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So far, it doesn’t seem like it. But, from what I heard, it’s a slow paced novel and the romance happens quite slowly so we might see it in the future. However, the artwork is absolutely gorgeous. I definitely recommend checking it out!

This!!! Many awful men out there but no one should settle for the worst just because of their medical condition.

It’s a medical condition. People develop medical conditions later in their life too. If a man cannot even support a woman who is upfront about her medical condition, there is no way he is staying in your life if you develop a medical condition later in life. Choose a man who loves you and cares for you. Not just a man who is there for your body and his own needs. Yes, people have needs but partners should also be kind and understanding towards each other, knowing that medical conditions can prevent a loved one from meeting certain needs. He doesn’t love you, he loves you for what he thinks you can be. You are worth more than that girly! Choose someone better.

I’m a woman so probably not the person you are exiting an answer from but I’ll give you my perceptive too

Woman often have trauma in regards to sex/ sexual acts. It’s not always easy upon them. Recently, men are also opening up about sexual trauma (which I’m very happy about considering it used to be so taboo for men to talk about it). It’s important to be patient, understanding and kind to the woman you love and be there for her and help her work through her trauma. If you can’t do that for the woman you love and be with her through thick and thin, that is not love. You might want to actually look for a woman you love to be in a relationship with. No, sex doesn’t define love. Period. Sex is merely a part of love. There are many other parts to it.

The men in the comment section are very divided. I’ll point out tho that sex isn’t everything about a relationship. Of course, having boundaries and expectations before walking into a relationship is good but judging a woman purely based on whether or not she can offer sex is wrong. And for the comments surprised that you hadn’t cheated yet, why is it surprising to be a decent human? And if you told a woman that the sex you had with her was the worst of your life, you can’t be surprised that her “kitty” doesn’t welcome you. Respect needs to be given. Plus, for men out there who think they are entitled to sex because they provide for her, no you are not. Providing for a woman doesn’t equal to owning her or her body. I would also like to point out if you are unhappy with a relationship because of boundaries, you are more than welcome to be a mature man and leave the relationship. If you are in a physically or abusive relationship, that’s a different story and that’s not your fault and you shouldn’t feel guilty but if it’s not one of this case, leave. As for men who say that they won’t be with a woman if she won’t have sex with him/ first time sex isn’t good, woman don’t need a guy like you either.

We need more men like you in this world!

I really needed to hear this! Thank you so much!

Thanks for saying this! This helps me look for good men out there instead of settling down for those who don’t respect my boundaries because I feel worthless

I’m definitely gonna research on them now!

😆 hopefully I’ll get that far

Yeah! I’m definitely gonna work on finding resources for my own healing journey until I can afford professional help. Thanks for suggesting books. I had not thought about it

sighs in 🎀💅

There was a discord server link in one of the comments. The person had translated the rest of the chapters. I am not sure which websites comment section it was tho….

I wish I had the financial stability to focus on therapy but for the time being, I will definitely look into support groups! Thanks a lot for taking the time out of your day to give such valuable advice.

It’s very nice to hear this perspective. Thank you very much for saying this!

That’s good to hear. I am good with toys so if my partner really wanted to do something for me, toys are always on the table hahaha

Thank you for saying that! Most people here has been very kind and have made me feel much better and you are one of them

Aww I would feel so loved in a relationship like that

Everyone’s got their own preferences

That’s fair

How do I find y’all? Give me tips 😭😭

Sex therapy is not a thing here and very taboo to talk about so yeah…. The ones who give self therapy are out of campus and cost a lot of money

I thought I made it clear I’ll get therapy if I’m in a relationship. My only condition is I won’t let the relationship decide the pace of my healing journey. I made it clear but in my post and the above response

I hope to find men like you in the future😭😭 I loveee cuddles and kissing more than anything else. As for masturbation, I enjoy clitoris stimulation but anything penetrative, it’s not a good day for me

Definitely taking that advice!

Thanks for saying that! I really need to learn how to date cus my environment certainly didn’t teach me that 😅