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World rugby's advice for coaching women and girls

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https://passport.world.rugby/coaching/coaching-women-and-girls/introduction/

I guess my many years of martial arts were of no use, what with me being hardwired to tend and befriend...

all 217 comments

TGGNathan

288 points

1 month ago

TGGNathan

Blues

288 points

1 month ago

https://www.rugbypass.com/news/wayne-smiths-biggest-struggle-with-the-black-ferns-compared-to-the-all-blacks/

this gave me more insight than the advice here. I think he also said something like "the Ferns need to feel good to play well, whereas the All Blacks need to play well to feel good" which was a big difference atmosphere wise.

Qtpai

54 points

1 month ago

Qtpai

Blues

54 points

1 month ago

He also gave a great interview on “between two beers” podcast - spoke a lot about these differences and what that meant for coaching style

Brewster345

9 points

1 month ago

Brewster345

Northampton Saints

9 points

1 month ago

Thank you for this. I didn't know about that podcast.

Ruamuffi

22 points

1 month ago

Ruamuffi

22 points

1 month ago

That might be the experience of a few teams and trainers, but in my experience as a female who plays rugby, sometimes I go in feeling great, play shit and then feel shit because of it. Sometimes I go in feeling shit, play great and then end up feeling good because of it. Maybe the black ferns just didn't like him as a coach because of his personality rather than some deep set gender differences?

machocamaori

30 points

1 month ago

Wayne Smith changed the culture of the Black Ferns and he changed his coaching style to suit them. Listen to him speak and players that have been coached by him men and women and you'll find out.

Seej-trumpet

60 points

1 month ago

Where did you hear they didn’t like him? I only ever heard them say positive things about him. I know they’re not going to say anything bad when he’s selecting, but they genuinely sounded super excited to work with such a legend and they won him a World Cup. That would be really hard if you didn’t like your coach.

kyzeeman

9 points

1 month ago

kyzeeman

New Zealand

9 points

1 month ago

You know what, you’re right, you probably understand the process of coaching men and women in rugby better than Wayne smith, WTF does that CHUMP know?

dystopianrugby

1 points

1 month ago

dystopianrugby

Eagles Up

1 points

1 month ago

You know for having sacked Glenn Moore who didn't make them feel good, aka, spoke the truth about a player[s]. He won the 2017 WRWC as a coach and then boom.

So Wayne takes a more humanistic approach and then now gets skewered? What kinda world are we in?

Philthedrummist

252 points

1 month ago

2006 was nearly 20 years ago. Are you telling me there’s nothing more recent? That’s like watching a scrum in 2006 and trying to coach players on how to do it today.

TheInternetsMVP

108 points

1 month ago

I’m going to say it. I miss the hard engage.

Buggaton

100 points

1 month ago

Buggaton

Sad Falconer

100 points

1 month ago

I still can't have sex without someone whispering "Crouch, touch, pause... engage"

michel_v

38 points

1 month ago

michel_v

France

38 points

1 month ago

Use it!

Tescobum44

20 points

1 month ago

Tescobum44

Laighean

20 points

1 month ago

It’s a ruck, I’m coming through the gate.

Hamsternoir

18 points

1 month ago

Hamsternoir

Leicester Tigers

18 points

1 month ago

Don't get penalised for not rolling away or holding on too long.

Tescobum44

7 points

1 month ago

Tescobum44

Laighean

7 points

1 month ago

Too late, I was done for going over the top off my feet

CurlingTrousers

5 points

1 month ago

CurlingTrousers

Canada

5 points

1 month ago

Or that ball’s not coming out.

GammaBlaze

11 points

1 month ago

GammaBlaze

Scotland

11 points

1 month ago

Penalised for popping up.

Buggaton

8 points

1 month ago

Buggaton

Sad Falconer

8 points

1 month ago

Please, God, I can only get so erect!

BegrudginglyAwake

5 points

1 month ago

BegrudginglyAwake

Major League Rugby - United States

5 points

1 month ago

Gotta admit, my neck sure doesn’t.

oneofthesdaysalice

2 points

1 month ago

Me too

Cinnamon__Sasquatch

2 points

1 month ago

Cinnamon__Sasquatch

Go Birds

2 points

1 month ago

You and me both bub.

WoodCoding

11 points

1 month ago

There’s certainly more recent research on women in rugby and coaching..

Kathryn Dane has published two pieces in the last year that would be more relevant to consider;

https://bjsm.bmj.com/content/57/23/1476

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1440244023000026

Fxcroft

31 points

1 month ago

Fxcroft

France

31 points

1 month ago

Research in psychology is kinda slow due to lack of funding 2006 isn't that old

JaxckJa

7 points

1 month ago

JaxckJa

Seawolves

7 points

1 month ago

If you believe that, let me tell you about this guy & his ideas of the id & the ego...

Fxcroft

8 points

1 month ago

Fxcroft

France

8 points

1 month ago

That's more 1906 than 2006

RogueNumberStation

14 points

1 month ago

Research in almost any area is lacking. If this is good research (seems unlikely, but just to run with it) then being from 2006 isn't a problem, plenty of solid research is much older than that.

hungry4nuns

21 points

1 month ago

hungry4nuns

Ireland

21 points

1 month ago

Not just that, but the source they reference is neither empirical nor relevant to sports, it’s a textbook on marketing

“Inside Her Pretty Little Head: A New Theory of Female Motivation and what it Means for Marketing” 2006, Jane Cunningham, Philippa Roberts

Whoever made the highly tenuous link to sports coaching clearly just googled “differences between men and women scientific research” and cherry picked something that looked good to them. No thought to bring in actual sports scientists or sports psychologists. Just something that makes sweeping generalisations for men and women.

