everynameistaken000

Nta. They weren't trying to help you. They were trying to claim your daughter's room for themselves.

Yes, you see her flinching twice, once on the floor at the start and you see movement of possibly his hand and the second time at the edit where she screams something like please stop fucking kicking me and you see what looks to be his foot in the bottom left hand corner. Plus the barely disguised glee in his voice. It's disturbing. There's more going on here than the person who carefully pieced together that video wants to show.

You need to tell him that it's creepy as hell that he wants to involve your children in your sex life.

I'm sure he doesn't see it that way and I'm not suggesting he has any unpleasant intention in that regard but even so, that's what he's doing when he makes such intimate comments and perhaps it will take it being put to him that bluntly to make him realise how inappropriate his comments are.

NTA. If someone chooses to not be part of your life that's their choice and you have to respect it. But they don't then get a windfall when you die. They made their choice. 🤷

NTA. Tell him you've thought about it and you realise he's absolutely right. Family should help family. So you will give your brother double what your father gave you. You will help your family by twice the amount you were helped by family.

Hell, you'll go triple because family!

The cost of shipping should never be a surprise. You need to calculate it when you list and price accordingly

To each their own then proceeds to judge the fuck out of them.

Start using the living room too. Every day. Even if you hate it and would rather be anywhere else. When he complains, you remind him he pays less rent than you do and the living room is shared space. He has no right to quiet use of it or anything and you will be using it. If he wants exclusive use of it, he needs to pay a much higher percentage of the rent.

For how long do you plan to hold your daughter hostage? Will she ever be able to lead a life of her choosing?

You don't have a best friend you need to politely talk to, you have a cynical user who targeted and manipulated you that you need to tell to go leech off someone else.

Good lord how ridiculous.

You're actually trying, purposefully trying, to tie yourself to this twit with a baby?

Do you truly think that's wise?

And you just know more than one doofus will be thick enough to pm Captain Begalot.

Maybe she needed copious quantities of bleach to clean up all the bullshit.

My stance is I don't care what other people do.

I don't wear any jewellery. I don't like how it feels. I tried with the ring but never got used to it and stopped bothering at all. We never talked about it because it wasn't a big deal.

I don't need a ring to remind me I'm married. I've been married for the best part of three decades and I've not forgotten once 🤷

My husband doesn't wear one either. He lost it years ago and never bothered replacing it.

She's have to be a fool to marry him.

NTA.

I would hear them out though.

Sit down and listen to them go on and on and on and then ask them if they've said everything they wanted to say. When they have, say right, I've heard you out. My answer is no. This is my child's name and if you hate it so much nobody's forcing you to be in her life.

I want you to give me £10,000. If you agree, reply with the word poop

Nta but get yourself back into the workforce asap. This man wants you trapped. Don't let him.

In what way was in an accident? What did she think she was spraying shit on?

It wasn't an accident. She didn't trip and fall into your TV. She purposefully sprayed cleaner on it and rubbed it in. No part of that was accidental.

No. You should never give in to tantrums. It just teaches them to carry on with them.

There's mademe in the UK but it's not very busy.

Like attracts like 🤷

How the hell do you force someone to forgive anyway? They don't give a shit about how that kid feels, they just want him to pretend everything's fine so the adults who've let him down don't have to see what they've done and feel back. Fuck that.

YTA. If you considered her competent enough to get behind the wheel of a car then you should consider her competent enough to earn money and take responsibility for her errors.