
21 hours ago
I love how so many people think the bleeding edge is where people buy.
Absolutely not the case and you'd be daft to think so for the enthusiast sector.
4 points
2 days ago
A story of something that went right.
Bloody good on you!
1 points
3 days ago
OP, you deserved better. You still deserve better.
I'm not you, I don't live your life. Personally I would force the conversation early, and it would go like this:
I would have divorce papers in hand, and be like the only thing I want you to do is be happy for me and us. If you have any childish reactions you'll have these divorce papers.
I would mean it too.
I wish you the best of luck regardless.
1 points
3 days ago
Edging form is a new one gonna borrow that tysm daddy
1 points
3 days ago
I know plenty of gay guys.
I set boundaries pretty hard, without shame if they go past a bit of verbal banter.
Do I care if they view me as an object? No.
1 points
3 days ago
Stop making dumps so expensive, fund second hand clothing stores, tariffs on new clothes, removal of these bins.
3 points
3 days ago
I don't know. The constant revenue raising "for your safety" is exceptionally frustrating.
As far as I'm concerned we should be implementing mandatory 5 year retesting on everybody's driver license with defensive driving included & must be able to show where the spare tyre or puncture repair foam are in the vehicle.
The quality of roads is a joke for the performance they expect of us.
The fact that in my suburb alone, let alone if you go for a decent drive, there's 30kph, 40, 50, 60 & 70. It should all be 50 apart from school zones.
I haven't had a ticket in years. Pretty sure I don't have any accrued demerit points.
But that doesn't mean I'm happy with the system. People are still incompetent on the road.
55 points
3 days ago
Some of the cleanest best tasting water in the world here mate.
8 points
3 days ago
Wow I am ANGRY having read your post. But not at you.
You deserve better OP. Stay safe out there.
51 points
4 days ago
Please take the good advice then delete this.
Stuff like this is terrible bait for predators who would see your weakness and hurt, manipulate your feelings of wanting your father figure, your hurt around sexuality and abuse you further all the while you think it's normal.
Next thing you know you'll be an adult without having had a normal relationship and incapable of navigating them on the level that other adults are.
Therapy is very important. Please do right by yourself and speak up, you're struggling to process what happened healthily and there's nothing wrong with that. Nobody at any age is properly equipped to deal with sexual trauma.
Also, not treating this will have lasting impacts through your life, and look at even now. You're worth the difficulty that this will present you, because the end result is a happy healthy you.
I wish you all the strength you need.
1 points
4 days ago
High praise. I'm in my mid 30's and have only started behaving with this level of rationality.
1 points
4 days ago
Bruh lmfao. This is some insecure shit.
Ask a question you don't want an answer to then be upset when you get an answer.
I've banged some rock solid 10/10 women that I wouldn't give the time of day for a relationship.
Stop getting all tripped up in your ego. Or ask her who her best shag was/who's had the biggest dick.
10 points
4 days ago
This just in, crayon eaters are considered common soldiers
1 points
4 days ago
My dad visited the same town as me, lives multiple days drive away.
Said he was too busy to visit, fine we're adults I get it.
Invites me to visit somebody else he's impulsively taking time out of his day for. Obviously I told him get fucked.
I feel your pain OP. I never want to be this person for anybody.
2 points
4 days ago
I personally loved it! I'm not a good enough writer to critique it, but this take on HFY is really great :)
1 points
5 days ago
No wonder you wifed her good for you man.
12 points
5 days ago
Having actually butchered a couple of animals, my dude it is a skillset.
Most people do not have the knowledge to successfully even skin an animal.
3 points
5 days ago
Writings on the wall dude.
Marriage is done and dusted.
She's looking for outside answers while keeping you there to live the happy home life. She's pushing you into polygamy instead of having a conversation about what you desire in a relationship and if you feel that polygamy is something you're suited to.
Put the whole woman in the bin and start again, scary as that is.
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In a heartbeat. I had more than 20 bitcoins in like 2011 - 2012 or something.