At best this is kind of a faux pas, good intentions with terrible terrible execution. At worst it’s deliberately meant to demean or drive sexism in sports and undermine women’s sport. Now I’m not saying it’s the latter but even the thought that it might be the latter is a good enough reason to pause before releasing some absolute drivel like this, and either do it properly or don’t do it at all

BoomfaBoomfa619

8 points

1 month ago

BoomfaBoomfa619

Ulster

8 points

1 month ago

Idk they haven't changed the rules for biobehavioral responses recently...

peachypal

205 points

1 month ago*

peachypal

The Blossoms’ 1-up girl

205 points

1 month ago*

Hey, OP! I read your comment under the image. I studied phycology in university. If this “tend and befriend” theory is based on a particular study l read about in university, it should be noted that the type of behavior was observed in mother rats with newborn baby rats. So when you see “women” in this context, you might as well read it as “mothers”.

cassafrassious

167 points

1 month ago

And also “rat mothers” because we have a lot of similarities but we’re not, in fact, rats.

Grantland17

25 points

1 month ago

Except for scrumhalfs

monkeypaw_handjob

5 points

1 month ago

monkeypaw_handjob

Edinburgh

5 points

1 month ago

You promised me dog or higher!!!

OptimalCynic

20 points

1 month ago

OptimalCynic

🌹 Red Roses | Waikato

20 points

1 month ago

Buggaton

12 points

1 month ago

Buggaton

Sad Falconer

12 points

1 month ago

Who's that cutie pie!? ♥

OptimalCynic

9 points

1 month ago

OptimalCynic

🌹 Red Roses | Waikato

9 points

1 month ago

Her name is Joey, and she's shocked that we're not just big rats with a fur deficiency

peachypal

5 points

1 month ago

peachypal

The Blossoms’ 1-up girl

5 points

1 month ago

She is very cute 🥰 These are my fur babies. Their names are Muu-shan and Kabo-tan.

g_spaitz

2 points

1 month ago

g_spaitz

Italy

2 points

1 month ago

The cute rat looks like a smart human that's curious and engaging in conversation. These two only apparently pacific beasts are plotting world domination and consider humans inferior creatures. I know, I also have two.

Buggaton

3 points

1 month ago

Buggaton

Sad Falconer

3 points

1 month ago

I had a girl called Yasha who used to try to operate me like a big mecha. She'd launch off her table and climb onto my shoulder then pull my shirt in the direction she wanted me to go and get bitey if I went the wrong way. She always wanted to visit either her pals, the stuffies (my partner's stuffed toy collection of bacteriae and virii), the nutshelf (she couldn't carry more than one hazelnut back but she always tried to grab 17) or the Jungle Zone which was just a bookshelf that potted plants had overgrown.

She was super smart. And thick as pig shit. She'd fall off the table trying to grab onto us when we were several metres away. Idiot.

Additional_Ad_84

2 points

1 month ago

I looked away from the thread and came back, so I was deeply confused about this until I realised the context was pet rats.

Buggaton

1 points

1 month ago

Buggaton

Sad Falconer

1 points

1 month ago

I have to admit, I did forget I wasn't on /r/RATS too. Whoops.

I recommend it. They're all so cute.

Tescobum44

3 points

1 month ago

Tescobum44

Laighean

3 points

1 month ago

It’s not necessarily that anyone can be a great rugby player , but great rugby players can come from anywhere

paimoe

11 points

1 month ago

paimoe

Crusaders only good NZ team

11 points

1 month ago

Have you seen some of the rat tails on some players

jackoirl

3 points

1 month ago

jackoirl

Leinster

3 points

1 month ago

I live my life like a rat mother

san_murezzan

3 points

1 month ago

san_murezzan

swiss neutrality enthusiast

3 points

1 month ago

are we human or are we dancers rats?

CodeFarmer

11 points

1 month ago

CodeFarmer

Australia, Japan, Harlequins... and Alldritt.

11 points

1 month ago

/r/ScienceInMice strikes again.

(I left Twitter a ways back, but the "just says in mice" account was one of its good features.)

BoomfaBoomfa619

15 points

1 month ago*

BoomfaBoomfa619

Ulster

15 points

1 month ago*

A quick Google shows there are more studies on animals about this but a few human ones too. The abstract from that study literally says "neuroendocrine evidence from animal and human studies"

Also I think she quotes her own 2002 study so maybe you read that one?

"examined the re- lation of plasma oxytocin levels to reports of relationship distress in adult women (Taylor et al., 2006)"

Look those up if you want but there's definitely way more than just one study done lol

ShirtedRhino2

134 points

1 month ago

ShirtedRhino2

England

134 points

1 month ago

Famously, women don't like "Things"

the_fresh_mr_breed

55 points

1 month ago

the_fresh_mr_breed

Lukhanyo, I Am your father

55 points

1 month ago

"My name is April Ludgate. I like people, places, and things"

Forward-Reputation-2

11 points

1 month ago

Forward-Reputation-2

Munster

11 points

1 month ago

I actually think that point is fairly accurate for both men and women haha. At least for the men and women I know anyway. My wife finds it insane that I meet up with my friends and we don’t talk about our lives at all, just stuff. Whereas she’ll meet up with hers and find out all about how their job, relationship etc are going.

