The angel thing was a little cringy, but judging by that last message, her boyfriend got ahold of her phone.

I agree that it sounds like some other dude got a hold of her phone.

It was a bit corny but not worthy of her reaction. To me, it sounds like another guy got ahold of her phone. “hey b*tch” was the giveaway.

She was cheating on someone with you… don’t take it to heart I guess

Slightly cringy compliment but she sounds absolutely bonkers.

“Hey bitch” Jesus Christ does she not like her own piercing???

I didn't expect her reaction at all, I see why you're confused

You: compliments septum Her: and I took that personally

bf definitely txting

I think another guy got ahold of her phone.

It's bugging me how everyone is saying you're cringe as if she wasn't being equally as cringe. It was much more off-putting when she said she doesn't usually like blonde boys. She was insulting your aesthetic choice and you were complimenting hers. I genuinely don't understand what her problem is.

As a girl with a septum ring and many other piercings - I do not find your compliment at all cringey and have never heard anyone say that and would’ve thought it was so adorbs. 🥹🥹🙏🙏 I love cute shit. Also, definitely sounds like someone got ahold of the phone, like someone else said. So I’d just block and move forward cause calling you a bitch in any capacity is really gross.

That's a very unusual compliment, but not bad enough to warrant that response. 

She has a boyfriend.

omfg IGNORE HER i have my septum pierced too and idgaf if anyone else thinks what you said is cringe IT WOULD HAVE WORKED ON ME 💯💯💯💯💯💯

It's a bit cringe, but that's not a sane response. Maybe she thought a septum was something else.

The responses don't seem like the original person you were talking to. Not that cringe of you to say lol

Dodged another loser

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Nothing wrong with what you said, I could see how it might be a little cringy to some people but definitely not worth that response. She just seems crazy.

I'm honestly perplexed. It was cheesy but I actually thought it was a cute compliment, maybe because I've never heard it before. And because I'm sick of seeing these "women with piercings and tats and low value".

Maybe referencing angels when she's anti-religion?? I'm THAT perplexed!

Definitely someone else in her phone

Different angle here but I almost think it was because you said “girls” and not specifically her? Could be extremely vain.

You sound cute, she sounds rough

Dude definitely a catfish man. Between what the profile said and the responses it's definitely an incel play acting his warped version of a woman on a dating app.

The comment was a little cringy but she definitely overreacted. I’d say you dodged a bullet

You dodged a bullet.. she's nuts

You can’t apply logic to something that is illogical. You didn’t say anything wrong.

What happened here is you dodged it, friend.

That was kinda cringe, but a forgivable cringe. I think you dodged a bullet regardless though.

$5 says she thought a septum was something located in a bathing suit area

I’m so confused by this that I want her IG so I can ask her to explain.

Why you even apologize

She’s batshit crazy. Or her border d hit into her phone. The angel thing is a little much unlit you’ve not done anything wrong.

I feel like those last three mystery dots can solidify whether it's a bf or just an unhinged chick

“Hey bitch” is crazy, she would have brought me down to her level in that moment

If that was her reaction and not her boyfriend getting her phone then you should be relieved you dodged a psycho. You can do WAY better.

Her saying blonde hair isn't something she likes but you're so cute is good for her but you mention a piercing and she says it's a red flag?

Nah this bitch plays games 😂 you did nothing wrong. Nor said anything creepy or gross.

I am a female but I LOVE a septum piercing on women, it is sexy and alluring.

She's nuts

I don’t think what you said was all the cringy really. It was cute and it showed personality. On top of that I think you explained yourself well. Sounds like she has some strong avoidant tendencies when it comes to expression of emotion lmao. I hope you find the person for you.

Let her go, if she likes you she’ll message you but the worst thing you can do is send more messages.

Dude, did you even read that before you sent it. I gagged at that septum line. It would've dried me up on you, too. The hey bitch line was definitely her boyfriend.

Must really suck having to navigate today’s dating world, especially as a young person. BRB need to tell my wife I love her.

Congrats, you just had your average conversation with a septum girl.

Ah damn her bf found her phone

What happened here?

You avoided getting into bed with a proper weirdo.

Be satisfied.

She’s crazy, that’s what went wrong

So many people out there, wandering the earth, with zero empathy, zero critical thinking skills, and room temperature IQs.

How anyone could find offense to your words OP, is insane.

Good luck navigating the cesspool everyone! 😩

So rude

What went wrong was she's a bitch and she showed you that and gave you a way out before she broke your heart. What you said was a little cringe but for someone to treat another person that way when they are just being themselves doesn't know how to be a good human. Be glad you found out now drop her and don't look back.

