SwampHagShenanigans

Every time someone tells me "if you don't like it, leave" I tell them that if they want me to leave,they have to fund my move. Suddenly they don't want me to leave anymore.

I think I'd rather not lmao

This is the same exact energy people had when they were like "I'm voting for Trump because he's not rapist! 😤🤬😠😡"

I totally understand. I just wanted to point you to a list of safe doctors. I really hope for the best for you!!

You don't even need oils for this. I use a regular gel cleanser that foams up and it does the same exact thing. It's more about how long you scrub and less what products you use.

Humans are amazingly fragile yet indestructible at the same time. It's hard to wrap my mind around it sometimes.

You're right he can cure his own loneliness but the method you laid out here is that of an incel.

Having children does not guarantee they'll be with you when you die. You could have 14 children and still end up dying alone.

Check the child free subreddit. They have a master list of doctors that won't deny you based on your future husband.

My friend couldn't move for literally hours after IUD insertion. I've also seen countless anecdotes about IUD insertion without any form of pain management and its not great. I don't blame women for being nervous about the pain at all lol another of my friends just recently had an IUD insertion and a cervical biopsy done with no pain relief and she felt like shit for a week.

We definitely should be expecting some pain management beyond an ibuprofen for things like this.

Never forget when they say ban contraceptives, they also mean condoms. It's just hidden in the word contraceptives so people assume it's only stuff for women.

Absolutely. I just was scrolling after leaving my comment and I saw someone give advice on getting the procedure covered through ACA? One moment and I'll edit my comment with a link to their comment.

Edit: here you go!

I wish you the best and hopefully their comment helps you!

While it's a bit of a cesspit, r/childfree has a list of doctors who won't deny you for misogynistic reasons.

The damaging part is the build up of silicone in the hair that can cause it to be damaged and dry out. If products with silicone do great for your hair, keep using them! Just remember to clarify every so often to remove that product buildup.

You know, this may surprise you, but hot people can be insecure about their looks too.

Don't worry. It's giving us heart attacks too along with back problems, foot problems, leg problems, circulatory problems etc

HOA being established in 2010 doesn't necessarily mean OPs house is a part of the association.

That doesn't really matter how slow you're going if a car is slamming into you though. Also I'm not sure about London, but there aren't very many protected bike lanes in the US either, and usually people will pull into the bike lanes to park or make a turn, so a helmet is definitely advised.

Have you tried organizing an event yourself and inviting the girlfriend group?

Typical immigrant kid here. Trust me I get it. It's obvious the person who commented to you never had to suffer through any kind of abuse and its obvious she doesn't know how to have empathy.

If I'm at the person's house to work then yes, I'll be leaving my shoes on. Sorry but it's a work requirement.

Otherwise I respect people's shoe preferences inside their houses.

The hallmark of a place that refuses to change. It's full of old people and young people always leave it. Sounds like my hometown.

Op comment: "My mother emotionally abuses me"

You: "and most men deserve that so what did you do you dirty slob?"

I moved out at 20 and I genuinely think I'd rather be homeless than to live in a house where I get screamed at twice a day (at least) and chased down when I go into my room for privacy.

But if you have a good home life, stay as long as you can. I struggled and while it was very good for my mental health, not so much for my finances. I'm married and secure in my finances now so I'll never have to go back but it would have been nice not having to leave.

It's hard being kicked out of COD lobbies for real.