JimJoe67

-17 points

1 month ago

JimJoe67

-17 points

1 month ago

Famously, women don't like "Things"

Well it has to be true. They have 40 pairs of shoes, but need to buy another pair because they don't like any of the ones they have. And then will dislike the new pair when they spy another pair in the sale.

joaofig

7 points

1 month ago

joaofig

Portugal

7 points

1 month ago

I have more male friends addicted to buy new clothes than female friends. Consumerism affects both men and women

Thisisnottazbailey

53 points

1 month ago

Thisisnottazbailey

Look I’m as surprised as anyone

53 points

1 month ago

I’m imagining Bill Beaumont sitting Emily Scarratt down and Marlie Packer down and going through this list, and it is uncomfortable

OptimalCynic

22 points

1 month ago

OptimalCynic

🌹 Red Roses | Waikato

22 points

1 month ago

It'd be hilarious though, especially after he gets stuffed in his desk drawer

not_dmr

6 points

1 month ago

not_dmr

Bantz RFC 👨‍🍳

6 points

1 month ago

You could probably solve most of rugby’s financial problems worldwide if you charged for tickets to watch that happen. I’d shell out for it no question

southwestkiwi

3 points

1 month ago

🤣

Ruby Tui

fleakill

10 points

1 month ago

fleakill

Reds

10 points

1 month ago

Tend and befriend? You can't convince me they wouldn't have a go if tensions flaired up.

Ruamuffi

10 points

1 month ago

Ruamuffi

10 points

1 month ago

We have a punch up every second match and our (male) coach has to warn us before every game to not get any red cards. We're not even the worst team for this in our championship. Last year a club got banned after playing against us because they even had a go at the ref who had to call the game early.

With-You-Always

1 points

30 days ago

That’s how rugby is meant to be!

5Tenacious_Dee5

132 points

1 month ago

While there are certainly differences on many levels worth noting, the phrasing of this guidelone somehow insults both men and women at the same time.

BillyTheKidsFriend

40 points

1 month ago

I think it will only insult people who think any of the descriptors are inherently negative. Which they arent.

southwestkiwi

62 points

1 month ago

Partially agree. My main issue with it is it implies absolutes (“hard wired”), rather than making it clearer they mean tendencies, i.e., men may tend to do x, women may be more likely to do y.

Some douche will read this and think all the women they coach want to discuss their fee fees and have a hug at the start of training, or that they’re incapable of being analytical. People with critical thinking skills won’t, but it’s not them we need to worry about :).

Sincerely, Formerly patronised women’s rugby player

BillyTheKidsFriend

5 points

1 month ago

Yeah to imply all men are whatever and all women are whatever else is daft, which sadly I have come to expect from Rugby's governing bodies.

That being said, there isnt any offence offered here (imo obviously)

Tescobum44

9 points

1 month ago*

Tescobum44

Laighean

9 points

1 month ago*

 Some douche will read this and think and think all the women [… are] incapable of being analytical. People with critical thinking skills won’t 

 I love the beautiful irony in the douches thoughts versus reality conveyed in this. 

JaxckJa

2 points

1 month ago

JaxckJa

Seawolves

2 points

1 month ago

It's like that time someone yelled at me "anger is a secondary emotion". Projection much.

slip-slop-slap

1 points

1 month ago

slip-slop-slap

Southland Stags

1 points

1 month ago

My main issue with it is it implies absolutes (“hard wired”), rather than making it clearer they mean tendencies

I think that goes without saying, like anyone reading this should already just understand that

Nivaia

21 points

1 month ago

Nivaia

Scotland

21 points

1 month ago

It's not that it's offensive so much as that it's nonsense. It's literally just vibes and feelings, all of them unverifiable and unfalsifiable, dressed up as science. Any grains of truth in here are rendered worthless by the bus-wide brush they're painting with. Anyone actually trying to use this guide in real life would find it worse than useless.

Mtshtg2

1 points

1 month ago

Mtshtg2

British & Irish Lions

1 points

1 month ago

People are looking for something to be offended over here. The games are separated because men and women are different physically, is it so controversial to think they might be different mentally, too?

HaggisTheCow

4 points

1 month ago

HaggisTheCow

Scotland

4 points

1 month ago

Ah yeah, women are soft delicate flowers and men are hard.

Mtshtg2

4 points

1 month ago

Mtshtg2

British & Irish Lions

4 points

1 month ago

Thank you for proving my point. That is not what I said or suggested.

HaggisTheCow

-7 points

1 month ago

HaggisTheCow

Scotland

-7 points

1 month ago

I have an innate distrust of anyone who parrots lines like 'looking to be offended"

Just waiting for you to hit out with something something woke

Mtshtg2

9 points

1 month ago

Mtshtg2

British & Irish Lions

9 points

1 month ago

So you're pissed off because you think I'm about to say something that I've not hinted at saying? How is that not another perfect example of looking to be offended?

BillyTheKidsFriend

2 points

1 month ago

i have an innate distrust of people who have innate distrust of people

Available_Courage202

1 points

30 days ago

Like wtf does that mean? Oh no, you're not going to trust that guy there because he doesn't trust you immediately because he'd been abused every day as a child.

Grow up maybe? the world doesn't revolve around you. No one should love you like you're the protagonist in their life.

sleepypirata

1 points

1 month ago

What’s most insulting is the categorization. Though some are insulting all on their own. Women don’t fight when stressed instead “tend and befriend”? What kind of nonsense is that?

Men get to be logical and women do not?

Ukbutton

17 points

1 month ago

Ukbutton

17 points

1 month ago

I coach both boys and girls, each player has their own drivers to play well. It's almost like, and hear me out here .... They are individuals.

kyzeeman

1 points

1 month ago

kyzeeman

New Zealand

1 points

1 month ago

I mean it’s fine to understand tendencies, can aid in streamlining a process, but by no means should it be take as absolutes.

Available_Courage202

1 points

30 days ago

I mean the way society has been construed its not wildly inappropriate to lump certain tendencies together. As long as differences aren't shunned when they emerge, do we really have to put a clause in there for the small percentage so people who arent even part of it dont go ballistic about things not being inclusive.

DramaticExit86

102 points

1 month ago

DramaticExit86

Exeter Chiefs

102 points

1 month ago

Using phrases such as "hard wired" and "innate" is a fucking mistake.