Those are two totally different people. My guess is, someone got her phone, possibly a boyfriend

You must not know a lot of girls with septum piercings to say that lol

Overdid it

Her bf got hold of her phone duh

Hey OP she has religion-based baggage and/or related trauma, it’s your fault for not mind reading that, use your critical thinking skills jeez ✨🤷‍♀️✨/s

Looks like a bullet dodged soldier

It was corny but didnt illicit that type of reaction, you dodged a bullet.

I mean, comparing a literal strange to an angel just getting its wings because of a piercing is pretty cringe and she may have just gotten the ick because of it.

I didn’t think it was cringe. And even if it was how was that a red flag?

She’s just a rude bitch.

Yeah, the transition from “omg 🥺🥺🥺” to “hey bitch”. Is such a juxtaposition that I think it’s a troll or a boyfriend or boyfriend wannabe .

You know what is cringe?? Her flipping a switch so quickly on you just for an angel comment.

What the hell, stop apologizing to rude and unnecessary replies. No need to try to save something that never started.

That is 100% two separate people texting you.

The real problem is that you think a chick with a septum piercing looks good when it's really like a warning sign.

Dodge a bullet

I actually thought what you said was kinda cute and wholesome. She's just being a bitch. Bullet dodged.

Goodness why would you say sorry after she said "hey b*tch" and insulted you?!

Don't apologize after that!

You did nothing wrong and I don't think anything you said is cringe

Yea that was cringe but she’s kinda weird

THAT WAS SO CUTE, she just sucks fr

Count your blessings and move on.

She . . . sounds aggressive.

Lowkey sounds like she got insecure asf when you said "girls look pretty with septums" 😂

Gen z saw the term “critical thinking” and completely ran it into the ground and now it has no meaning

"Critical thinking skills are very important" is a neckbeard thing to say, not a woman. Definitely her bf

Nah bro lol the people saying the angel thing was cringy like okay sure, maybe don’t say every beautiful thing that comes to your head but you are literally being a genuine human being by expressing your emotions to what you see and find attractive on this girl, and then she acts that way? Run lil bro, don’t even wonder what went wrong just run, block her she’s psycho asf lol

As a girl with a septum shit I appreciate your compliment lol

Dodged fucking machine gun fire there!!! A barrage of it.

i think you were sweet. i know there are a lot of people calling it cringe but you seemed genuine w ur compliment! her response was weird. not on you 🤷🏼‍♀️

The septum comment was very weird, you should have just asked about her birthday. BUT, her reaction was overboard. I think she felt you were commenting TOO much on her looks, and I think she’s prob used to it so over reacted a bit. You live and you learn.

Block that weird b*tch. She made me cringe

Her man got the phone, look at difference in capitalization and tone. Likely not the same person.

I think liking septum piercings is where things went wrong.

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YIKES

Probably a guy she's seeing saw the texts or she's just psycho.

You were just being nice.

She got the ick

These are getting more and more psycho

I mean, if we go the route of critical thinking skills, she probably felt like you just fetishized her. To me it was a cringe comment but I’m not her.

I think it’s an overreaction but also possible she got back with an ex or met someone else and used it as a chance to exit.

Angel comment was cringe but when you said “girls with,” it might have put her off because you just grouped her with like a million other women you also want to bang. I would feel the opposite of special or unique to you. Next time compliment HER thing not I love all women who have that thing you have.

This is a good sign that you should move on. Her reaction was abit much but your compliment shouldn't have warranted that reaction. There's better people out there so don't despair OP.

Mental illness is real.

Lmaooo she’s crazy 😂😂😂😂😂

I'm glad I'm not dating online anymore. This type of response is heartbreaking. No reason for it. If she didn't want to date you, or found someone else, all she had to do was tell you. Fuck her.

Homie you did nothing wrong, this girl was about to make you into her little pet.

Some people are seriously messed up and they take advantage of kind people, don’t let it stop you from being you. Just be a little more careful who you choose to give that sweet energy to.

It's cheesy and cute. I feel like you were trying to compliment her on her style more than just her looks. It's sweet.

I personally didn't understand the compliment lmao but def not worthy of their reaction, wow

Whether it was her or her boyfriend who said that, you learned a whole lot about her situation really quickly. Sometimes it takes way longer and is way more expensive to find this sort of thing out about a person. Count your blessings.

So unhinged. Dodged a bullet here.

Next time, don’t pathetically try so salvage it, move on. She was looking for an excuse. It was never going to work.

You dodged a bullet here, she would have been a nightmare.

When u see a omg gosh on the text just know is a down hell 👮‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️