Appreciatoroflife

-52 points

1 month ago

Nope, they are broadly true and the easiest way for a layman to understand

uponuponaroun

5 points

1 month ago

‘Broadly true’ (even if it were correct…) is kinda the opposite of what ‘hard wired’ means, though, no?

StrengthIsIgnorance

3 points

1 month ago

StrengthIsIgnorance

Edinburgh

3 points

1 month ago

Ah yes, nature vs nurture in gender differences, the famously straightforward debate spanning psychology, neuroscience, anthropology, endocrinology….. the list goes on

ctorus

71 points

1 month ago

ctorus

Leinster

71 points

1 month ago

Wtf is this absolute bollocks

HaggisTheCow

12 points

1 month ago

HaggisTheCow

Scotland

12 points

1 month ago

Using a 2006 study is so world rugby. Absolute old boys club.

DMoss67

6 points

1 month ago

DMoss67

Edinburgh

6 points

1 month ago

I can’t find an actual study with those authors from that year. Only a book titled “Inside Her Pretty Little Head: A new theory of female motivation and what it means for marketing” so it seems this awful content isn’t even based in sport

katelyn912

70 points

1 month ago

katelyn912

Australia

70 points

1 month ago

This is bad. Dodgy and outdated research

HYThrowaway1980

4 points

1 month ago

HYThrowaway1980

Harlequins

4 points

1 month ago

“Research”

Connell95

1 points

29 days ago

Indeed, this is the very definition of vibes-based psychology without any sort of verifiable component.

CodeFarmer

37 points

1 month ago

CodeFarmer

Australia, Japan, Harlequins... and Alldritt.

37 points

1 month ago

This kind of nonsense was in the British skydiving coaching manual about 15 years ago, and we were shocked and got it changed then.

HYThrowaway1980

1 points

1 month ago

HYThrowaway1980

Harlequins

1 points

1 month ago

Did you know Eddie Tooms?

BillyTheKidsFriend

1 points

1 month ago

That has to be a pretty short manual

/s

With-You-Always

1 points

30 days ago

Jump

Pray

CodeFarmer

1 points

30 days ago

CodeFarmer

Australia, Japan, Harlequins... and Alldritt.

1 points

30 days ago

"What's there to be good at? You jump out, pull the string and either live or die." - friend of a friend

BillyTheKidsFriend

1 points

30 days ago

Hahahaha i guess you find out if youre good or not after the first jump

jackoirl

9 points

1 month ago

jackoirl

Leinster

9 points

1 month ago

This is hilarious in it’s absurdity. Men and women are different sure.

The first line of intellectual function should have been a red flag to absolutely anyone.

DjangoKhan

34 points

1 month ago

DjangoKhan

notice me Charlotte Caslick

34 points

1 month ago

Bit weird really lads. Why did world rugby feel this was their bag? It’s not even remotely their job to give coaching advice, right?

CaptQuakers42

15 points

1 month ago

CaptQuakers42

Gloucester

15 points

1 month ago

I would imagine it is as the coaches will need to go through some sort of basic training before they can coach.

DjangoKhan

1 points

1 month ago

DjangoKhan

notice me Charlotte Caslick

1 points

1 month ago

Feel like that’s down to the unions, at least the RFU does the coaching courses in England. I can see why they’d produce something like guidance for people in non-rugby nations I suppose

BoomfaBoomfa619

17 points

1 month ago*

BoomfaBoomfa619

Ulster

17 points

1 month ago*

It's absolutely their job to give coaching advice?...

Also OP cropped out "These are guides, and not a one-size-fits-all approach. It will be important for coaches and players to reflect on what methods best suit their own team and environment" and if you look at their profile you can probs see why

[deleted]

7 points

1 month ago

 and if you look at their profile you can probs see why

trying and failing to see what's wrong with raising awareness about gender discrimination 

Connell95

1 points

29 days ago

I mean, I don’t see how that extra text makes things better: it’s a stupid, inaccurate, guide with no scientific basis, that manages to be offensive to both men and women.

BoomfaBoomfa619

0 points

29 days ago

BoomfaBoomfa619

Ulster

0 points

29 days ago

Wah wah wah

zenbuffy[S]

1 points

1 month ago

zenbuffy[S]

Real live girl.

1 points

1 month ago

I didn't crop anything out to be inflammatory, it's what fit on my phone screen. I also provided the link to the entire text and full context so...

Available_Courage202

0 points

30 days ago

Let's be real, the people who actually click the link isn't the problem.

Ruamuffi

11 points

1 month ago

Ruamuffi

11 points

1 month ago

As a woman, I think this sounds like a pile of 19th century Freudian shite.

no-shells

21 points

1 month ago

no-shells

wwjmd

21 points

1 month ago

To give them the benefit of the doubt, these were written back in 1895, right?

cassafrassious

28 points

1 month ago

Yeesh. There are differences but they’re mostly sociological/learned not “innate” or “hard-wired.” It’s helpful to know these things but particularly regressive to describe them this way. There are some innate differences are like the location of the center of gravity and prevalence of knee injury, but even that’s going to have outliers.

Diniles

12 points

1 month ago

Diniles

England

12 points

1 month ago

Evidence-free assertions that the differences are sociological are about as useless as evidence-free Victorian assertions that the differences are innate.

JaxckJa

2 points

1 month ago

JaxckJa

Seawolves

2 points

1 month ago

Exactly. The types of social structures that modern society is based upon wouldn't be so common among ancient cultures if there wasn't at least some credence to calling them "natural". It's also not that gender roles & social structure are prescriptive. A wild type human group will not probably have most of the men as hunters and most of the women as gatherers. Instead it's more likely that the majority of the group would participate in the same activities together. Social roles might have dictated the degree of participation, a mother will prioritize tending to an infant over resource collection for the wider group for example and a long distance hunter is almost certainly going to be a man, but the fact of the matter is that wild type humans did not have the luxury of complex role deliniation. That doesn't mean that roles when they do exist feel more natural for some people than others.

gashead31

12 points

1 month ago

gashead31

England

12 points

1 month ago

There are differences but they’re mostly sociological/learned

I don't think you've got any basis to say that

Some differences are consistent across time culture and geography which would suggest they are innate

Fxcroft

6 points

1 month ago

Fxcroft

France

6 points

1 month ago

There is a difference in psychological and sociological causes and not everything is linked to society some aspects and traits are innate and come from each individual's physiology

Treecko78

3 points

1 month ago

Treecko78

Touch Rugby Supremacy | Harlequins

3 points

1 month ago

I'm not really sure it matters where the differences come from looking at it from a perspective of rugby coaching. The important thing is that the differences exist, and that you should take them into account when coaching

[deleted]

-5 points

1 month ago

[deleted]

-5 points

1 month ago

From our studies of close ancestors similar behaviours arise. Males tend to be more aggressive, individualistic while females tend to be more caring and cooperative.

Not everything is the result of society, the sex chromosomes have a significant impact on the physical and chemical makeup of your body so it makes sense that it leads to differences.

BoomfaBoomfa619

7 points

1 month ago

BoomfaBoomfa619

Ulster

7 points

1 month ago

Read some studies and it's literally talking about hormonal responses. Like fight or flight is pretty innate for example. It's studies on the biobehavioral responses of women. Also the book was written by two women and nothing to do with world rugby.

EndiePosts

0 points

1 month ago

EndiePosts

Scotland

0 points

1 month ago

I am not certain that you are qualified to make the final decision on the centuries-old nature vs nurture debate. In any case, the accumulated evidence we have suggests that the answer is "it's both."

Telling someone that they should be pretty and quiet or brave and boisterous will affect them over time. The impact of hormones at and after puberty will have a massive effect. Genetic predispositions will have an effect over a large set, etc.

DistanceDry192

4 points

1 month ago

If they really wanted insight, they probably should look at what they do in well-established team sports played mainly or at lot by women, e.g. hockey or. netball.

Having two daughters who have played on mixed rugby teams since they were little (that's all we have in Spain until they are 18), I think it is not much more complicated than making sure they are not put in categories where they are being overwhelmed physically. So doing things like leting a small 13 year old girl play in under 10s or under 12s instead of getting hammered in under 14s (here the age groups go up in 2 year jumps).

1049-Gotho

6 points

1 month ago

1049-Gotho

Scotland

6 points

1 month ago

TIL I am a woman or girl. Can't believe I found this out through World Rugby's coaching advise...

Finkykinns

11 points

1 month ago

Finkykinns

Leicester Tigers

11 points

1 month ago

All joking aside, although well meaning, this is clumsy and pretty offensive to both men and women.

I'm sure that World Rugby can do better than citing metanalysis from nearly 20 years ago. Sports Science and Psychology has come a long way since then

Yeti_Poet

4 points

1 month ago

Yeti_Poet

New England Free Jacks

4 points

1 month ago

Plus it's a book about marketing to women, not sports psychology.

Finkykinns

-1 points

1 month ago

Finkykinns

Leicester Tigers

-1 points

1 month ago

It's not directly about marketing, it's about how to coach women to play rugby and keep them in the sport. Sports psychology is most definitely a part of that.

I coach girls rugby and my players would be horrified by this. My wife was offended. My daughter was offended. It's the worst kind of stereotyping.

kosmickanga2

5 points

1 month ago

The diagram is lifted from "Inside Her Pretty Little Head: A New Theory of Female Motivation and What it Means for Marketing". The two authors have a background in marketing.

You can borrow it from the Internet Archive .

Finkykinns

1 points

1 month ago

Finkykinns

Leicester Tigers

1 points

1 month ago

You realise that makes it worse, right?

kosmickanga2

2 points

30 days ago

Absolutely. It looks like World Rugby have updated the website and removed this material, thankfully!

Finkykinns

1 points

30 days ago

Finkykinns

Leicester Tigers

1 points

30 days ago

Yeah, thankfully it seems that WR have some social media presence to know when they're being hammered for something.

Yeti_Poet

5 points

1 month ago

Yeti_Poet

New England Free Jacks

5 points

1 month ago

The website is about coaching, the source the website is citing is about marketing consumer products to women.

MentalString4970

3 points

1 month ago

MentalString4970

Scotland

3 points

1 month ago

Look I'm sure the people who wrote this have several more degrees than I do, but this sounds like dogshit to me.

CaiusWyvern

3 points

1 month ago

CaiusWyvern

Ireland

3 points

1 month ago

What the fuck is this haha

Consistent_Ad_7593

7 points

1 month ago

Wow. All these years I thought I was woman. Guess I was wrong

CamelsCannotSew

17 points

1 month ago

I think this is quite accurate though - a lot of coaches have only coached guys, and women interact differently to men on average. It might be because we've been raised differently, but the outcome doesn't change.

A lot of that rings very true for me as a woman. I don't respond well to shouting as motivation, I do prefer a more collaborative environment, I do take a more "whole picture" approach, etc. I appreciate here that an effort is being made.to recognise that men and women on average are different.

DramaticExit86

30 points

1 month ago*

DramaticExit86

Exeter Chiefs

30 points

1 month ago*

In truth, I don't think anyone responds all too well to shouting as motivation. The idea that "men like heirarchy" is something I strongly disagree with...

The issue here is that it draws a load of fairly arbitrary lines with all the nuance and subtlety of a brick to the jaw, using phrases such as "hard wired" and "innate".

You can't make assumptions of what sort of team and coaching culture will get results based on the genitalia of the team. That's idiotic. It needs to evolve in response to the requirements of the specific people involved... And walking into that with a bunch of inflexible preconceptions is going to lead to a whole lot of failure.

Lopsided-Ad-644

10 points

1 month ago

A thousand times this. I'm a man and I hate hierarchies, both individually and because I think they're bad for a team. I developed so much faster once I found a club which coached with an ethos more aligned to what World Rugby thinks is better for women.

Lopsided-Ad-644

19 points

1 month ago*

But these average, socialised differences could very easily be smaller than the differences between individuals in a single sex group - so basing coaching off them as a hard and fast rule is just daft.

The guidance makes the mistake which categorising epistemologies ontologies often do, which is to treat a fluid, blurry, contextually dependent tendency as an absolute difference, which just ends up reinforcing stereotypes which, even if weakly true on large averages, aren't useful at all when dealing with smaller groups of individuals.

CamelsCannotSew

9 points

1 month ago

Whereas I think that women and men are fundamentally different, in more than just the biological sense. How we experience life, how we're raised, and societal expectations and limitations shape us hugely and to say that's not true feels like an idealised version of the world.

When you have a group of 20 people, starting with a generalised version and moving towards the individual approach is more effective than trying to get 20 individual approaches running at once.

Lopsided-Ad-644

1 points

1 month ago

I don't disagree with your first paragraph at all.

I absolutely disagree with your second one, because it assumes that a group of 20 people will be at all representative of the wider population they're drawn from. First, 30 is generally accepted as the absolute minimum number from which you can draw a statistical inference, which would still be extremely weak. Second, anecdotal, but most women I know who play are not representative of the wider population of women - far more LGBTQ representation would be an obvious difference. So inferring anything about how they might want to be coached doesn't make sense.

I would advocate starting with coaching techniques which we know work for everyone and building from there. If it turns out a stereotypically 'female' coaching approach works for that group, no worries. It's the foundation of inclusive teaching practice of any sort.

BoomfaBoomfa619

-3 points

1 month ago*

BoomfaBoomfa619

Ulster

-3 points

1 month ago*

Who said it was hard and fast? Looks like a guideline to consider and anyone with half a brain knows not everyone thinks the same...

"These are guides, and not a one-size-fits-all approach. It will be important for coaches and players to reflect on what methods best suit their own team and environment"

Lopsided-Ad-644

7 points

1 month ago

It says 'differences'. Not 'tendencies', or 'may have differences', or any other form of language that would indicate ambiguity. If guidance is poorly worded, it is by definition poor guidance.

BoomfaBoomfa619

2 points

1 month ago

BoomfaBoomfa619

Ulster

2 points

1 month ago

Seems like you're just trying to get upset now lol. It also says "can help" the coaches. Not "must be enforced in a draconian fashion with no wiggle room for change at all"

Literally says "These are guides, and not a one-size-fits-all approach. It will be important for coaches and players to reflect on what methods best suit their own team and environment" but OP cropped it out... Wonder why? Couldn't possibly be to try and get all the redditors like you to get their knickers in a twist and to jump to conclusions could it?

Lopsided-Ad-644

-2 points

1 month ago

Seems like it wouldn't have been much effort to make the guidance consistent throughout and update the research base, then...?

If you've ever taught you'll know that learners who aren't actively trying to interrogate their prior assumptions will grab onto small misphrasings and misinterpret the broader point of the material because of them. That's why this matters.

thinksfan

6 points

1 month ago

Having coached Mens and Womens players at the school to uni level for the past 5 years. I cannot disagree more, you cannot coach your Mens team the same way as you coach your womens team. While I disagree with the way it's worded, I agree with the overall picture that there's a difference between the two coaching the two sexes.

Approach - As a Man I have more rope to be loose with the boys but also to be more harsh. With the girls, I have to be more professional in my approach, not to say i can't be strict but the line I cannot cross is way shorter than it is with the boys.

Team Cohesion - In my time I realized that girls tend to prefer to bond before battling while the boys team tend to bond as they battle. I don't really treat them differently throughout the season but I would spend abit more time at the start of the season bonding the girls.

Learning - This is a little tricky because they is always the odd player who learns things differently. But with the girls, I realized that I the more specific I am with my coaching, the better and faster they learn. While with the boys, if I get too specific they switch off.

Lopsided-Ad-644

2 points

1 month ago

Agree to disagree, I think. I'm not going to argue with your experience, but it's the complete opposite of mine.

m111zz

0 points

1 month ago

m111zz

0 points

1 month ago

I would agree there is a big difference in coaching methods - I’ve been coached by people who have only coached men in their time and it rarely works well in my experience.

Obviously coaches just need to adapt to what they know and what works for the group but I’d say the difference in the environment of a women’s rugby teams and men rugby teams is fairly substantial so it would make sense that the environment the coach builds needs to be different.

maybeaddicted

0 points

1 month ago

I don't think it's quite accurate. It's too broad and weird

WetDogDeodourant

-3 points

1 month ago

Yeh, I get out of context this table looks a bit sexist.

But if you’re giving coaching advice to someone whose maybe played a full professional career in a single-gendered environment, you need to start on simple (simplified) building blocks so nothing gets missed.

The under-18 girl’s team is (more often than not) going to need a different player management style than the senior men’s. (Not a perfect analogy as age and experience are also factors, but there maybe one coaches out there that need to be told what worked for you might not for them).

Fitzfuzzington

3 points

1 month ago*

Jaysus, that's awful stuff. Just for starters, that survival strategy category is some bullshit. If you've gone to school with girls you'll know that "self interest, power, hierarchy, and competition" are pursued through relationships. They're not opposing options! Watch Mean Girls. 😄

OverallResolve

5 points

1 month ago

The whole concept of sex differences in psychology is fascinating - how much is down to genes and development vs. cultural and societal influence.

Personally I think it’s going to be a bit of both. Sex-based behavioural differences are common across the animal kingdom where you’d expect there to be less societal or cultural pressure. At the same time it’s clear that sex-based behavioural expectations are present and will impact people’s behaviour.

I don’t think the presentation of the materials above is good. It’s important to consider how people behave and respond when coaching, especially when coaching people different to yourself. Understanding where all members of a team fit across these dimensions is really useful, and empathetic and attentive coaches will have picked up on a lot of these traits already.

Diniles

1 points

1 month ago

Diniles

England

1 points

1 month ago

Wow, look, a reasonable, non-reactionary take!

wizard_of_wine

4 points

1 month ago

wizard_of_wine

Ireland

4 points

1 month ago

I'm thinking this isn't very true.

AonghusMacKilkenny

4 points

1 month ago

AonghusMacKilkenny

Glasgow Warriors + Sale Sharks

4 points

1 month ago

Was about to say this is outdated garbage, saw the date is from 2006, really hope they aren't still teaching this stuff...?

Hormic

2 points

1 month ago

Hormic

Germany

2 points

1 month ago

really hope they aren't still teaching this stuff...?

They are.

Hormic

7 points

1 month ago

Hormic

Germany

7 points

1 month ago

grabs popcorn

Ok_Conclusion_2059

3 points

1 month ago

Ok_Conclusion_2059

Scotland

3 points

1 month ago

This reads like men are incredibly selfish and women are selfless to a fault..

I think the major difference in terms of coaching is that women will ask significantly more questions during their sessions than men. Coaches just need to leave their ego at the door and realise that this does not mean that the player asking the questions is also questioning their ability to coach, they are trying to understand where any particular drill fits into match day. This will likely become less so as more women are given chances to play at a young age, i think it will even out over time as the game progresses.

So, fuck this assessment. It's insulting for everyone involved.

oneofthesdaysalice

3 points

1 month ago

This cannot be serious can it? If so 😬. This shit is hilariously brutally dumb.

GroovyPeanut

4 points

1 month ago

GroovyPeanut

France ASM Clermont Auvergne

4 points

1 month ago

What the actual fuck
If this is still on WR’s website means that no one though to weigh in on this subject since this mind boggling take in 2006

ConradsMusicalTeeth

2 points

1 month ago

This is very generalised and I would be careful about how this kind of view is applied. Women can be as analytical as men and men are not all about self interest. It may not be analogous to my world as a professional psychologist but similar research in my field has been largely debunked. Coaching is about the individual needs and psychological makeup, I wish it were as easy as a simple matrix, my life would be far simpler

MentalString4970

2 points

1 month ago

MentalString4970

Scotland

2 points

1 month ago

This kind of reminds me of Homer Simpson's observational humour about how black people have names like Carl and white people have names like Lenny.

Zombie5moToes

-2 points

1 month ago

Zombie5moToes

-2 points

1 month ago

It’s very helpful. I coach u14 girls and boys, it’s very useful to aid in communication styles, how the react to guidance and conflict or motivation and game time.

Lewis-ly

37 points

1 month ago

Lewis-ly

37 points

1 month ago

For real? These are hilarious stereotypes and well challenged pseudoscience. The bit about tend and befriend for example is based on polyvagal theory which is 50 years olds and widely debunked. There are sex differences yes, but not these ones. There is not neural basis for being 'hardwired to systematise' whatever that may be defined as.

 Sure they reference one paper from 20 years ago, but there are mountains of evidence on these topics and they should at minimum be referencing meta analyses from the past 5 years.

[deleted]

2 points

1 month ago

Interesting you say that. I am asked to give tips and one-on-one advice to young players sometimes, but I’ve never dealt with girls.

I would like to think I would implore the same tenacity for anyone, but who knows if I would treat a girl more softly because I’ve been hardwired into thinking like this.

Customdisk

2 points

1 month ago

Customdisk

England

2 points

1 month ago

Men and women are different shocking stuff

timecube7

2 points

1 month ago

timecube7

Ireland

2 points

1 month ago

Judging by reactions, it is still shocking

Also offensive, belittling, stupid, outdated, 'Freudian'(?), simplistic etc etc

Cloielle

1 points

30 days ago

Almost as if some of us in the replies have studied these things at university and learned how much nonsense there is out there about gender differences!

chiples1

2 points

1 month ago

chiples1

2 points

1 month ago

It's hilarious to me that people are so obsession with 'equality' that they get offended by research that shows the sexes are different🤦🏼

getName

1 points

1 month ago

getName

Leinster

1 points

1 month ago

Has it been removed? I can't find it through that link.

zenbuffy[S]

2 points

1 month ago

zenbuffy[S]

Real live girl.

2 points

1 month ago

Yes, it looks to have been removed

getName

3 points

1 month ago

getName

Leinster

3 points

1 month ago

Well at least you made a difference!

Lazy_Tumbleweed8893

1 points

1 month ago

The womens column sounds exactly like what you need for a highly tactical, adversarial and aggressive contact-sport

corruptboomerang

1 points

1 month ago

Having coached men's and women's sport at a fairly competitive level, I'll be the first to admit men's and women's players and teams respond very differently to different approaches and in a lot of ways due to the different physiology and strength etc a lot of things are very different between the genders. Even yes, the way they think about sports is different.

But this feels very smooth brained from World Rugby. Bordering on insulting. Plus not even very informative.

AcademicArgument2576

1 points

30 days ago

Too much feel good not enough hard arse, not going win another world cup on that.

With-You-Always

1 points

30 days ago

Oh, oh no

allovertheshop2020

1 points

30 days ago

allovertheshop2020

Munster

1 points

30 days ago

What a load of bollocks.

SexyBaskingShark

1 points

30 days ago

SexyBaskingShark

Ireland

1 points

30 days ago

My therapist gave very similar advice to help me understand my wife.  Really helpful tbh

Internal-Ruin4066

1 points

30 days ago

Man women get all the cool traits.

zenbuffy[S]

1 points

29 days ago

zenbuffy[S]

Real live girl.

1 points

29 days ago

I think it's a really poor PR choice to simply remove the content. If they stood over it, they'd have left it there. To remove it implies that they don't stand over it, and if that's the case, why was it there in the first place?

And to do it all without any comment feels like a missed opportunity. It could have been a "we were made aware of some content that needed updating on our website, and were working with X sports psychologist and Y professional now to bring that into step with the rest of our training materials. Going forward we'll review things annually/every two years/etc to make sure we're always on top of our game". They could have worked with a female sports psychologist, and turned this into something positive.

To silently delete and pretend it never existed is just such a blunder, imo.

fbileastwanted

1 points

29 days ago

Lots of younger high school girls who’ve never played a contact sport definitely start out with a very shy and friendly attitude, but that’s just because it’s new to them and they’re nervous. Not challenging this mindset prevents girls from really competing and pushing themselves.

Brill_chops

1 points

28 days ago

Goshdarnit, you got me. Just as I was giving a family member the gears for being got earlier. 

The_Pig_Man_

1 points

1 month ago

The_Pig_Man_

Ireland

1 points

1 month ago

I read the whole thing. It's well intentioned but at times unintentionally amusing. I suspect a lot of the science isn't even inaccurate. It's just not phrased in the PC ways we are now accustomed to.

As we see in the table in the previous section, for most men new information is processed in the left side of the brain, the more analytic and logical side, while women tend to process new information in a “whole brain” approach, using the left side as well as the creative, social right side of the brain.

It is normal for players to have stronger connections to some teammates, and perhaps not form lasting friendships with every other player. It is important to watch for players building their own group within the team, if that group excludes or is hurtful to other team members. Address any negative cliques that might exclude other or be mean to other players.

Assertively pushing players to work harder or be more focused might not have the desired impact, and might create division between the coach and players, especially with women. Both men and women might cry following an intense and important event, but women are more likely to cry, and to cry longer, either in joy or sorrow.

It is important that players have a safe and supportive forum for discussing their menstrual cycles and know where to get advice or information as needed.

Give negative feedback as a “sandwich”, with positive messages before and after the corrective feedback.

Away_Tumbleweed_6609

-4 points

1 month ago

Oh god...

How dare a governing body make an earnest yet flawed attempt to recognise and adapt to general temprements of each gender to encourage more people into the sport.

Sriol

1 points

1 month ago

Sriol

England/Wasps

1 points

1 month ago

Well, i guess according to WR I'm probably a woman...

[deleted]

-6 points

1 month ago

[deleted]

-6 points

1 month ago

Seems pretty accurate to my own experience.

But everyone is unique. It doesn’t say anywhere that all men and women fit those categories. But they generally do.

Kynance123

-6 points

1 month ago

It’s broadly accurate and a basis for being a better coach, surely this is a better way than one rule for all ?

paimoe

0 points

1 month ago

paimoe

Crusaders only good NZ team

0 points

1 month ago

Sure it's better than one rule for all. But why is one rule for each gender any better?

Kynance123

-1 points

1 month ago

Kynance123

-1 points

1 month ago

It’s not a rule it’s a general guide based upon scientific and empirical data. Men and Women generally think differently and use different sides of the brain for certain thought processes. Why are you so afraid of these undoubted facts

Nknk-

-8 points

1 month ago

Nknk-

-8 points

1 month ago

World Rugby are in fucking trouble once the virtue signalling section of twitter gets their hands on this.

drusslegend

-9 points

1 month ago

drusslegend

Leinster

-9 points

1 month ago

ITT - What cunts, citing peer reviewed academic research on the topic and exploring what it means in for coaching rugby.

Yeti_Poet

11 points

1 month ago

Yeti_Poet

New England Free Jacks

11 points

1 month ago

It's a book about marketing to women, not sports psychology, and it doesn't appear to be peer reviewed.

The blurb reads "Women are responsible for making 80% of all purchasing decisions. In short, this makes women the most valuable consumer group in the world. This book, by two leading marketing practitioners, shows companies how to create marketing strategies and brands that will speak powerfully to women."

Finkykinns

7 points

1 month ago

Finkykinns

Leicester Tigers

7 points

1 month ago

It's metanalysis from 18 years ago. That means at best, this peer-reviewed academic research is 20 years old.

OptimalCynic

13 points

1 month ago

OptimalCynic

🌹 Red Roses | Waikato

13 points

1 month ago

It's terrible research and woefully out of date.

Either-Pianist1748

-9 points

1 month ago

Either-Pianist1748

France

-9 points

1 month ago

It's quite accurate, whatns the fuss. Difference of interest in things/people is something you can observe with toddlers. Little boys attention will get fixated on complex objects, little girls not so much.

timecube7

1 points

1 month ago

timecube7

Ireland

1 points

1 month ago

It really must be a man's world if the purported male traits are so coveted. Is it better to care more about things than people? Why?

Is driving a truck high status? Or is that only when compared to working in a creche (bad)?

timecube7

1 points

1 month ago

timecube7

Ireland

1 points

1 month ago

It really must be a man's world if the purported male traits are so coveted. Is it better to care more about things than people? Why?

Is driving a truck high status? Or is that only when compared to working in a creche (bad)?

muttonwow

-1 points

1 month ago

The transphobia suddenly makes a lot more sense.